When my daughter was in elementary and junior high school, I was in a state of anxiety.
If you want to hurry, you can't reach it, but it makes your daughter unhappy and depressed during the very important adolescence period of junior high school. Not to mention how slow the progress in learning is.
The little girl who used to be cheerful and chatty seemed to have disappeared.
It was my daughter's state that woke me up all of a sudden.
I started to change myself.
Empathy. I often look back on my adolescence and my thoughts when I was a child. Although the social environment of today's children is more advanced than when I was a child, the process of emotional development must be similar.
I'm going to get the little baby back to me, not push her out and order her to be a learning machine.
Empathize with your children, and even selectively show weakness in front of your children. For example: when I go out to play, my mother is holding a mobile phone to navigate around the intersection and can't figure out the direction. Start with small things like these.
Growing up with children - the protagonists in this sentence are not children, but parents. However, I once misunderstood: "yes" and "children" are not "bring" children.
The above is just a change I have made to write down and encourage you.
But I know for myself how much a small change can be a good difference between me and my child.
The power of emotions is the greatest.
We are the closest and only closest relatives of our children in the world.
Mothers, encourage you.