In modern society, many women have successful careers and high social status.
Many men have to stop at appreciating such women because they are too good and too powerful, and they dare not pursue them rashly.
In fact, to conquer a woman, you only need to show up when she needs you the most.
There are three times when women need you the most.
01 When she needs support
I remember that there was a scene in the TV series "The Secret History of Xiaozhuang" fighting for the throne.
Huang Taiji followed his favorite concubine Hai Lanzhu and died of illness, leaving the throne vacant and no heir designated.
At this time, there were two princes who were most qualified to inherit, one was Bomugol, the son of the concubine, and the other was Fulin, the son of Concubine Zhuang.
Who succeeds to the throne depends mainly on who Dolgon, Prince Rui, supports.
Dolgon eventually chose to support Fu Lin's succession, supporting Concubine Zhuang when she needed support the most.
After Fulin succeeded to the throne, Dolgon also became the regent as he wished, not only taking a step forward in power, but also taking a step closer in his relationship with Concubine Zhuang's eldest jade.
The friendship between the two has sublimated from their youth to a real business partner and spiritual confidant.
If you want to conquer the woman you want spiritually, you have to choose to support her unconditionally when she needs her most.
When she needs support the most, you become her support, and you are her sense of security.
02 When she seeks affirmation
Jane Austen is a well-known British female writer, she never married in her life, and the movie "Becoming Jane Austen" is based on her life.
Jane Austen had always believed that she could support herself with writing, but her parents and friends were not optimistic about her idea.
Influenced by the social environment at that time, the best way out for a young woman was to marry a rich man to ensure that she would have no worries about food and clothing for the rest of her life.
Jane Austen's ideas and practices became what people called the other, who were amazed by her talent and built a thick wall of the world around her.
Austen's frustration can be imagined, and she desperately needs someone to agree with her ideas, her practices, and her talents.
Lefroy, who appeared at this time, saw an unusual side of Austen, and he was not frightened by this rebellious woman, on the contrary, he admired her and felt that she was different.
He affirmed her talent, recognized her ideas and practices, and even gave up the low-hanging glory and wealth in order to be with her.
This is the only love in Jane Austen's life, and it is also the most unforgettable.
Although the two have not been able to stay together for a lifetime, the two are each other's soul mates.
To love someone is to learn to affirm her, because your affirmation is the best compliment to her.
03 When she was confused
My best friend works very hard and seriously, but recently she suddenly quit her job and changed careers to start a yoga studio.
Talking about the reason for her resignation, she felt that she had encountered the ceiling of the workplace, and she couldn't rise no matter how hard she tried, and she was disheartened.
In addition, the new leader did not appreciate her and often gave her small shoes to wear, and she felt that her efforts over the years had become a bubble.
She told me that she boarded the bus to the company that day and the smell of human flesh made her want to vomit.
She went home and told her husband about this feeling, and her husband asked her:
Do you want to do something related to your hobby, such as opening a yoga studio?”
My best friend has always been a yoga enthusiast, and she also obtained the qualification of a yoga instructor at the beginning of the year.
She eventually opened a yoga studio with the encouragement of her husband and the help of many friends.
When I had a small reunion with my girlfriend a few days ago, my girlfriend's face was full of red light and she was full of confidence in her future.
When a woman is confused, if you can help her find her direction, then she will definitely double her trust and affection for you.
The intimacy of mentorship and friendship will allow both parties in the relationship to grow together and become close partners on the road of life.
If you want to succeed in chasing a woman, or add to an existing intimate relationship, then support a woman when she needs support.
When she needs affirmation, you have to affirm her sincerely;When she is confused, you have to accompany her in time, help her find her future path, and accompany her on the way.
True love is unconditional support, sincere recognition, and warm companionship.
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