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What women fear most in a relationship is for a man to change his mind.
Their relationship, which was supposed to be together to the end, went wrong in the middle, and the person they loved the most became strangers.
In this world, you can't control your emotions.
In other words, if emotions are destined to change, then no one can control them. Whether you want it or not, you can only choose to accept it.
While you can't control the mood changes, there are actually signs.
If you can notice this, you can judge a man's attitude and know if you can date him or not. If you can continue, please cherish it. If you can't continue, you should be prepared in advance to avoid injury. Harm.
In general, men who change their minds in a relationship experience two symptoms: ignorance. Otherwise, you will suffer.
Symptom 1: I don't want to communicate with you anymore.
Many people believe that the worst thing in a relationship is an argument. Couples who quarrel think they can't make it to the end. I used to think so, but I think so now. It is not.
If couples can still quarrel, it's a lucky thing. At least they will still communicate with each other. Unfortunately, I don't think they want to fight or communicate at all.
It is impossible for such a couple to live happily. Try to imagine this. What happens when you live under the same roof and can't say a word?
If I told you that we live happily together, I don't think you yourself would believe it.
Last week, my friend Xiaoxiao and her husband divorced. When I heard the news, I couldn't believe it. I always thought that Xiaoxiao and her husband had a good relationship, and I had never heard of any husband and wife quarrels.
None of my friends who have a lot of quarrels are divorced. How can someone who doesn't quarrel get divorced?If Xiaoxiao hadn't told me directly, I wouldn't have believed it.
I asked Xiaoxiao why she wanted to get a divorce. After all, marriage is not easy. Xiaoxiao said that she was really tired. I asked him if he had ever seen couples under the same roof who didn't communicate.
When I said, "I've never seen anything like this," Ms. Xiaoxiao said, "My husband and I are like that." The marriage was very painful and depressing, and I didn't feel any happiness. I did.
Whenever my husband came home from work, he locked himself in his study. He also ignored Xiaoxiao's question. Xiaoxiao asked her husband what was wrong, and her husband said it was okay. If Xiaoxiao asked again, her husband would tell Xiaoxiao so. I want it so much.
Why do men choose to be silent when they ask themselves?
The truth is, he doesn't love you anymore.
If you don't understand the man's thoughts at this time, then it will only become harder for you to continue to entangle.
I saw a passage on the Internet that particularly resonated with me:
When there is a problem in the relationship, women are more willing to solve the problem as soon as it appears. Otherwise, they will become insecure and insecure. Men, on the other hand, prefer to run away and face it, "all in silence." Issue. ”
In other words, if a man chooses to remain silent in his relationship with you, you should not have any illusions. Because he doesn't really love you anymore.
If a man doesn't love you, the wisest thing to do is to stay away from him. There's no need to dwell on it. Otherwise, it will be a real pain.
A man who loves you will not ignore you. No matter how busy I am at work, I will find time to communicate with you. Because you are the most important person in his world.
Performance 2: Act as if you don't care.
A man who loves you will be especially nervous when he encounters small problems. If they don't love you, they will ignore you even if they have a big problem. Don't worry about your feelings at all.
A man who doesn't love you will definitely treat you badly. Your feelings have nothing to do with him. He thinks only about himself.
I've seen things like this :
The girl knows the boy and they have a good relationship. When a boy is in trouble, the girl will try her best to comfort him. When she had problems, the boy's attitude was very gentle.
At first, the girl thought that the boy loved her, but judging by the boy's actions, the girl did not love her. No matter what happened to the boy, his attitude was the same.
Although the two are lovers on the surface, they are actually unhappy lovers. This relationship is just wishful thinking on the part of the girl.
In the end, the girl finds that she and the boy have no fate, and it is better to separate than to be entangled.
You must always know that a man who truly loves you will do his best to love you because he cares about your feelings and is afraid that you will not be happy.
There's a saying on the internet that goes like this:
The people in this world who truly love you will put your feelings first. They will do their best to consider your feelings so that you are not scared or suspicious. ”
If you meet such a man, love him with all your heart and do not doubt him. As much as I would love to spend the rest of my life with him, he may not be with me for a while.
I hope that every woman can understand the true meaning of love all her life, cherish the person she loves, and bravely leave the person she does not love. Only in this way can she live as she likes.