Recently, there have been frequent incidents caused by bear children, and people have become accustomed to this. The behavior of the bear child causes inconvenience to others, but most people are able to understand and tolerate it;However, the behavior of the bear parents made people unbearable. They not only blindly shield the bear children, but also even beat people in order to protect the interests of the bear children. Just when people were indignant about this, another shocking bear child incident occurred during the May Day holiday. On a high-speed train, a man's child keeps kicking the table, disrupting the rest of other passengers. What was supposed to be a pleasant journey turned into chaos because of unnurtured children and incompetent parents.
At the time of the incident, the child's parents did not stop the child's behavior in time, but instead blamed the other passengers and verbally abused them. One of the parents even hit the female passenger sitting in front of him, causing an argument between the two sides. After the incident, ** mediation determined that the two parties had "beaten each other". Officials said that the incident had aroused widespread public attention and discussion, and almost everyone condemned the parents.
Parents are the most important guides in the process of children's growth, and they have the responsibility and obligation to carry out the process of their childrenEducation。However, in this bear child incident, the child's parents not only did not intervene in the child's behavior, but instead shifted the responsibility to the passenger who was disturbed by the child's behavior. What is even more worrying is that they have responded to the conflict by attacking each other. This lack of education is unacceptable.
For the female passenger sitting in the front seat, she couldn't bear the interference of her child and turned to stop her. However, she was verbally abused by her parents and severely beaten by them. This nasty behavior made people angry, and they almost unanimously supported the female passenger. According to reports, the identity of the parents has also been ** on the Internet, including their occupation, address, work unit and other information. While this kind of behavior is condemnable, we should also be wary of what such online pursuit can doFamily membersnegative impact.
What was supposed to be a happy trip became chaotic due to a lack of education. Not only do you need to spend a lot of time at the police station to cooperate with the investigation, but you also have to face the troubles caused by the exposure of the Internet. The incident has once again sparked public outrage over the lack of parenting of the bear children and their parents. They hope that the authorities will punish these acts severelyEducationof attention.
Not long ago, a netizen shared the bear child incident of her relatives at home on the Internet, which attracted a lot of attention. Every time a relative comes to the house to play with their children, it causes trouble for the family. Whether it was the bear child breaking her brand-name lipstick or applying skin care products to stain the walls, the relatives not only did not do it to the childEducation, instead insisting that the child is innocent, and even suggesting that she keep valuables out of the child's reach. For netizens, this is her own home, and her things should be placed where she likes, rather than being changed to cater to the children of her relatives.
However, the occurrence of an incident made netizens unbearable anymore. Behind her sister-in-law, who was 5 months pregnant, the bear child pushed hard for the purpose of verificationPregnant womenWhether it will be miscarried. The netizen's mother adopted a calming attitude at that time, hoping to resolve the conflict. However, the parents of the bear children blindly protect the children, saying that it is just the child's behavior. Netizens couldn't stand it anymore and beat the bear child in public. Since then, the bear child has never dared to go to her house again.
Even if the child is still very young and does not yet understand what parenting is, the rude words and deeds of parents and bad behavior will undoubtedly have a negative impact on the child. Parents are the most important teachers for their children, and they are the teachers who never retire. Parents in the everydaylifeThe way of doing things will be deeply imprinted in the hearts of children and become their standards and guidelines for dealing with people in the future. PsychologyThere is a theory that the psychological experience of our interactions with our parents tends to influence our patterns of intimacy, marriage, and affection.
The consequences of a parent's lack of upbringing in their children cannot be underestimated. This is not a reincarnation, but a fixed number. If parents let their children go and shield them, then one day this behavior will be retributed in the children. When they grow up, they face the ruthlessSocial, you will realizeEducationAnd upbringing is so important in growing up. The behavior of parents who indulge their children and lack of education is not only harmful to the children themselves, but also to the whole childSocialdamage. One did not acceptEducationAnd parenting children, it's hard to be inSocialto correctly understand and respect the rights and boundaries of others. This can lead them to become self-centered and disregard the feelings and needs of others. This individualistic and selfish attitude will giveSocialBring destruction and**.
For those who become victims, they often feel helpless and aggrieved. They may experience neglect, verbal abuse, and even physical harm because of the parent's undisciplined child's behavior. This will cause them great harm to themMental healthand social relationships have long-term negative effects.
EducationAnd upbringing isSocialIt is an important means to inherit civilization and harmony. Parents should start with themselves, set a good example, and set the right values and codes of conduct for their children. It is the responsibility of each of us to ensure that our children grow up in a healthy and harmonious environment and strive to create oneSocialso that everyone is respected and protected.