There has to be a starting point for saying this. Do you promise to love only one person if you are married?
In fact, people will have a variety of appreciation for the opposite sex, we will look at it more if we are good-looking, we are willing to contact more if we are humorous, and we may envy ...... if we are rich and have status, but appreciating or even liking is not enough for a person who loves in a marriage to love others!That's for sure!
Some people say that enthusiasm and passion fade, and the last thing left in the marriage is only family affection, which will inevitably make us still excited about the opposite sex, in fact, to put it bluntly, isn't it just that we like the new and hate the old?Yes, I admit that the weakness of human nature is possible, but it doesn't make sense when you think about it. If there is a person who makes you tempted, then you must have had a lot of contact with the other person to not be attracted to the surface (married people still fall in love at first sight is pure nonsense), because it is only possible to find more fits, then is the perfection in your own marriage years of running-in or has it always been?If it's the latter, then you're the lucky one, and you'll have fun in this life, if it's a relationship for many years that has abandoned clutter and contributed to harmony and beauty, then you won't hesitate to think that no one is perfect, which person is as perfect as you look?And how can you fall in love with an uncertain after a rational analysis?Unless your marriage is unhappy in the first place, you will inflate your desires and greed with nowhere to go. Don't talk about any responsibilities and obligations, you don't have to think about these things, you won't love anyone else except for the one you still love now!