Have you ever had an affair with someone else?The temptation and pull of the fog and flowers in the ambiguous period, and the tacit heartbeat are the most addictive. But when you are immersed in the sweet atmosphere of the ambiguous period, the other party's attitude has become hot and cold, making your enthusiasm jump repeatedly in the ** two heavens, and also make you unpredictable, and you are guessing in your heart all day long: why does a man be hot and cold during the ambiguous period, what does the hot and cold attitude represent, whether he likes me or not, is he a scumbag......
The hot and cold attitude does not directly determine that he is a scumbag, it can only show that he does not dislike you, nor does he like you too much, simply put: he has a good impression and is interested. In the ambiguous period, men are hot and cold, which are basically divided into three situations.
He's weighing the pros and cons.
Some men will be more cautious and take their feelings very seriously, so they will not identify each other not long after they come up, she must be in this life, he will carefully observe and weigh carefully. It's like having a project at work that looks like it's good, and if you turn it down, you'll regret it – what if it's an opportunity to make a lot of money?If you agree without hesitation, you may wonder if there is something unreliable. In the same way, this kind of man is such a thought and mentality in the ambiguous period, it is a pity to give up, and it is a pity to be sure that you have it. So he began to investigate, to watch, and from your point of view, he was hot and cold.
Of course, "weighing the pros and cons" does not preclude him from weighing the pros and cons between your other ambiguous partners. You and the other girls are just a fish in his fish pond, and the reason why he is hot and cold is probably because he has more than one choice.
He was insecure.
There is a type of man who lacks love, they are sensitive, suffer from gains and losses, and have no sense of security. Sometimes what seems normal to ordinary people is not normal in their eyes, they will analyze the meaning behind your words and actions, and adjust the way they get along with you according to the results of the analysis. So sometimes a man is hot and cold to you during the ambiguous period, it may be that he is too sensitive and insecure, and some of your words and deeds make him feel that he is not good enough, not good enough, and feels that your enthusiasm is just because of politeness or getting along with friends, and he will unconsciously retreat when he thinks of this. The hotness and coldness of this kind of man depend on your attitude, if you are enthusiastic, he will be enthusiastic, and when he is enthusiastic about you, he will be more enthusiastic;If you are cold, he will also be cold, and when he is enthusiastic about you, he will not get positive feedback, and he will shrink into his shell.
He's trying to get away with it.
This kind of man is more awkward, he likes you but is embarrassed to say it directly, so he uses this method of wanting to capture and indulge himself to test his position in your heart and test your mind. He learned some "push and pull" temptation skills, so he used a hot and cold attitude to "retreat as advance", showing his sense of existence, so that you can focus more on him, so as to quickly trial and error, insight into your thoughts.