There is indeed a big difference between a person getting married early and marrying later. This is a crucial question for young people, especially women.
I have a friend's story, or rather her upbringing, that can shed some light on this issue.
This friend's name is Xiaoyu, and she is a very good girl.
She has been at the top of her class since elementary school and has been in the top three all the way in middle school. After graduating from university, she joined a large company and became a young white-collar worker. She worked conscientiously and responsibly in the company, and was quickly recognized and appreciated by her boss. At the same time, she also meets her boyfriend, an equally good young man. They fell in love, and after a few years, Xiaoyu's boyfriend proposed the idea of getting married.
Xiaoyu's heart is very entangled. She loves her boyfriend a lot, but she feels like she's still young and has a lot to do. She felt that she should have a bigger breakthrough in her career, and at the same time, she should go out and see the world more. She was hesitant and didn't know what to decide.
In the end, Xiaoyu decided to get married. She felt that she was old enough to get married, and she loved her boyfriend very much. After they got married, they soon had children. Xiaoyu gave up some of the things she wanted to do, but she felt that these things that were given up were not so important. She feels that she is very happy in her life now, and her family is very happy.
However, one of Xiaoyu's friends, a pretty outstanding girl, chose to get married later.
The girl's name is Xiaoxue. Xiaoxue, like Xiaoyu, has been at the top of her class since elementary school. She went to a very good university and then studied abroad in the United States.
In the United States, she met a very good boy and they fell in love. However, Xiaoxue is not in a hurry to get married. She felt like she was young and had a lot to do. She worked in the United States for a few years before returning home.
After returning to China, Xiaoxue became a very successful professional woman. She has a very successful career and her income is also very high. Her boyfriend is also a successful professional, and their relationship is also very stable. It wasn't until they were both approaching 40 years old that they decided to get married. Their wedding was very grand and many people came to attend. Their lives look very good.
The story of Xiaoyu and Xiaoxue tells us that early marriage and late marriage have their own advantages and disadvantages.
Getting married early allows us to have a stable family at a young age, to take better care of our children, and to enjoy the happiness that family brings earlier. And getting married later can allow us to have a greater breakthrough in our careers and better realize our dreams.
However, no matter which way we choose, you should cherish your life and work hard to create so that you can have a wonderful family and career.
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