"Growing Sideways" tells the lives of two women born in the countryside. Their lives are neither magnificent nor full of ups and downs, both of them have struggled in their long lives, and finally returned to dust, just like most of us ordinary people.
Ran Yingzi and Li Fengxiang, one is indomitable, enthusiastic and unrestrained;A person who abides by stereotypes and forbears all his life is famous.
Ran Yingzi is a person who has lived his life for himself vigorously. She is a beauty, with a pair of peach blossom eyes, looking forward to flowing water, low eyes, round hooks at the corners of her eyes, and upturned tails of her eyes, which looks particularly charming. Although he grew up in the countryside, he had no teacher since he was a child, and he loved to dress up, dyed his nails with trumpet flowers, pulled the flower heads, and the buds were facing down, so he made a pair of natural earrings for himself.
Although born in rural China in the middle of the last century, Ran Yingzi broke free from all kinds of moral shackles in the countryside and lived a warm and unrestrained life.
In the countryside where everyone follows the rules and abides by women's morals, Ran Yingzi shows her thin waist, pampering herself to her heart's content, and showing her beauty;
She is obsessed with Feng Qingyun, who "does not belong to crops, blacksmiths, cattle, horses and sheep, and villages" in the art troupe. Regardless of the world's vision, he followed Feng Qingyun who was on tour everywhere. And when Feng Qingyun finally began to be infatuated with her and asked him to sign up for the art troupe and go to the city, Ran Yingzi found that she was not infatuated with Feng Qingyun, she just liked this feeling of being in the spotlight and leading the **. Ran Yingzi slapped Feng Qingyun, who was annoyed and angry after being rejected, and regained his degraded self-esteem.
Ran Yingzi used a trick to reject Fang Yongjun, who was in a very superior rural area at that time, and turned his head to have a head and end with Li Jingqing, an old bachelor who fed pigs on the pig farm. After an unexpected pregnancy, she rejected the entangled Fang Yongjun, and then hurriedly married the ugly man Zhao Dashun. After marrying Zhao Dashun, he rolled together with ten-year-old Zhou Weimin. Zhao Dashun ** attracted the villagers, and under the anger of the masses, Zhao Dashun was half-paralyzed for life in order to save Ran Yingzi.
Later, Ran Yingzi, who is in her sixties, is still in full swing, longing for love and passion. She swept away all her daughter's more than two million and ran away with a man twenty years younger than her. After the money was cheated out, he went crazy and went missing.
Compared with Ran Yingzi, Li Fengxiang's life is lackluster. She is the good daughter of her parents, and the concept of three obedience, four virtues, and one end in the old society firmly controls her body and mind. She sees love, lust, and sex as beasts of prey, and is ashamed to proclaim them. She spent most of her life in widowhood, abiding by women's morals, and taking pride in it. The body's normal physical desires made her ashamed and ashamed. She locked herself firmly in the old ideas that her parents had instilled in her, and all her life she swallowed her anger, never out of line, and never stepped on a wrong step.
Ran Yingzi represents a very small minority in society. They may be selfish, they may be indifferent, but they are enthusiastic and unrestrained, and they are people who have truly lived for themselves all their lives.
Li Fengxiang represents the majority of people in society. They stay in all kinds of rules and regulations, never out of line, never break through, other people's eyes are knives, and the gossip of everyone is fire, it seems that if they are slightly out of line, the knife and fire will attack, as if they have actually cut off their own flesh and blood, and make the cowardly soul tremble.
Creative Inspiration Center Li Fengxiang can finally admit in her old age that she feels shameful of sex and lust just because she thinks someone cares about her. And age has made her gradually peel off this idea. She's old, she's getting old, who will watch her show?She can finally admit that her life has been a long performance, growing sideways in the fragile cracks of shame, thinking that she is important and finally realizing that she is not important at all, not even to her children. Ran Yingzi once asked Li Fengxiang: "Sister Fengxiang, you are precious, you are precious, your life - are you worth it?"Are you having a good time?”
There is only one life, and everyone can only come to the world once. If you are wronged, is it worth it to live a life of resignedness?Interesting?