In the world of love, there is a popular saying, and that is the "three-month rule".
This law holds that three months is the litmus test of whether a relationship can last.
At this stage, the novelty between couples begins to fade and their true selves are gradually revealed, and this is a critical period to test whether both parties can adapt to each other and grow together.
This law seems to be drawn from people's observations and experiences of romantic relationships.
At this stage, many couples will experience a transition from passionate love to plain, and in this process, the true personalities, values and life Xi of both parties will gradually be revealed.
At this time, some small issues that were previously overlooked may become prominent or even become the fuse of quarrels.
For example, attitudes towards money, plans for the future, and even small details in daily life may become the focus of the run-in between the two parties.
At this stage, communication between couples is particularly important.
If both partners are able to express their feelings and needs openly and are willing to listen to each other, then the relationship has the potential to be strengthened.
Conversely, if both parties are stubborn and unwilling to compromise and adjust, the relationship is likely to break down.
Three months also means that it is an opportunity for self-reflection and growth.
In the early stages of a relationship, they often unconsciously put their best foot forward in order to attract and please each other.
But over time, this performance is often unsustainable.
At this time, everyone needs to ask themselves:
Can I accept the other person's imperfections?
Am I willing to put more effort into the relationship?
If the answer is yes, then the relationship has the potential to be a wonderful journey.
Some couples may identify each other as "that person" within three months, while others may take longer to build that trust and understanding.
It is important that no matter what stage the relationship is at, both parties should remain open and honest and willing to work for the common well-being.
In today's fast-paced society, it's easy to expect quick results for everything.
But patience and persistence are very valuable qualities in a relationship.
True love takes time to nurture and maintain.
It is not only a momentary passion and happiness, but also a long-term companionship and mutual support.
Three months is also a matter of choice and decision.
At this stage, there may be a choice between whether or not to continue the relationship.
This decision should not be based solely on momentary feelings, but should be a deliberate process.
Take into account the compatibility, goals and visions of both parties, and whether you can overcome difficulties and challenges together.
May every relationship thrive on the test of time, and may everyone find their own happiness in the journey of love.