Viny SummerLove is always full of mystery and incredibleness, and sometimes, we will find that the more you love your man, the less easily he will give you something. It's not because they're stingy or don't care about you, it's because they cherish you too much that they want to protect you more. Today, let's take a look at the five things that those men who love you the more they don't give you. 1. Don't give you unlimited freedomMen who love you deeply will care about your every move, and they want you to live safely, healthily, and happily. Therefore, they will not give you unbridled freedom to do things that could hurt you. As Wang Xiaobo said in "** Times": "True love is to get better together." ”They will restrict some of your behaviors, but it's not because they don't trust you, but because they want to grow with you and become better together. 
2. Don't put too much pressure on youMen who love you will respect your personality and choices, they will not impose their expectations on you, and they will not put you under undue pressure. As Qian Zhongshu said in "The Siege of the City": "If love is mixed with calculations that have nothing to do with itself, it is not true love." ”They know that everyone has their own pace and way of life, and they will encourage you to pursue your dreams instead of forcing you to live up to their standards. 3. Don't give you silence and indifferenceThe man who loves you will listen to your words and feel your emotions with his heart. They won't treat you with silence and indifference because they know it will make you feel lonely and helpless. As Shakespeare said: "Love does not look at what is in front of you, but only looks down on all living beings and all things in the world." ”They will share their joys and sorrows with you, and they will also listen to your worries and joys, and face the ups and downs of life with you. 
Fourth, I don't give you unreasonable suspicion and jealousyMen who love you deeply will trust you, and they will not ruin your relationship because of some unfounded suspicion and jealousy. As Yi Shu said in "The Golden Years": "Love makes people forget time, and time also makes people forget love." ”They know that trust is the cornerstone of love, and they will give you enough space and freedom to do what you want. Even though there will be times when they will have some doubts and uneasiness, they will choose to communicate with you openly and honestly rather than with unreasonable suspicion and jealousy. 5. Don't give you all his secrets and privacyMen who love you will respect their privacy and personal space, and they will not tell you all their secrets. It's not because they don't trust you, but because they want to protect their independence and their personal world. As Xu Zhimo said: "I want you to know that there is a person in this world who is always waiting for you, no matter when it is, no matter where you are, anyway, you know that there is always such a person." ”They want you to be able to understand their needs and space and not invade their privacy too much. 
Conclusion:Love is always full of complexities and contradictions, and sometimes we feel confused and incomprehensible because of some of the other person's behaviors. However, if we can understand and feel the love and care of the other person with our hearts, we may be able to cherish this relationship even more. As Zhang Ailing said: "Because I have loved, I am compassionate;Because you understand, you are tolerant. ”Let's learn to understand that the more men love us, the more they don't give us, and maybe that's one of the ways they love us. -end-