In the process of growing up, it is inevitable that we will encounter situations of being bullied and beaten. Different children will react differently to this situation. Some children will choose to resist, while others will choose to suffer in silence. So, how will these two different reactions affect your child's future?
First, children who choose to rebel usually have a stronger sense of self-protection and self-confidence. They will not flinch easily in the face of threats and challenges, but will courageously stand up for their rights and interests. As such children grow up, they will gradually develop a bold, determined, and independent personality. They are more likely to be an assertive, leadership person who is able to face life's challenges bravely.
Children who choose not to resist may develop a negative and cowardly personality. They often lack self-confidence, are afraid to express their opinions and needs, and are always afraid of conflict with others. In their future lives, such children may become introverted, withdrawn, and lack the ability to communicate and cooperate with others. They can miss out on a lot of opportunities and, in some cases, even hurt more.
In addition, children who choose to rebel often develop a positive self-protection mechanism. They learn how to identify hazards, how to protect against them, and thus better protect themselves. This increased self-protection ability will not only help children avoid bullying at school, but also help them better cope with various safety issues in their future lives.
Children who choose not to resist may develop a negative self-protection mechanism. They may avoid conflict with others by avoiding, withdrawing, and this negative way of coping tends to lead them into a more passive situation. In the future of life, they may become overly cautious, timid, and miss out on many opportunities.
To sum up, the gap between children who "resist" and "don't" may be very large in the future. Children who choose to rebel often develop a more positive, courageous personality and are better able to cope with life's challenges and safety issues;Children who choose not to rebel may develop a negative and cowardly personality, miss out on many opportunities, and even face more safety problems. Therefore, we should encourage children to stand up bravely in the face of threats and challenges, and cultivate their self-confidence and self-protection ability.
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