Love is a wonderful thing. It comes and goes, leaving no trace. This is not allowable.
Let love appear in front of you, but you are not sure, so you have to miss it, which makes people regret.
In fact, there are traces of a person falling in love with someone, and if you walk into a man's heart, he will treat you like this.
First, he will give selflessly for you.
The famous poet Emily Dickinson said:
Love is selfless, it doesn't change because of anything, it only gets better because of something.
is like Wang Bochuan in "Ode to Joy", just like Fan Shengmei for a long time, she doesn't care about having it, as long as she needs it, you can take the initiative to help, you can not care about any gains and losses.
Fan Shengmei's father was sick, and the relationship between Wang Baichuan and Fan Shengmei had broken down at that time, and the two no longer had any relationship in friendship, which was negligible.
But Wang Baichuan did not give up, but took the initiative to lend a helping hand and became Fan Shengmei's backing, helping her solve the super troubles she encountered in life.
If a person is really in love with someone, he will not be stingy, on the contrary, he will give selflessly to himself.
Whether it's time, money, or energy, he'll be there when you need him. He will be sensitive to your needs and feelings and will do his best to meet your expectations and be good to you in all aspects of his life.
Second, he puts you first.
Human nature is selfish, and when it comes to getting along with others, it will give priority to loving yourself.
But if a person takes you seriously, he will seriously play the role of a selfless person in your life, putting you first.
Just like in "The Legend of Zhen Huan", the early emperors liked Zhen Huan, so they always considered it carefully.
One of the most memorable scenes is when the emperor and empress sit together and chat.
The queen peeled an orange for the emperor, and when the emperor ate it, he felt very sour, so he vomited it and never ate it again. Seeing that the servant wanted to throw away the oranges, he quickly stopped and gave the half-eaten oranges to Zhen Huan, because Zhen Huan was pregnant and liked to eat sour food.
If a man loves a woman, he will put you first.
In any case, we will carefully understand your needs and respect your feelings.
You are the most important person in his heart, the sweetest drag in his life, so that he no longer thinks only about himself, but sees you as the most important part.
3.He showed who he really was.
In the TV series "The Bottom Line", Chairman Fang is a person who doesn't say anything but laughs and is extremely serious about his work.
Because he is an elder-level existence in the unit, he always looks professional and kind when facing his subordinates, and he can only shoulder his shoulders when he is wronged.
In the process of a job, because a little boy lied, Mr. Fang was complained, and all the work in his hands was transferred to the apprentice, and he was particularly faceless for a while, but he still maintained the cloud on his face and did not attack.
He cried until he came home, crying in front of his wife and complaining about his grievances.
If you love someone, you will confide your true feelings in front of the other person.
If a man really loves you, he will open up to you and show his true side. He will be willing to take the initiative to share his feelings and thoughts with you, and he will show his vulnerability and helplessness in front of you.
In his life, you are no longer the existence of "someone else" other than him, but become the support of his heart, he is willing to trust you, so he is willing to give you the most authentic self.