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In the 21st century, information is the most valuable resource. How information is collected, organized, and applied to make informed decisions is the key to success. Much of the information may only be superficial, but delving deeper into the essence behind it is the key to success. In Doudou's ** "Distant Savior", in the TV series "Heavenly Dao" starring Wang Zhiwen and Zuo Xiaoqing, Han Chufeng's information processing ability is vividly reflected.
Chen Ru, Han Chufeng's wife, learned that her younger brother had to pay 200,000 yuan in compensation for injuring someone in a fight. She didn't have much money, so she considered asking her husband for help. But Han Chufeng attaches great importance to business, and has no good impression of his younger brother who is not doing his job, once he knows, I am afraid that it will exacerbate the conflict between their brothers. So Chen Ru decided not to disclose the matter to her husband. She knows Han Chufeng's status and connections, and if she makes a slight gesture, someone should be willing to relieve her. However, at this time, Han Chufeng was facing a critical period of competing for the president of Zhengtian Group, and he couldn't afford the personal debt. So, a suitable candidate came into her sight - *Ying.
*Ying and Han Chufeng were friends when they studied in Germany and had a deep friendship. Asking him to borrow money can be peaceful without letting Han Chufeng know, and it will not affect the relationship between husband and wife. Although Ying made a large amount of money through private placement, it was frozen due to "unethical motives" and only a small amount of cash remained. After he gave his sister Ding Qiuhong some money, he still had about 180,000 left. When Chen Ru expressed his intention to ** Ying, ** Ying thought for a while: "I don't have enough money, so I can only give you 150,000 yuan." ”
The importance of information is evident in this episode. Correct information processing, sound inference, and good interpersonal relationships are all key elements in solving problems. This is not only true in ** and TV dramas, but various problems in real life also require us to process and use information in the right way. Chen Ru said gratefully: "I usually save some money, and 150,000 yuan should be enough." This is the background and reason why Chen Ru borrowed money from **Ying.
* Ying took the remaining 30,000 yuan to pay the rent and water and electricity bills in the ancient city, and struggled to spend a few months, but in the end he fell into a penniless predicament. In order to survive, he can only rely on selling his beloved records to survive. Rui Xiaodan witnessed the hard life of **ying sweating but reluctant to install air conditioning and eat instant noodles.
At this moment of exhaustion, **Ying never asked Chen Ru to repay the debt, let alone mention the matter to others. Chen Ru also remained silent about the debt and did not disclose it to the outside world. So, how did Han Chufeng learn about this situation?
01 Analysis of information.
Rui Xiaodan developed feelings for ** Ying, and Ouyang Xue deliberately embarrassed him in the wine game. **Ying disdains arguing with women, so she can only seek Han Chufeng's help. But Rui Xiaodan couldn't stand it anymore, she took the initiative to relieve ** Ying, but asked him to reveal who was the first person to ask for help when he encountered difficulties. The wise Rui Xiaodan understands that the first person who thinks of asking for help in a difficult situation is often the person they trust the most. Therefore, Rui Xiaodan went to Beijing to learn from Han Chufeng about the situation of **Ying.
In the exchange with Han Chufeng, Rui Xiaodan revealed **Ying's predicament. Han Chufeng was shocked when he heard that ** Ying had fallen into poverty to the point of eating instant noodles. He knew very well that **Ying's life was simple, and 180,000 yuan should have been enough to support his life in the ancient city for two years. Why did he fall so far?His money went againWhy don't you ask yourself for help in a difficult situation?In this regard, Han Chufeng began to analyze and infer based on the existing information.
02 Understand the people around you.
Han Chufeng knows ** Ying very well, and knows that he lives a simple life and has almost no pursuit of material things, so it is impossible to squander it wantonly. Did he lend money to someone else?Ying doesn't have many friends, except for Jenny, Zheng Jianshi, Li Jianghong and himself, he has almost no other friends. And these people are either rich or expensive, and they are not short of money. So, who exactly did Ying's money lend to?
