Football matchesThe "Law of Thirty-Seven" is a well-known concept. It refers to the fact that when a shot is taken, the shooter decides the direction of the shot with a third chance of choosing the left side of the shot, the other third with the right side, and the remaining third with the middle of the shot. This ratio reflects a balance in the choice of shots by the shooters.
However, when people are over 60 years old and attend dinners, we can also apply this "rule of 37". In this article, we will follow three principles when inviting guests to dinner and attending dinners: three relatives and friends, and seven strangers left;Leave seven points of silence when speaking, and share three points on many sides;Keep three points for drunkenness and seven points for sobriety. These principles are all about maintaining one's identity and image during the meal, as well as securing one's ownHealthand safety.
When attending a dinner, the first thing to consider is who to invite. According to traditional etiquette, we usually invite relatives and friends to eat together, so that there is more common topic and tacit understanding. However, when encountering some unfamiliar people or distant relatives, we should not be overly enthusiastic and curious. Keep a certain distance, and don't get too close or force to mix together. This avoids embarrassment and unnecessary hassles. Remember, not everyone needs to have deep friendships over 60, maintain a harmonious mentality, and gather and disperse.
At dinner, we should also pay attention to our words and deeds. Try to be silent, not too verbose and talkative. The habitual verbosity of the elderly is out of place, not only easily annoying others, but also may convey a sense of blame or a teacher-friendly mentality. At dinner, we should refrain from talking about other people's private affairs or criticizing other people's work. Children should not be critical or criticized, but maintain a sense of appreciation and understanding, which can maintain family harmony and kinship bonds. In addition, we must also maintain a certain degree of confusion and tolerance for other people's suggestions and controversial topics, and do not easily go online. In social situations, it is important to be cautious in what you say and do, and understanding and tolerance are paramount.
When we go to dinner, we also have to pay attention to ourselvesDietand alcohol consumption. BodyHealthThe most important thing is not to be too gluttonous or force yourself to drink. The elderly'sHealthAlready inferior to young people, don't easily try things that you can't afford. Follow the principle of "drinking three points to get drunk" and maintain seven points of sobriety to ensure your physical safety and comfort. Pay attention to the mealDietDon't overeat and maintain a certain hunger pang. This not only helps with digestion but also benefits the bodyHealth
As an elderly person over 60, although participating in a dinner is a social activity, it is also necessary to maintain a good attitude and a calm image. Before we go, we need to know the details of the participants and activities in advance to ensure our own safety and interests. If the children are willing to accompany them, we can also consider that. Be careful when travelingTransportationBe safe, choose the right means of transportation, and avoid drinking while driving, so as not to affect the happy atmosphere of the dinner and your own safety. It is important that the elderly learn to pay attention to details, and the sophistication of human feelings lies in the subtleties. Only then can we enjoy the gastronomy and keepHealthto live in harmony with others.
In short, as an elderly person, participating in a dinner is a social activity, and we need to follow etiquette and rules, but we also need to understand human nature and master the "law of 37" at dinner. When inviting guests to dinner and participating in dinners, we must accurately grasp the number and identity of the invited, be cautious in our words and deeds, and maintain a moderate level of silenceDietand drink alcohol to be carefulHealthand stay awake. Only in this way can we show our dignity and steadiness as elders at the dinner, while also maintaining our ownHealthand safety.