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Title: "Deep Blood Love: Why didn't Grandma Tian Pu choose to live in her son's house?".A family history, the sadness and warmth behind it".
Title: Family Choice: Grandma Tian Pu lives in her granddaughter's house, and the Chinese emotional entanglements behind it
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China is a country with inextricable human touches. In a corner of Nanjing, a family history carries deep blood love, but it also hides unsolvable mysteries. Why did Grandma Tian Pu not choose to live in her son's house in her later years, but entrusted her granddaughter Xu Daojiang with confidence?The decision behind this encompasses multiple factors such as family, history, and emotion.
In this quiet courtyard, Xu Shiyou's old age was not as heroic as his heroic military service. It is an ordinary and warm family, a family with a rich history to tell. However, a certain choice in the family made me wonder why Grandma Tian Pu chose her granddaughter's family so firmly
Let's go back to the starting point of that decision, in 1953, the first point general Xu Shiyou went to fight in Korea. Grandma Tian Pu was about to give birth at the time of parting, and in the face of the upcoming separation, she did not show the slightest complaint, but strongly proposed to name the child, which resolved the slightest worry in the family. This event is not only a representative of the perseverance of Chinese women, but also a moment full of family and country feelings.
Grandma Tian Pu, who was born poor, joined the Eighth Route Army at the age of 15. Her tenacity and courage deeply attracted Xu Shiyou, and the two eventually entered the palace of marriage. At first, Xu Shiyou was reluctant to let Tian Pu work, but Tian Pu insisted that he was also a part of the revolution. In the end, she worked in the Department of Letters and Visits of the Jiangsu Provincial Party Committee for 15 years, making indelible contributions to the Party and the people. This is the persistence and hard work of Grandma Tian Pu in a marriage, and this effort has also been reflected in the later choices.
Fast forward to 1983, the army implemented a policy of rejuvenation, and Xu Yuanchao was indifferent to Xu Shiyou in terms of promotion opportunities. This means that there have been unusual fluctuations in family relationships. The impact of China's decision-making in the special period on the family cannot be ignored. The children's military career was affected by the times, and the relationships within the family also changed in this fluctuation.
In his later years, Xu Shiyou returned to Nanjing, only Xu Yuanchao was with him, and the other children were taken away. Grandma Tian Pu was silently by his side until Xu Shiyou passed away. This time, for Grandma Tian Pu, is an unspeakable pain. The family's choices and decisions have brought a kind of helplessness and sadness. At this moment, the traditional Chinese concept of family is vividly reflected in her choice.
Grandma Tian Pu, who is living in Beijing, has received meticulous care from Xu Guang's family. The relationship with his granddaughter Xu Daojiang is getting deeper and deeper. This kind of family affection that transcends blood has become a warm color in Grandma Tianpu's later life. This shows the deep emotional ties in Chinese families, and it also leads to a topic worth discussing: does family really need blood ties?
In order to better accompany his grandmother, Xu Yuanchao took Grandma Tian Pu back to Nanjing. However, Grandma Tian Pu expressed her desire to return to Beijing to live with Xu Daojiang. Xu Daojiang used his medical expertise to prevent Alzheimer's disease for his grandmother, and the relationship between the two became deeper and deeper. This family story made me deeply feel the collision between traditional Chinese family concepts and modern society.
Xu Daojiang provided her grandmother with ** and dance entertainment, which improved her body and mood. The relationship between Grandma Tian Pu and Xu Daojiang has transcended blood relations and become a pair of intimate grandchildren. This kind of companionship and care made Grandma Tianpu's later life colorful. This also makes me wonder if the definition of family affection needs to be revisited in modern society
In 2010, Xu Daojiang organized a family gathering to commemorate Xu Shiyou. In this event, the relatives expressed their recognition of Grandma Tianpu's good condition, which also made the big family closer together. It's a family reunion and a nostalgia for a bygone era. This traditional concept in the Chinese family seems to have found a new way of continuation in this era.
