Yao Ce has been since he was a childXu MinThe family is regarded as a baby, after all, he is the only child of the Yao family. With hepatitis B, Yao Ce needed more love and attention. Xu MinIn order to get the best education for Yao Ce, the family invested a lot of time, money, and energy. Yao Ce'slifeRelaxed and happy, himlifeIn a warm and well-off family, with good material conditions and higher education. The family doted on Yao Ce, and in order to meet his requirements, they even bought a school district house and a branded mobile phone for him. However, this excessive doting caused problems with Yao Ce's personality. He becomes selfish, does not consider the feelings of others, and has no self-discipline and self-restraint. During his time at university, he abandoned his studies and indulged in smoking, drinking, and nightslife, aggravating their own health problems. As a result, he met his future wife Xiong Lei, and after the two were togetherXu MinIn order to buy a wedding house for Yao Ce, he even sold the original school district house. This excessive doting and indulgence led to Yao Ce's selfish attitude and bad behavior, which ultimately caused harm to himself.
Compared with Yao Ce, Guo Wei's upbringing is completely different. In the impoverished Du Xinzhi family, Guo Wei did not receive a good education. In order to maintain his family's income, he sold boxed lunches with Du Xinzhi after school, and learned to bear hardships and stand hard work since he was a child. He also took on the responsibility of caring for his sister, who suffered from brain disease, and although his sister often used violence against him, Guo Wei always maintained a tolerant and humble attitude. As an adult, Guo Wei worked as a police officer and took it as his duty to maintain social peace. He is accustomed to achieving success through his own efforts and diligence without relying on the help and support of others. Although poverty limited his development, Guo Wei still stuck to his ownBeliefsand do not let the adversity defeat him. Like Yao Ce, he was also a child raised by adoptive parents, but his upbringing made him independent, strong, and kind.
The differences in Yao Ce and Guo Wei's personalities can be traced back to theirsHomeschooling。Yao Ce was overly spoiled in a wealthy family and lacked restraint and discipline. Xu MinIn order to make up for the guilt of Yao Ce's hepatitis B disease, all the love was concentrated on him, which led to his selfish and disregarding the feelings of others. On the contrary, Guo Wei was severely punished in poor familieslifeThe training of the environment, he learned to bear hardships and stand hard work, and took care of his sister from an early age, cultivating his kindness and tolerance. Although he did not get the material conditions and educational opportunities like Yao Ce, he realized his value through his own efforts and persistence.
Both innate personality and acquired education have an important impact on a child's development. Some personality traits may be inherited, such as some people who are naturally kind or selfish. However, the day after tomorrowHomeschoolingIt also shapes a child's character and behavior. HomeschoolingThe role is to educate children about the right values and codes of conduct through the power of restraint, guidance and example. However, if parents lack the correct concept of home education and teaching methods, regardless of the child's innate personality, it may lead to personality problems and the formation of bad behaviors.
In conclusion, a child's personality and behavior are the result of innate inheritance and acquired education. Parents play a vital role as guides for their children in the process of growing up. The correct concept and education method of home education can guide the child to develop on the right path and establish a good oneMoral qualities。On the contrary, the lack of correct parenting concepts and educational methods can lead to the formation of children's personality problems and bad behaviors.