When Xiao Ya returned home, her five-year-old daughter Xiaoxiao shouted at her again: "Mom, I haven't eaten enough at night, I'm hungry!."”
Xiao Ya got off work late at night, the company was far away from home, and it was already half past seven in the evening when she got home every day.
She usually doesn't eat dinner, only drinks a glass of milk or soy milk at night, and her husband Yan Wei eats outside.
Only her mother-in-law and daughter Xiaoxiao ate at home at night.
Xiao Ya asked Xiaoxiao if she didn't eat well at night, and Xiaoxiao said, I don't like to eat the food cooked by grandma!
Xiao Ya said that good children are not picky eaters!Xiaoxiao cried very aggrieved, saying that I don't like to eat pickles!
Eating pickles?Xiao Ya glanced at her mother-in-law and asked her what she had at night
My mother-in-law said that she doesn't like to eat anything I do!I didn't say anything about what I ate.
Xiao Ya walked into the kitchen and saw only a small plate of pickles and a bowl of white porridge on the stove.
She endured her anger and made a bowl of noodles for her daughter, and she was very distressed to watch her daughter gobble up.
Seeing that her daughter was thinner than before, she thought that she should really talk to her mother-in-law!
It was already nine o'clock in the evening when Yan Wei got home, and Xiao Ya said, do you think Xiaoxiao has changed?
What happened to Xiaoxiao?Yan Wei asked. Xiao Ya said, your daughter has lost so much weight, haven't you noticed?
Yan Wei looked at his sleeping daughter and said that nothing has changed!Xiao Ya said that when I came back tonight, she cried that she was hungry, and then cried that she didn't want to eat pickles!
Xiaoxiao eats at school at noon in the morning and goes home to eat at night, several times, and when I come back, she shouts that she is hungry. One time I bought her a cake that was so big, and she ate it all when I came back!
I asked my mother-in-law what she ate at night, and she only said that she didn't like to eat anything Xiaoxiao didn't like, and she didn't say what she ate!I saw only a small plate of pickles and white porridge on the stove!
The child is growing physically, and nutrition must keep up. You talk to your mother-in-law, let her cook more carefully at night, don't be fooled, and ensure the child's nutrition!
Yan Wei said, what do you mean, do you mean that my mother treats Xiaoxiao badly, or does she deliberately abuse her and not give her food?
Xiao Ya said, I didn't say that she was bad to Xiaoxiao, nor did I say that she abused her!I want her not to eat all day and take care of the children!
Yan Wei got angry and said that my mother is not as bad as you say, she is in pain with Xiaoxiao!If you think she doesn't take good care of her, then you take care of it yourself!
Xiao Ya said, I'm not saying that my mother-in-law doesn't love her, I'm saying that my mother-in-law's living habits are not conducive to the growth of children!She is growing her body now and needs to eat!
Yan Wei said, didn't my mother give her food, and you are used to her when your child is picky eater!My mother picks up and drops off the children every day, and she has to clean up the housework, which is hard enough, you don't say thank her, but also find fault with her everywhere!
Xiao Ya couldn't make sense with him, in Yan Wei's eyes, his mother was the most perfect, and no one could say a word bad!
Xiao Ya said, so be it!Tomorrow night we both take leave, Xiaoxiao gets out of school at five o'clock, and we get home at six o'clock to see what our daughter eats at night!
In the afternoon of the next day, Xiao Ya reminded Yan Wei to ask for leave, and at 5:40, the two of them returned home.
Xiaoxiao and her mother-in-law were eating, and there was only a plate of pickled cucumbers and white water clear soup noodles on the table, one bowl per person!
Hurry up and eat, grandma will take you out to play after eating!The mother-in-law urged Xiaoxiao first, Xiaoxiao hummed and said that she didn't want to eat.
When my mother-in-law saw them coming back, she was a little embarrassed and said that I saw that you made a lot of noodles for her yesterday, so I cooked noodles for her.
Xiao Ya made egg noodles yesterday, there are eggs, ham, and green vegetables in them, she only has noodles, not even salt!
Yan Wei glanced at it and stopped talking, Xiaoxiao wanted to cry when she saw her parents. Yan Wei said, what do you want to eat, Xiaoxiao said that she wants to eat fried chicken burger.
Yan Wei ordered takeout for his daughter, and then said to his mother: "Mom, I know you also hurt Xiaoxiao, but the child is growing up, and eating this is not nutritious!."”
The mother-in-law said, "You also ate this when you were young, and you didn't even have pickled cucumbers, and you didn't grow so big!."”
How can it be compared to before?Before, there was none, but now that I have everything, I have to give my children better food.
She ate well at school one day, and she also ate well when she was at home on the weekends, just two people, just fool around!The mother-in-law still disagreed.
Xiao Ya said, we work hard to earn money, but also for our daughter's better life, if we work hard outside for a day, but our daughter can't get a good life, then what's the point of our efforts?
If the child does not eat or drink well, it will affect her resistance. If she doesn't eat well, she is also prone to illness, and if she dares to catch a cold, it will cost a lot of money to take medicine and injections!
Xiao Ya said, you are also older and need nutrition, but Xiaoxiao needs it even more!In the future, no matter how many people there are in the family, you must cook nutritious meals.
The mother-in-law lowered her head, was silent for a while, and said, I will take good care of Xiaoxiao in the future, make what she wants to eat every day, and ensure her nutrition!
Since then, her mother-in-law will take care of Xiaoxiao's taste when she cooks at night, cooking nutritious and delicious meals for her, Xiaoxiao has never shouted that she is hungry again, and her little face has become round.
When a family lives together, we must communicate well, tolerate each other, and make everything clear, so that there will be no estrangement!