Pascal famously said: Love is the tremor of the soul.
When a man falls in love with you, even if he doesn't say it, his eyes and actions will be revealed, and a person who truly loves you will often find it difficult to suppress his inner feelings.
When I get along with you, I will reveal three kinds of unconsciousness, each of which is a manifestation of putting you in my heart.
1.I can't help but look at you.
Oscar Wilde said:
Someone who truly loves you will not lie and will give you unparalleled love.
When you appear, his eyes are like his own radar, and if you are there, his eyes will be able to reach, and he will always pay attention to you.
This gaze is a kind of heart that can't help but be in love with you, he treats you as the only one, so he uses his eyes to express his love and attention for you.
It's hard to imagine what kind of place you occupy in a man's heart when he loves you, but it's not hard to imagine that as soon as you appear, you occupy his entire heart.
People say that the eyes are the windows to the soul, and that's true.
2.I can't help but miss you.
Wang Xiaobo once said:
If you enter a man's heart, he will unconsciously think of you.
Especially when you are emotionally vulnerable, you will feel extra lonely because you miss you.
Miss you and love like twin brothers. The way a man loves you is how much he misses you.
Just like in "The Legend of Zhen Huan", Zhen Huan thought that the emperor used herself as a stand-in for Empress Chunyuan, and the good times she experienced with the emperor were a mistake, so her heart died and she left the palace.
Later, when I heard that the emperor was still chanting Zhen Huan's name when he was sick, I realized that he had occupied a place in the other party's heart.
If a man loves you, you will occupy a particularly important place in his heart, so this difference will remind him of you and read you.
3. I can't help but get close to you.
There is a proverb that says:
Love is not seen with the eyes, but felt with the heart.
Love or not, it is enough to see if the other person is willing to get close to you.
If a man has you in his heart, when he sees you, he has no way to discipline himself and keep his distance from you, but will have the most primitive physiological reaction, take the initiative to approach you, and desire to have an intimate relationship with you.
He will try to reduce the safe distance between him and you, wanting to qualify himself to hold your hand, stand by your side, and do something that couples should do with you.
He will take the initiative to approach you, fully participate in your life, become an indispensable part of your life, be by your side when you need it, soothe your emotions, take care of your insecurity, and look forward to all the good things to be with you in the future.
Love is a beautiful feeling that comes from the heart, seemingly without a trace, but can be deeply felt in the process of getting along.
If a man loves you, he will not make you feel any uncertainty but will be honest with you and get along with you with his truest self.
The way he treats you, the way he can't help it, is proof of that.