The phenomenon of adolescent children's boredom in school has repeatedly appeared in many parents' educational environments, and in response to this situation, parents must remain calm and never have a hard time with their children. Here are some lessons to share with you on how to deal with a child who doesn't want to go to school during the betrayal period.
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How to educate children who don't want to go to school during the rebellious period?
1. Understand the child's real feelings.
When a child indicates that they don't want to go to school, the first thing we need to do is to understand how they really feel. There may be a variety of reasons why a child may be dissatisfied or resistant to school. They may find the Xi content on campus boring, stressful, or have suffered unpleasant experiences on campus. We need to listen patiently to their complaints and troubles, understand their feelings, and try to understand the problem from their point of view.
2. Reduce your child's stress.
The best way for children to be bored with school is to reduce the pressure on children, if parents put too much pressure on their children, resulting in children's lack of spare time and preferences, and then school boredom, parents should reflect on themselves, do not add pressure to children, learn to help children release pressure, and give children a relaxed and happy learning and Xi environment, which will be more beneficial to children's growth and learning Xi.
3. Don't set too high a policy for your child.
Parents who did not realize their wishes when they were young always pin their love on their children and set too high guidelines for their children, which can only cause frustration and confrontation in children, and even hit children, causing children to have an inferiority complex. We should formulate practical and effective policies according to the children's talents, increase the children's self-confidence, and let the children gradually reach the parents' ideas when they succeed together.
4. Encourage preferences and preferences.
Rebellious children are often tired of the Xi content on campus, and we can stimulate their enthusiasm for learning Xi by encouraging their preferences and preferences. We can help them find and develop their expertise and talents, so that they can feel fulfilled in the areas they feel and like. In this way, children will associate school and Xi with positive experiences and joys, adding to their positive attitude towards school.
Reasons why children don't want to go to school because they don't want to go to school:
1. Excessive academic pressure: Children may feel a lot of pressure in school or exams, and they may be worried about failure or poor performance. This may lead them to adopt evasive strategies, such as faking illness to avoid these situations.
2. Dissatisfaction with the school environment or classmates: Children may encounter problems with the school environment or classmates, such as bullying, friendship problems, etc.
3. Lack of preference or motivation: Children may feel bored or lack motivation for the Xi content on campus, so they choose to avoid school and exams.
5. Parents' high standards and strict requirements for their children: This may cause children to be stressed and anxious, and children will show some "somatization symptoms" to seek the attention of parents or avoid pressure.