Not a rich girl but with "princess disease"?The college boys complained about the "Puxin girl", which was too realistic
After entering colleges and universities, college students enjoy more freedom, especially in the field of falling in love, getting rid of the shackles of parents and teachers for many years, and can openly and freely pursue their feelings.
Many students have the expectation that they will be able to find their perfect match on campus. Relationships on campus are often simple and pure, and are truly a rare experience. However, some people have noticed that college boys don't seem to be so keen on dating anymore.
Before entering college, many students have little to no attention and experience in their studies. Not only is it strictly supervised by parents, but also because of the heavy academic load, there is little energy to think about other things.
Back when I was in college, boys were usually very active in talking to their friends once they stepped into college life. However, it seems that college students have changed nowadays, and many male students have become more relaxed.
They no longer seek to take the initiative to show affection, no longer invite female classmates to Xi together, go to the cafeteria or the library together, these are originally ways to close the distance between each other, and the boys seem to have lost interest.
It may be said that many students prefer to stay in the dormitory and play on the computer rather than go out to "chase girls". Actually, it's not necessarily that the boys have become tsundere, and one college student voiced his heart.
A college student from Ningbo shared his views on some female classmates on the Internet, which resonated with many college students. Everyone may have heard of the term "Puxin man", which describes those boys who are obviously ordinary but extremely confident.
In fact, there are both male and female classmates with this personality, so this college student also gave a similar female classmate a name, called "Puxin Girl".
Despite the high acceptance rate of the gaokao, students who can be admitted to regular universities are usually people who maintain good academic XiXi habits, and most of them are not in a hurry to fall in love in high school. However, the expectations and standards of female students are often higher, and the boys say bluntly: some students are obviously not rich girls, but they have developed the Xi of "princess disease", we are all in college, we are using our parents' living expenses, but we always ask boys to give decent gifts.
During school Xi, some girls always ask boys to think of them in every way. For example, boys are asked to send them early in the morning, boys are required to occupy seats in the Xi room, and occasionally other roommates are invited to eat together. The college student lamented that it was really too difficult to meet the "pass" standard.
What puzzled him was that these female classmates were quite ordinary in terms of family, appearance, academic Xi level, and personal ability. It stands to reason that if you have a rational assessment of yourself, you should not make too many demands on boys, and you should not show the characteristics of "princess disease". However, these girls seem to give themselves five stars for their "popularity" of attractiveness.
The academic Xi status of university life is also important, but if you don't find the right person, you still don't rush to talk about friends.
This male classmate's complaint is impressively straightforward, and there are indeed some girls who have this phenomenon. Of course, it cannot be generalized that their expectations are unreasonable, because sometimes they may not care about the external form.
To deal with the relationship between two people, you can't just look at the appearance, but you need to see the real need through their expectations and behaviors, that is, the desire to be noticed and affirmed by boys.
When evaluating others, you need to take a more holistic view, not just look at their appearance. Every student has a different view of campus love, and how to choose is personal freedom.
As long as students are clear, they still need to pay attention to their studies after going to university, and study knowledge carefully before thinking about other things. If you can't guarantee a good score in the exam, even graduating will be a problem, and the rest is easier said than done.
College students are well-educated and should take a relationship seriously enough. Some people feel that it is a big pity that they have never been in a relationship in college.
The author believes that a rash fall in love is a sign of a lack of responsibility, and in contrast, students who are serious are more worthy of respect. If you feel that you haven't met the right person yet, you don't have to rush to determine the relationship.
Message] University life is colorful, and the experience of making friends is one of the beautiful journeys. For today's college students, there may be a clear difference in attitudes towards this time, with some choosing to become more and more "Buddhist" and indifferent and quietWhile others do not hesitate to immerse themselves in the sweetness of love.
So, what attitude do you think should be adopted in this diverse university ecosystem?(*Taken from the Internet, only image, not specific person).
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