Hello everyone, I am Guo Wei's mother who loves to read, and today I am reading "People like me should live a brilliant life".
It is a growth book written by young writer Brother Qing to every working woman, and it allows us to see a positive, optimistic, and always upward outstanding person. Let us feel that people like me should be sober, rich, brave, free, and outstanding.
The articles in this book are easy to understand and suitable for all people to read. I really like some of the headings in it that can be used as opinions, such as "Don't be greedy, only do what you can do", "Be sure to stand in the world you love and shine", "Do not be replaced, then be irreplaceable", "You will eventually become who you are becoming". "It's cool to have the courage to live a small minority", "The body has a fragrance, and the soul is alive and beautiful", these ideas have touched my heart deeply.
In our lives, although there are many people who say that they are "lying flat", rotten, and "rolling" are not moving, in fact, many people are just talking about it, and they are still working secretly in private.
Therefore, if we want to stand out from the ordinary and not be left behind and surpassed by our peers, we must make ourselves stronger, and then we need to lurk and secretly exert force.
Through the sharing in the book, we can know that we must make ourselves stronger. First of all, we need to establish a clear understanding of ourselves, and we can improve ourselves in terms of knowledge, skills, and ability to obtain information.
Secondly, when we can't lie down and can't "roll", we have to learn to lurk. How to lurk?
The body is latent. The body is the capital of the revolution, and without a healthy body, there is nothing else. It's okay to exercise more, maintain more, and make yourself a healthy and beautiful woman.
Learn to lurk. The world of the future belongs to those who are lifelong learners. It is necessary to read more books, read more professional books, let yourself settle in a certain field, and become a senior scholar in a certain field. For example, the current short **, AI creation, etc.
Consumption lurking. Now there is too much uncertainty, and we may lose our income one day, and then we have to eat our old capital. Therefore, when we still have income, we must save more money, and when we consume, we can save money, and we must think clearly before buying, whether it is necessary to buy. Don't buy it unless it's required.
Funds are lurking. When investing or starting a business, you must be cautious and not too casual. The same is true for self-starting, when you don't have a mature monetization model, don't invest too much money in advertising or drainage. When we buy courses to study, we also have to think about how to earn back the tuition fees.
Emotions lurk. Instead of worrying about tomorrow, live the present.
Just like now, because my father fell and injured himself, he didn't read the paper book and post the review in time for more than a week, and several of them were delayed, and I was worried that I might never have the opportunity to read the free paper book again.
The author says: Do not be anxious about tomorrow, for tomorrow will have its own worries;One day's difficulties, one day's responsibility is enough, life is not easy, live in the moment.
So, what I can do now is to hurry up and finish reading and commenting on the few books at hand. As for the future, I'll talk about it later, it's useless to worry about it now.
Finally, be the one who loves yourself the most and shines brightly.
Dress up beautifully every day, keep in shape, maintain body odor, and then maintain a good mood, reduce ineffective socialization, and optimize living habits.
It shows the professional accomplishment that a professional woman should have: she can manage her emotions well, speak in a measured manner, be professional, kind and sharp.
Be the most maverick and live out your own colors and characteristics.
At this time, I suddenly remembered my favorite quote from my school days: "Go your own way and let others do it!".”
At that time, I was always different, I seemed very lonely, and I was a freak in everyone's eyes.
While others go on dates in droves, I go to the library alone;When others go to climb the mountain in groups on weekends, I go to the supermarket to work part-time alone to earn living expensesWhen everyone borrows books and reads books, others look at romance, but I look at personal growth and professional textbooksWhile my roommates were spending time taking care of their skin and makeup every day, I was playing finger chess or writing a space log.
I'm just that unsociable, I'm just that maverick. But at that time, I was the best among them, and I was much more confident and dazzling than them in my studies and interviews.
But now?I have completely lost my self with a full-time child, and my self-confidence, aura and pride have been wiped out bit by bit by life.
I thought, it's time to be yourself.
In 2024, people like me should be themselves, and be the self that is confident, abundant, brave, free, outstanding, and maverick.