Marriage is a sacred and beautiful thing, it represents the love and commitment of two people. However, some people distort the essence of marriage because of the so-called "face", and even pay a heavy price. So, to what extent can marriage be distorted for the sake of so-called face?
When many people get married, they always like to compare themselves to others. When you see someone else holding a grand wedding, you must spend a lot of money to hold a more luxurious wedding;When you see someone else buying a car or a house, you must have a car and a house. This kind of blind comparison psychology will not only make people lose themselves, but also make marriage no longer sacred.
Everyone wants their marriage to be perfect, but in fact, no marriage is perfect. If you pursue perfection too much, you will have too high expectations and demands on the other person. This practice will not only make you feel tired and disappointed, but it will also make the other person feel stressed and dissatisfied.
Some people will see the evaluation of others as their own face. If someone is pointing fingers at your marriage, you will feel very uncomfortable. This mindset will not only make you lose control of your marriage, but it will also make the other person feel constrained and depressed.
Marriage is not about face, it is not for showing others. It is love and commitment between two people that needs to be managed and maintained with care. If you're still twisting your marriage for the sake of so-called face, then stop and think: Are you really happy?If you truly love each other, let go of vanity and cherish each other's feelings. Let's work together to manage and maintain our marriage!Marriage