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Struggling outside for a long time sometimes produces a feeling as if it no longer feels like your home no matter what.
I tried my best to fit in with this strange place, but I always felt like a spectator of the city;I used to live in my hometown, but I always felt strange to my hometown. It used to be the hometown we know best, but now an incomprehensible gap has gradually formed between us and ourselves.
Hometown, Don't Come Unharmed" This work takes the reunion of four young girls who are working hard in Chengdu as a starting point, describes in detail their reunion, getting along and running-in process with their hometown, delves into the intricate relationship between "people" and "home", and tries to guide the audience to explore an answer hidden deep in their hearts through a detailed analysis of the daily lives of these four girls.
In the company, Zhang Pei is affectionately called "Lao Liu" by the locals, because her performance has always been firmly in the sixth position, does not compete with others, does not procrastinate, and is always in a medium position, and her involution has never been included in her dictionary. In her opinion, all of this is possible because of the nature of her work, which is to go to the construction site after work every day to work overtime with her co-workers. So when the company considered letting her go to Chengdu for land development, her first decision was to refuse. Because she feels that she is not the kind of girl who can endure hardships and struggle, let alone the spirit of being able to endure hardships and stand hard work. However, such a person, when he saw his parents brushing their heads with toothbrushes to the extent that they were unwilling to even replace their hair, and when he saw that his mother wanted to ** the property in his hometown to reduce the burden of repayment of her real estate in Beijing, he actually had an urge to roll up a roll.
If I put in more effort myself, my parents' lives would not be so stressful
If you have some achievements, will you be able to create a better life for your parents?
Why do I make my parents suffer while pursuing only material comforts?Why do you have to pay a lot for your parents when you don't work so hard?Zhang Pei represents many ordinary young people who work hard outside the home, who will feel guilty because of their parents' frugality, and deeply blame themselves for their own shortcomings. The love and dedication of parents to their children is priceless, but in the eyes of outsiders, these are "small meanings". However, when the distance between parents and children is eliminated and the relationship is re-established in the same room, the conflict often transcends the guilt and becomes the central theme of "home". "Our life is a blind date. "Why is there only one blind date option in the parents' mind?Why do parents always shout at their children?Why can't parents give their children some respect for privacy?Why do parents always don't know what they should do to make their daughters feel happy and happy?Why do parents blindly help when they don't know anything?
It's hilarious, and when I'm not at home, I miss my hometown;But when I actually get home, I want to run away. The relationship between parents and children, sometimes even like lovers, brings good feelings about distance.
The same is true of my hometownI met her by chance. Therefore, Zhang Pei often said that if she wants to lie flat in Beijing, then lie there, no one will nag, while in Chengdu, she knows many people and should not meddle in other people's affairs. Because everything has its boundaries, and the affection carried by the hometown is so much that it can sometimes blur the boundaries.
Dandan also shows this characteristic. After Dandan was betrayed by a scumbag, the first place that thought of the ** wound was her hometown Chengdu;In her opinion, home is like a harbor, so that she can rest with peace of mind, wait with peace of mind, and wait for the birth of her baby with peace of mind. Later she realizes that she is pregnant, and the first place she wants to go is her parents' home. For young people who are working outside the home, whether they are tired or injured, their hometown is always their preferred safe haven.
However, growth is also a manifestation of responsibility. When we are young, we can be spoiled and cry in the arms of our parents without any scruples, but as we grow older, we also need to shoulder the responsibility of sheltering our parents from the wind and rain. Because we all know that the health of parents is one of the most important assets of a child, and I am such a person. So when Dandan walks into the house with a tired face and hears the neighbor aunt praise her parents as lucky people, she will secretly turn around and leave, and then dress up and go home with gifts the next day. This is our home, our warmest harbor, and our future. It is precisely because of the deep love carried by his hometown that Dandan has become more cautious. She didn't want to bring unnecessary distress and rumors to her parents' old age because of her own reasons, so she chose to silently digest all her emotions and strive to become a person who can cope independently.
For Wu Yun, the affection of her hometown is like a heavy baggage stuffed into her by her parents when she leaves home, as if as long as she brings enough specialties, she can turn this strange place into her hometown. Growing up in his hometown, he has a special attachment and attachment to his hometown, and this emotion is vividly reflected in him. For Jiaxi, the deep affection carried by her hometown is a two-year commitment made by her mother to pursue her dreams, and it is also her mother's firm will to choose to hide her illness in order to let her pursue her dreams with peace of mind. Wu Yun, who ran away from home, gradually became Dandan, and developed the Xi of only reporting good news and not bad news;Jia Xi, a person who struggled to pursue his dreams in a foreign country, gradually became Zhang Pei. She often felt guilty for her own willfulness, and there always seemed to be a balance in her mind against the ratio of happiness and indebtedness, and the importance of being away from home and home. "Why can't your mom love me as much as I do?!"Very twisted, right?In this city, we are all the children of our parents. However, aren't our feelings for our hometown and our parents so contradictory?
Zhang Pei, Wu Yun, Dandan and Jiaxi represent the four groups of young people in modern times: contentment, down-to-earth examination, love and hate, and dream-chasing. The appearance of these four types of youth is largely due to the fact that they have a certain common characteristic - the word "youth". If you think about it, it seems that most of us are surrounded by these four types of young people, and even we ourselves are one of them.
There are many episodes in this drama that can easily touch our heartstrings, such as those quirky roommates who rarely meet in the process of trying to rent an apartment in a different placeWho meets someone who accidentally loses their clothes after work?In whose life, have you never heard of or unfortunately met a few scumbags?Who is embarrassed and angry when they are bullied in the dormitory, who is bullied when they are bullied at school, who is kicked when they are bullied at the school gate. Who laughs when they're bullied in the middle of the night?When everyone works overtime late at night, they constantly treat their colleagues who are involuted coldly, and they are shouting in their hearts, why should they be so embarrassed to work as workers?Who was scolded by their parents when they quarreled with their parents, but they didn't know what kind of person they really were?In getting along with their parents, everyone felt both love and helplessness, on the one hand, because their parents always stuffed things into their suitcases, and on the other hand, they cried loudly because of the two corn cobs in their hometownWho doesn't get entangled in all kinds of trivial things in their own life, but always silently dedicates themselves to their own world?Zhang Pei, Wu Yun, Dandan and Jiaxi, aren't they also part of us?
At the moment, "Hometown, Don't Come to Harm" doesn't seem to go too deep into the core idea, it doesn't seem to plan to do so, but just capture the daily lives of the four girls through the camera, encouraging the audience to follow them and reflect on their own lives.
Places have their own uniqueness, and hometown has its own uniqueness. There is no one definitive answer in life, but no matter where we are or how we choose, the people who truly love us are always our strong supporters. All we have to do is to try to pursue the life we want and make ourselves stronger!Please keep going!Satisfied like Zhang Pei, happy like Wu Yun, determined like Dandan, and optimistic like Jiaxi, this kind of life is really comfortable!
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