The experience of interacting with ** Ying made Han Chufeng firmly believe that when he encountered difficulties, ** Ying would definitely seek his help as soon as possible. But this time, he suffered silently and did not reveal anything to himself. Han Chufeng realized that there must be something hidden in it.
and inconvenient place. He himself has not borrowed money from **Ying, so the only person who is worthy of **Ying's avoidance from him is his wife. He knew that if his wife couldn't solve the difficulties, if he didn't want him to know, the most likely thing was to ask **Ying for help, because she even had a relationship with **Ying. 03Make accurate judgments. Through the analysis of the information and the understanding of his friend **Ying and his wife Chen Ru, Han Chufeng accurately judged that **Ying's money must have been borrowed by his wife Chen Ru.
After Han Chufeng went home, he told his wife Chen Ru about **Ying's down-and-out situation, and Chen Ru was full of self-blame and said about borrowing money from **Ying. Chen Ru said: "Yuan Ying, doesn't this heart embarrass me", this sentence is full of Chen Ru's apology, and the implication is that if she knew that **Ying was so difficult, she would never ask **Ying to open her mouth to borrow money. Han Chufeng's banter about ** Ying.
The exchanges between the masters are not particularly straightforward, revealing the naked relationship of interests, and they care more about the silent warmth of moisturizing things. Han Chufeng did not break this matter, did not immediately repay ** Ying's money, but was waiting for an opportunity. It just so happened that in order to create a poverty alleviation myth for Rui Xiaodan, **Ying needed to borrow funds from him, so that you came and I returned **Ying's love.
Taking the opportunity to go to Zen and enlightenment with **Ying Wutai Mountain, he paid 150,000 "knock money", so that he just repaid the borrowed money for his wife. 》。Cao Xueqin said in "Dream of Red Mansions": "The world is full of knowledge, and the practice of human feelings is the article", for ** Ying, Han Chufeng's wife Chen Ru, still hasn't repaid the money, it doesn't matter when he will repay the money, when he lent the money, he chose to bear the consequences.
But it's different for Han Chufeng, feelings are just like ** Ying said: "A corner is missing today, and a piece is missing tomorrow, then it will not be far from collapse", so if there is something damaging to feelings between friends, like Han Chufeng, analyze and judge through existing information, and make up for it in time, so that the friendship can last for a long time.
In some delicate situations, people's behaviors and motivations become complex. Han Chufeng knew this very well. He didn't borrow money directly from ** Ying, but he realized that if ** Ying avoided him, it was probably because he didn't want to disturb Han Chufeng's family. After all, in this world, only people close to you will make **Ying have such concerns.
Han Chufeng is a smart person. Through observation and reasoning, he came to the conclusion that **Ying's money was borrowed by his wife Chen Ru. This is not a rash judgment. He is based on his knowledge of ** Ying and Chen Ru, as well as his insight into his wife.
After Han Chufeng returned home, he decided to discuss this topic with Chen Ru. He wanted to help her with this problem that might be bothering her. When Chen Ru heard about **Ying's predicament, she felt very guilty. She admits to the fact that she borrowed money from ** Ying, and says that if she knew about his predicament, she would never ask him for help.
Interactions between masters are not always so direct or transparent. Their relationships are often based on deep emotion and trust, rather than a simple exchange of interests. Han Chufeng understands this. He was in no hurry to reveal the truth of the matter or pay his debts immediately. Instead, he waited for the right moment.
When **Ying needed funds to help Rui Xiaodan create a myth of poverty alleviation, Han Chufeng saw an opportunity. He took the opportunity to interact with **Ying and provided him with the required funds. At the same time, he also went to Wutai Mountain with **Ying to participate in Zen and enlightenment. In the process, he paid 150,000 yuan for "knocking on the door", which happened to repay the loan for his wife.
The insight of the world is knowledge, and the practice of human feelings is the article", this is the point of view put forward by Cao Xueqin in "Dream of Red Mansions". For **Ying, no matter when Chen Ru repays the money, it doesn't matter. He had already accepted the possible outcome the moment he lent the money. But for Han Chufeng, the situation is different. He understands the importance of emotion and understands the meaning of "missing a corner today, missing a piece tomorrow". Therefore, when friendship is threatened, he chooses to solve the problem in a timely manner through analysis and judgment to maintain the harmony and longevity of the relationship.