From small to large,Wu QiThe relationship with her brother has always been very good. They live in a family where there is no preference for sons, and there is no discrimination between brother and sister. Wu QiMy younger brother had a cheerful personality when he was a child, and he always followed with a smileWu QiCalling sister, it's very cute. However, at some point, my brother's personality changed, and instead of a happy smile, he had a cold expression. Not only is this true to outsiders, but even to his family members is indifferent, especially JeanWu QiTroubled, her brother suddenly said to her, "This is my own business, what does it have to do with you?".You take care of yourself first. This sentence hurtsWu Qi, causing her to become indifferent to her brother. The love at home is no longer what it used to be.
However, one day the younger brother suddenly gaveWu QiHit ** and said he needed her help. Wu Qirushed to the place that his brother said, only to find that he had an argument with someone else and had a fight, and now the other party is asking for compensation, otherwise the younger brother will not be able to leave. Wu QiResolved the problem and told his brother that the problem should be resolved through negotiation rather than violence.
The younger brother seems to have returned to normal since then, no longer going to Internet cafes and fighting, and his grades have started to improve. However, he becomes more and more headstrong, and immediately loses his temper at a bad word. Since then,Wu QiHardly ever had contact with his brother.
Someday, whenWu QiWhile she was shopping with her mother, her brother called her **. The younger brother greeted hypocritically for a while, and thenWu QiImpatiently said to him, "If you have something to say, just say it directly." The younger brother was silent for a while, then toldWu Qi"Mom is hospitalized, give 50,000 yuan." This sentence letsWu QiFeeling that something was wrong, she pretended to be flustered and asked, "Is it serious?"Am I going to check it out?The younger brother firmly refusedWu Qiand said in person: "No need, you just stay at home and take care of your mother, I don't want the money, don't tell your mother about it." ”Wu QiAngrily scolding his brother, hoping that he would be honest with him about what had happened. In the end, the younger brother finally admitted his previous deception, and he told the truth: he did not send his mother to any hospital, in fact, he used this lie to defraud 50,000 yuan, and then used the money to pay off the debt.
Wu QiHearing this truth, my heart was like a knife. She felt betrayed by her brother's kindness and care she had once had. "In order to repay your debts, you will do whatever it takes?”Wu QiAsked. The younger brother lowered his head and did not answer. Wu QiFeeling betrayed by her brother's trust and sincerity, she left him in anger.
Wu QiAfter leaving, she began to reflect on whether her care and tolerance for her brother was excessive. She realizes that she has been tolerating her brother's faults, but this has not made him realize his mistakes. She decided to keep her brother at arm's length and teach him to be independent and responsible.
A year later, my brother reached outWu Qiand apologized that he had realized his mistake and wanted to be able to re-establish withWu Qirelationship. Wu QiShe believes that everyone makes mistakes, and the important thing is to be able to recognize mistakes and work hard to correct them.
Wu QiReconnected with my brother and experienced a period of communication and getting along. The younger brother is indeed thereWu QiWith the help of gradually becoming more mature and responsible. He began to care for his family, worked hard to learn Xi, and actively corrected his mistakes.
In the process,Wu QiShe also realized that she could not blindly tolerate and take care of her younger brother, but let him learn to be independent and responsible. She understands that growing up needs to be sharpened, and tolerance does not mean letting go. Wu QiThe relationship with his brother gradually returned to the way it used to be, and they regained their trust and intimacy with each other. At the same time, they have also grown a lot from this experience and learned the importance of mutual understanding and tolerance.