The love of parents for their children is unquestionable. They will take care of their children in the best way possible, regardless of their efforts, and hope that they can grow up carefree. However, some parents may be overly pampered and spoiled for their children, which is not conducive to their children's development. This kind of excessive love can easily lead the child to "go astray" and even make him a "giant baby". Although the parents' intention is for the good of the child, this method may make the child develop bad Xi and cause the teacher to resent it.
Excessive pampering or doting is often manifested as excessive attention and intervention by parents in everything about their children. They often worry about their children being bullied and frustrated, and expect them to enjoy a carefree upbringing. However, growing up is a process full of difficulties and setbacks, and no one can grow up smoothly. If parents are too involved and give their children too much shelter, they will not be able to let their children face difficulties and setbacks independently and develop the ability to solve problems on their own. This kind of "online platform" behavior is not only easy for children to develop the Xi of relying on others, but also causes dissatisfaction among teachers.
The name "Zihan" is very popular in real life. Many schools have students called "Zihan", especially in colleges and universities. According to university statistics, Wuhan University has 18 freshmen named "Zihan", while Northeast Normal University also has 12. As can be seen, the name is very popular among parents.
And my family Zihan has become a hot topic on the Internet. A group called "My Family Zihan" has aroused the attention and ridicule of netizens. They used the meme "My family Zihan" to create many interesting sentences, such as "Teacher, why does my family Zihan have no object" and "How does my family Zihan turn his back to the podium". These words are full of humor and ridicule, which resonated with netizens. However, the real reason behind this is that Zihan's mother was unreasonable to the teacher in the parent group, asking why Zihan was bitten by mosquitoes, but the other children were not. Netizens have expressed their puzzlement at this ridiculous behavior.
The absurd behavior behind this phenomenon and the hot Internet memes reflects the over-protection of parents for students' growth, as well as the difficulties and difficulties faced by teachers in the face of parents. In the process of students' growth, they will inevitably encounter difficulties and setbacks, which is what we often call "frustration" education. However, in the eyes of some parents, this has become a reason to prove that teachers are indifferent and indifferent. This is especially true for kindergarten teachers, who not only have to take responsibility for education, but also face various questions and dissatisfaction from parents.
However, kindergarten teachers are not babysitters for children, they need to do their job duties. They don't have that much time to take care of each student one by one because they also have other work tasks to complete. If parents rely too much on teachers and leave all the chores to them, it will be difficult to gain the favor of teachers. Kindergarten teachers need to understand and respect each other with parents, and not blame teachers for excessive care for children, but should reflect on their own behavior and solve the problem at the root.
Dealing with parental accountability is a daunting task for kindergarten teachers. They need to be emotionally stable and show a passion for education. They need to be friendly with their students and exude a cheerful and optimistic atmosphere. Although kindergarten teachers are not well paid, they have the opportunity to spend time with lovely children, so keep a cheerful and enthusiastic mindset. They also need to establish a good personal image in order to have a certain prestige in the hearts of students and parents, and not be treated as a "free babysitter" by them.
Teachers should be mindful of their behaviour when dealing with students, especially if multiple teachers lead a class. They need to refrain from engaging in behaviour that is detrimental to them, such as corporal punishment of students. Such behavior will not only affect one's career prospects, but also affect one's reputation and future development.
It's good that parents pay attention to their children's development, but excessive attention and protection can cause distress and dissatisfaction for others. Parents should reflect on their own behavior, solve problems at the root, and learn Xi more advanced education methods to better nurture their children. In communication with teachers, parents should understand the difficulties and difficulties of teachers, and form a relationship of mutual respect and understanding with teachers.
Teachers also need to face the responsibilities and challenges of parents, and they should maintain a stable mood, genuinely love education, and get along with students. They should have a good personal image and have a certain prestige in the eyes of students and parents, rather than being treated as "free babysitters". Teachers should also pay attention to their words and deeds, do not act unfavorably to themselves, and give reasonable explanations and solutions for their behavior.
Finally, both parties need to understand that communication and cooperation are key to solving problems. Only mutual understanding and support between parents and teachers can create a better environment for children's growth.