In the past, when I saw some people on the Internet saying how bad their mother-in-law was, I would scoff at it and think that those women were not tolerant.
But since I brought my mother-in-law to the city where we live on the National Day, I have found that getting along with people is not as simple as I imagined.
In the past, my mother-in-law has been living in the countryside, and we all go back during the Spring Festival, although my mother-in-law is sloppy and the home is very unhygienic, but it will only be a few days, and it will pass.
In May this year, my father-in-law passed away, and my husband, as the only son in the family, insisted on taking my mother-in-law to the city to live with me, because the house we bought in Hangzhou was 89 square meters, with three bedrooms and one living room, and two toilets. The mother-in-law should be able to live with it, but at that time, the mother-in-law planted wheat and said that she would wait until the wheat was harvested.
Later, when we went home on National Day, we brought her to the city.
After my mother-in-law came to my house, within three days, I was a little impatient, if it wasn't for my husband's repeated persuasion, I would have turned against my mother-in-law a long time ago.
If it weren't for my urging, my mother-in-law would never take a bath, wash her hair, or brush her teeth, and when she walked past her, she would smell a bad smell. She doesn't flush after going to the toilet, and every time I go to her toilet, I find that the urine and urine are all there, which is disgusting.
I've told her so many times, and she doesn't listen. In my impression, my mother-in-law is a person who doesn't like to talk very much, but after getting in touch with her, I realized that her personality is particularly stubborn.
My husband and I both go to work, the child picks up and drops off by herself, and asks her to cook dinner, she always does it according to her own taste, either spicy or salty, and whether it is meat or vegetarian, she has to put peppercorns, and I am particularly disgusted with eating peppercorns, but no matter what I say, she is still the same old side.
Every time she eats food at the table, she sneezes, all at the dish in front of her, not hiding it at all, eating a piece of meat, she bites off half of the fat, and then puts it in for my son to eat.
Sometimes my mother-in-law also washes clothes, I teach her many times, how to operate the washing machine, but she just can't learn, I guess she is too much electricity, all by hand, but when washing clothes, she puts everyone's underwear and outer clothes together, and washes them twice at most, and there is a lot of foam in the water, so she takes it out to dry. If I say two more words, she will get angry.
In my mother-in-law's room, now I am like a pig's nest, I used to help her tidy up, but now I don't bother to care, there is really everything on the bed, those summer clothes, she is also piled on the head of the bed, she could have slept in a bed for two people, and now the remaining space, she sleeps alone is a little crowded.
Seriously, every time I came home from work before, I was happy, but now, when I think of my mother-in-law after work, my head is big, and my whole person has become a little depressed.
In December, the weather was getting colder and colder, and I was worried that my child (in the first grade) would catch a cold, so I turned on the floor heating, but because of the floor heating and air conditioning, I had already quarreled with my mother-in-law five times.
On Saturdays and Sundays, my son and mother-in-law were at home, but my mother-in-law resolutely did not turn on the floor heating, not even the air conditioner, I asked her, she said that Hangzhou is not cold, much warmer than her hometown.
But every night when she sleeps, she has to sleep with an electric blanket, the quilt is covered with all kinds of clothes, and her mother-in-law carries it like this, and she carries herself until she gets sick, and last Tuesday, her mother-in-law caught a cold, she was chills all over, and she kept coughing, and then her husband used a thermometer to measure, and it reached 41 degrees, and finally her mother-in-law couldn't bear it, so she asked her husband to take her to the hospital to see a doctor.
In the hospital, my mother-in-law hung up salt water for five days, and as a result, she spent nearly 1,000 yuan at her own expense, which was enough for my family's electricity bill for two months.
After the mother-in-law**, she saw the old public heating, she would scold, I turned it on, she would turn it off, I told her that it was actually more wasteful of electricity, but she couldn't listen to it at all.
As a result, four days ago, my son also caught a cold, and due to his body temperature, he couldn't go to school for three days, which made my son suffer a lot.
Yesterday, my mother-in-law and my husband's uncle were in the mobile phone**, saying that I was just a day, wasting money everywhere, it was cold, it was not enough to wear two more clothes, and I had to turn on the floor heating, etc., she also said that there was nothing in my hometown in the past, more than ten degrees below zero, and I couldn't stand the cold, so I hugged the firewood and roasted it, and the winter did not pass the same ......
After listening to her words, I can't wait to sweep her out of the house directly, my husband and I have a lot of income, and the economic conditions permit, who doesn't want to make themselves comfortable.
Now, no matter what my mother-in-law does, she has upset me, she has almost become a thorn in my flesh, and I told my husband that next spring, no matter what, I will send her back to my hometown, and I have enough of such days!
In your family, is there such an unreliable mother-in-law?