According to common sense, we have helped others, contributed money and efforts, and after helping out, we can't wait to settle the accounts immediately, let others give money to ourselves, and pay others for ourselves, after all, it is necessary to pay for hiring people to work. But now I encountered a headache, my cousin helped me build a small house, asked myself for nearly 8,000 yuan, and now that it has been built, I urged him to settle the general account several times, my cousin is not intentional, is there any unknown secret that makes people have to think more?
As the saying goes: Brothers settle accounts!But some people are reluctant to settle accounts, what do they think?Some time ago, my cousin helped build our small house of more than 20 square meters, and in the first few days of construction, I asked him how much money the worker master had spent on transferring money to him, because this is hard work, one day without a day, and it is not good to owe a few months.
A few days ago, my cousin tentatively asked me how many times I transferred money to him, whether it was the steel frame and roof, I directly told him that I transferred three times, nearly 4000 yuan is billed, and I transferred it twice, one 2000, one 1000, and I haven't settled the account yetThe cousin then said, "Then you can transfer me another 1,000 yuan now, and I will buy cement and slate, and make the septic tank to cover the septic tank." Although I was displeased, the previous account was not counted, and now I asked myself for money, but I thought about the work that was almost finished, and it didn't seem to be good not to give money, so I transferred another 1,000 yuan.
After the transfer, I asked my cousin to make this septic tank and lay the cement floor, and I wanted to calculate the general account, but my cousin didn't say anything, which means that now I have given a total of four times, and I have added 1,000 to nearly 8,000 yuan. Yesterday, I talked to my cousin and sister-in-law a few times, and asked them to take the time to calculate the accounts, they have to work during the day, and if they don't have time to calculate, they can settle the accounts at night. But they said, "I still have to work at night, and I don't have time to count, but I will count it after a while." ”
Someone said: "The person who must settle accounts must have his own careful thoughts, but most of them are bad thoughts, thinking about how to maximize his own interests." It is impossible to have such a good person in the world, and people are not people's fathers and mothers, how can they help you for free?There must be a picture, not for money or profit, is it famous?Someone said: "It is necessary to think of human nature a little badly, to think a little worse, human nature is the most inscrutable thing, no matter how good their words are, we must also prevent them from playing tricks." ”
What do they mean exactly?Did I give them more money and they didn't want to return it to me, or did they think I gave less money, or did they have some secret that no one knew?Obviously, I found them to settle accounts, urging them to settle accounts, and wanted to give them money, how did it seem that they owed money to themselves, I asked them to ask for it, and they didn't give it?What's so funny about this?