Less than two months after I got married, I gradually found that Liu Ming had changed into a different person, and began to make all kinds of demands that I could not accept.
Jingjing, I think you should quit your current job and go with me to my company's Shanghai branch for development. One day after dinner, Liu Ming suddenly said.
Why did I quit my job and go to Shanghai with you?I asked in surprise.
The business volume of the Shanghai branch has expanded a lot recently, and it is short of manpower. How nice it is that you and I can work for two people in the past, and we can live together. Liu Ming said as a matter of course.
But my job is also very important, and I am slowly accumulating customer resources, and it is difficult to find the same opportunity after quitting. "Besides, we've only been married for two months, so changing cities so often is not good for newlyweds." ”
You're a girl's family, what's the use of making that little money!The cost of living in Shanghai is expensive, so I have to have an extra income in the past. Liu Ming said impatiently.
I'm surprised that Liu Ming would say such a thing, didn't we all agree when we got married, both of us agreed that both parties' work is important, and we will understand and support each other?But now that he hasn't been back to his hometown for a month, he expects me to cooperate with his work arrangement unconditionally.
Liu Ming, I thought that our marriage was because the two of us went hand in hand, not that I was only an affiliate of yours. My career is also important and should not be given up casually. "I try to express my thoughts as tactfully as possible.
What the big man says counts!Why are you talking back to me, this woman?!Liu Ming's voice raised, and his face turned red.
I was taken aback by his sudden anger, and thought to myself that what I was doing was wrong, I was just expressing my thoughts normally. How did this Liu Ming suddenly change as if he was a person, he used to be a gentle and elegant man, but now he is often unreasonable. Could it be that after the newlywed Yan'er, he finally showed his true colors?
Liu Ming, calm down, let's discuss it. I really don't want to quarrel over such a trivial matter. I tried to soften my tone.
Do you still want to discuss?Just do what I say!Otherwise, I'll work overtime every night, and you'll just wait at home!Liu Ming pushed away the chair and stood up, and said to me in a commanding tone.
You give me less!What, you didn't want me when you just got married?!I can't even concentrate on work, I'm so angry with you!Liu Ming interrupted me loudly, and kicked the table leg crookedly, making a loud noise.
You look like an uncivilized caveman!I couldn't take it anymore and choked. Tears swirled in his eyes, but he still held back and didn't fall. I took a deep breath, turned back to my bedroom, and slammed the door slammed.
After a long while, Liu Ming pushed the door in, his expression had returned to calm. He sat on the edge of the bed, pretending to be gentle, and his tone softened: "Jingjing, I was too emotional just now, and I said something excessive, don't take it to heart." I'm also a quick talker, but I actually care about you and respect your work. ”
I turned my back to him and said coldly, "I need time to think about the problem between us, you can go out first." ”
Jingjing, listen to my explanation, I didn't mean that attitude, it was too much work pressure, and I couldn't bear it. Liu Ming saw that I was unmoved, and changed to a pleading tone.
Your pressure has nothing to do with me, but you are angry with me, and that speaks for itself. "I still had my back to him.
Baby, let's calm down and have a good talk. This misunderstanding must be solvable, right?Liu Ming stretched out his hand to think about **'s hair, but I avoided it.
There's nothing to talk about, you obviously acquiesce in the supremacy of husband and demand unconditional obedience. It's a far cry from my values. "I calmly point this out.
Okay, I'm tired, let's talk about it tomorrow. You go back to your house for a few days and give each other some space. I interrupted him, not wanting to hear any more explanations.
Quietly, don't be like this, I admit my mistake, we'll be fine when we wake up. Liu Ming's tone began to be a little urgent.
I got up and went to open the closet and pulled out a small box: "Here are some of your daily necessities and clothes, you can take them and stay for a few days." ”
What do you mean?We've only been married for two months, and you're going to kick me away?Liu Ming finally became anxious and raised his voice to question.
Just for a moment, we all need to be calm. I try to be as concise as possible.
Li Jing, you are so ruthless!I bow my head to you and admit that you are wrong, and you don't give you a chance, doesn't our marriage have any weight in your heart?Liu Ming's volume rose to roar.
I still calmly said to him, "I'm tired, you can go." Then he turned and went into the bathroom, locked the door, and shut out his questions.
Outside the door, Liu Ming shouted again, smashing the door loudly. I know that this is the true portrayal of my married life with Liu Ming. A man who is violent, selfish, and lacks rational thinking cannot be a good husband and father.
Maybe, I shouldn't have married Liu Ming in the first place. But as a girl, if you don't get married at this age, you will be talked about by your family and relatives. Now it seems that a perfect marriage on face cannot hide the seriousness of the problem at all.