It is a relatively common phenomenon that high school children do not want to go to school, which may involve many reasons such as learning pressure, interpersonal relationships, and interest cultivation. As a parent, how can you enlighten your children and help them regain their motivation and confidence in learning?Here are some suggestions:
1.Find out what your child really thinks
First of all, parents should fully communicate with their children to understand the real reasons why they do not want to go to school. Is it because of high academic pressure, or because of a bad relationship with classmates, or because you are not interested in a certain subject?Only by understanding the child's real thoughts can we enlighten them in a targeted manner.
2.Pay attention to your child's mental health
High school students are in adolescence and have a lot of psychological pressure. Parents should pay attention to their children's mental health and discover and solve their psychological problems in a timely manner. Children can be encouraged to participate in extracurricular activities, such as sports, clubs, etc., to relieve the pressure of learning;You can also seek the help of a professional psychologist if needed.
3.Establish the right values
Parents should guide their children to establish correct values and let them understand the meaning and importance of learning. You can share your own experience and insights with your children, so that they can realize that learning is not only for exams and further education, but also to improve their overall quality and lay a foundation for their future life.
4.Cultivate children's self-directed learning ability
Parents should pay attention to their children's learning methods and habits to help them develop their independent learning ability. It can guide children to make a reasonable study plan, learn to arrange time reasonably, and improve learning efficiency. At the same time, children should be encouraged to think independently and develop problem-solving skills.
5.Stimulate children's interest in learning
Interest is the best teacher. Parents should pay attention to their children's interests and hobbies, and try to create conditions for them to develop their strengths. Children can be encouraged to participate in various competitions, practical activities, etc., to improve their overall quality. At the same time, it is necessary to pay attention to the children's mastery of various subjects, and provide guidance for weak links to help them regain their confidence in learning.
6.Adjust the way education is conducted
Each child's personality and learning style are different, and parents should adjust their education methods appropriately according to their children's characteristics. For introverted children, parents should give more care and encouragement;For active children, parents should cultivate their patience and concentration. At the same time, it is necessary to avoid excessive interference in children's learning life and give them enough freedom and space.
7.Maintain family harmony
Family harmony has a great impact on a child's development. Parents should maintain harmony in family relationships and avoid conflicts and conflicts arising from learning problems. Learn to understand and tolerate children, and give them enough love and support. At the same time, parents themselves should maintain a good attitude and set an example for their children.
8.Maintain good communication with the school
Parents should maintain good communication with their child's teachers to understand their child's performance and situation in school. You can participate in parent-teacher meetings regularly, or communicate with teachers through **, WeChat, etc., to pay attention to your child's learning and progress. At the same time, it is necessary to respect the teacher's education method and actively cooperate with the school's educational work.
9.Give praise and encouragement at the right time
When children make progress in their studies, parents should give timely praise and encouragement to stimulate their motivation to learn. Praise and rewards can be verbal or practical, such as buying a book or toy. At the same time, it is necessary to avoid excessive criticism and punishment so as not to affect the child's confidence in learning.
10.Be confident and patient
The process of educating high school children who don't want to go to school can be a long-term process, and parents need to be confident and patient. Trust your child's ability to overcome difficulties and make progress. In the process of enlightenment, parents should remain calm and rational, and avoid excessive criticism and punishment of children because of momentary mood swings.
In short, to enlighten high school children who do not want to go to school, parents need to start from many aspects, pay attention to their children's mental health, learning methods, interest cultivation, etc., fully communicate with their children, and give care and support. Only in this way can children regain their motivation and confidence to learn, and lay a solid foundation for future development.
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