Men and women must be equal, and their daughters and sons must be treated, and parents must not be partial.
After the promulgation of the new Marriage LawGirls who buy a house before marriageIt's starting to get more.
Because if you have this financial resources, the house you bought before marriage will always be your own, you have a house by yourself, you can be independent without getting married, and it is also the biggest confidence in marriage after marriage.
The parents' idea is very good, if it backfires, it will be too chilling
Qianqian is 30 years old and finally has a boyfriend, the joy of her parents is overflowing before, and before the two get married, her parents are even moreMarried a large two-bedroom house
After the wedding room is renovated, directlyThe transfer was in the daughter's name, Mom and Dad are also wiser, this belongs to their daughter's premarital property, but no one can take it away.
Parents fantasize that their daughter's married life will be very happy, but it backfires. After the daughter got married, she lived in the house prepared by her parents, and before the honeymoon came out after marriage, the husband and wife were marriedThere was an emotional crisis
Her husband didn't come home until 12 o'clock at night, and Qianqian looked very unhappy and said to her husband: "If you don't want to go back to this home, you can go ...... at any time."”
The sentence "let you go" stung her husband's sensitive nerves, because this sentence Qianqian would say it from time to time when she was not satisfied.
Her husband's family has obviously prepared a wedding room, but Qianqian just doesn't want to live there, and always says things like thisHurt the feelings between husband and wife
Qianqian and her husband quarreled, and both parents had to mediate, and after the mother-in-law came, Qianqian said: "Hurry up and take your son away."Don't let him be at my house
Before the mother-in-law could speak, Qianqian's father became angry, and he stood up and said, ".won't let him goIf you are willing to go, you will go......”
Daughter'sStrong personality, Dad knows, now he is a little annoyed, his daughter lives in his own house, very close to her parents, and she is full of confidence every day, that is, she is married, it is difficult to integrate into her in-law's family, she is unwilling to go there to live, and she is unwilling to deal with her in-laws.
Dad said regretfully".If I could do it all over again, I would never buy a house for my daughter before I got married
Men and women are equal, sons have to buy a house when they get married, and daughters have to marry a house of course.
It has been a custom in China for thousands of years that girls go to live with their in-laws after they get married, and if we buy a house for our daughter before she gets married, it may not be a good choice for our daughter's future.
Girls who buy a house before marriage may have a more difficult marriage
Buy a house for a boy before marriage, and the boy will be more likely to find a girlfriend, but the opposite is true for girls.
If you are a girl with your own independent matrimonial room, you will chooseA man who doesn't have a houseBe your own boyfriend?Probably not!Don't say that the other party doesn't have a house, that is, he has a house, the location of the house is not as good as yours, and the area is not as large as your house, I'm afraid you don't want to choose him.
So, many girls buy a house after that,On the contrary, there is less selectivity in choosing a mate, the horizon is higher, and it is more difficult to find a partner and get married.
There are also some girls around me who are very inspirational and have bought houses on their own at a young age, but most of them are single and their work is generally very busy.
Because of work, because of the pressure of the mortgage, they generally have very little social activities and live a lifeSingle and busy life
Girls who buy a house before marriage may have an impact on the relationship between husband and wife after marriage
Prepare an independent marriage room for your daughter before marriage, probably all parents have the same wishes, and your daughter will have confidence in her in-law's house, and her married life will be happier.
Nowadays, women's family status is already extraordinary, holding the family economic power, having a job is very hard, raising children is also very tiring, and the less obligations a man, the lower the family status.
Therefore, in many families, if the man no longer has a houseAt home, you don't have a voiceFinish.
Whether a girl's married life is happy or not is related to the house, but it is not inevitable.
If the daughter's partner family has a matrimonial house, the girl is only to determine the premarital property, and the married life will not necessarily be happy.
Someone once said that if the marriage has not yet started, they start to calculate and have left a way out for themselves, then their marriage is likely to end in divorce.
Buying a house before marriage, the girl may not be financially independent
The girl has a separate matrimonial room, which is also a sign of an independent woman. However, there are many girls who do not become financially independent women after their parents prepare a marriage room for her.
Because her parents created it for herComfortable environment, let her be a good timeThe will to fight has been lost, and even many girls will become "gnawing old people", and after marriage, they still rely on their parents to live, and their parents have raised their daughters and continue to raise their children.
The love of parents for their children is far-reaching, and the love of parents should not be as simple as a house
Parents love their children very much, but they should not only focus their love on preparing a rich material life for their children.
True love is for the child's future consideration, no one can always have smooth sailing, we improve the superior growth environment and good educational resources for the child.
Cultivating her daughter into a strong-willed, upright, kind, capable and knowledgeable person is the foundation to give her a happy life for a lifetime.
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