This family history is not only a microcosm of modern Chinese history, but also a story of family choices and decisions. From Xu Shiyou's choice of marriage, to the growth experience of his children, to the companionship and care in his later years, every link reflects the social outlook and people's tenacious character in that special period. The touching story of Grandma Tian Pu and Xu Daojiang makes us deeply understand that family affection does not distinguish between blood and sincere companionship and care is the most important element in building a happy family.
This is a warm and touching picture that shows us the warmth and care of the family. Through the story of this family, we not only saw the changes of history, but also felt the power of family affection. The Chinese concept of family may be able to draw some inspiration from it, bring more love and companionship into our families, and create a warmer and more harmonious living atmosphere. What do you think of this family history?Welcome to share in the comment area and go deep together**.
China, a country deep and full of tradition, the concept of family is deeply rooted in the hearts and minds of people. Looking back on the family history of Xu Shiyou's family, I can't help but think more about this blood-related emotion. In the face of Grandma Tian Pu's choice, we should perhaps stand in the perspective of Chinese and use more down-to-earth language to feel the unique warmth contained in this family.
The story of Xu Shiyou's family, in the eyes of Chinese, is not only a family history, but also a Chinese-style family picture. In this painting, it is not only the family affection that flows through the blood, but also the embodiment of family responsibility and filial piety. In this Chinese-style family, the choice of parents is often seen as thinking about the future of their children, and Grandma Tian Pu does not choose to live in her son's house, but chooses to embrace her granddaughter, which contains a kind of persistence and persistence.
Chinese people have a unique emotional concept of family, respect for elders and care for juniors, and traditional family values have always been deeply rooted in Chinese culture. In this context, Grandma Tianpu's choice may be interpreted as an adherence to traditional concepts and a sense of responsibility for her children. Chinese traditionally regard their children as the meat of their hearts, and parents are willing to give everything for the happiness of their children. And Grandma Tian Pu did not choose to live in her son's house, perhaps because she understood the importance of this family affection more deeply.
In China, the family is an important social unit, and the concept of family has always occupied an important place in Chinese culture. Grandma Tian Pu's choice of granddaughter Xu Daojiang's home is not only because of blood relationship, but also because of the inheritance of family concepts. In this Chinese-style family, the continuation of the family and the inheritance of traditional concepts are placed in the highest position. Chinese value family responsibilities, and Grandma Tianpu's choice reflects her adherence to this value.
Chinese have high expectations for their families, especially for their children. In the Chinese family view, the achievement of children is the glory of the family, and parents' expectations of their children often surpass everything. Xu Yuanchao was indifferent to Xu Shiyou about his promotion opportunities, an incident that could be interpreted in the eyes of Chinese as a disagreement over family responsibilities. Chinese-style families, especially in special times, often face a choice between family responsibilities and social responsibilities, and Grandma Tian Pu's choice seems to have left a special imprint on this family.
Chinese's understanding of family affection often goes beyond blood ties, and pays more attention to family harmony and the inheritance of traditional concepts. In the company of Xu Daojiang, Grandma Tian Pu's later life became colorful. The embodiment of this kind of family affection is not only a responsibility, but also a kind of adherence to family values. Chinese often express their concern for family affection through the details of the family in their daily lives, and the story of Grandma Tian Pu's family is a microcosm of this Chinese family emotion.
In China, it is often a family tradition to commemorate family ancestors. The family gathering organized by Xu Daojiang is not only a nostalgia for Xu Shiyou, but also a tribute to Grandma Tian Pu's perseverance. Chinese nostalgia for family and respect for ancestors are often expressed in the form of family gatherings, which are also an indispensable part of the Chinese family concept.
This family history carries the multiple emotions of the Chinese family concept. Through Grandma Tian Pu's choice, we seem to see the continuation and inheritance of the Chinese family concept in modern society. Chinese's understanding of family affection, family responsibility, and adherence to traditional concepts have all been vividly demonstrated in this family. Perhaps, this is a spiritual symbol of the Chinese family concept, a tribute to tradition and an expectation for the future. In this family picture, we may be able to better understand the deep affection expressed by the Chinese in the family.