I have always believed that the harmony of a family is more important than anything else. However, when I found out that both of my daughters-in-law felt that I was biased, I felt extremely distressed and confused.
And it came to pass that I had two sons, and they each married two virtuous daughters-in-law. I have always tried to be fair and give them the same love and support. Recently, however, I found out that they all felt that I was better for another daughter-in-law and that I was partial.
This confused me a lot, and I started to reflect on my own behavior and try to figure out the source of the problem. I began to pay more attention to my words and actions, and try to treat every daughter-in-law fairly.
However, the solution to the problem is not as simple as I thought. Whenever I try to compensate for my partiality, the other daughter-in-law feels neglected. I felt so much pain that I didn't know what to do.
I decided to talk to them openly and honestly and listen to their thoughts and feelings. They told me that they didn't want me to give them more material support, but that I wanted to pay more attention to their emotional needs and give them more care and understanding.
When I heard this, I felt extremely guilty. I realized that I had neglected their emotional needs in the past and not given them enough care and understanding. I decided to change myself and try to be a better mother-in-law.
I started to reach out to them and care about their lives and emotional needs. I try to treat each of my daughters-in-law fairly and give them the same care and support. I learned to listen to them, respect their choices, and give them enough freedom and space.
Gradually, our relationship began to improve. They no longer feel that I am partial, but that I care about and support them. Our family is filled with harmony and joy again.
I learned a lot through this experience. I learned that family harmony does not depend only on material support, but also on emotional communication and care. I learned to listen and respect, and I learned to treat everyone fairly.
Now, I can tell you that when you find out that your family feels that you are biased, don't run away from it, don't ignore it. Instead, you should be brave enough to face the problem and look for a solution to it. Remember, you have the power to change yourself, and you have the wisdom to find solutions. You can bring your family back into harmony for as long as you want.