Mother's ** suddenly sounded, and I was busy processing a work report, and I picked it up with some impatience. Hey, Mom, what's the matter?"Xiao Ming, hurry up and go home, Mom has been very unwell recently and needs you to come back to take care of it for a few days." Mother said weakly in **. I frowned, I was busy with work lately, so I didn't have time to go home to take care of my sick mother. "Mom, I have a very important project at work here, and it's not convenient to leave now, you can be careful and take more supplements." "You don't care about your old mother, do you?"The mother raised her voice, "I'm just your son, and now that I'm sick, you won't come back to see if you still have a conscience!""I was helpless, and I thought of all kinds of excuses to shirk in my mind, but my mother blamed me so bitterly, and I was embarrassed to push it away.
I know, I know Mom, I'll see if I can take a vacation back in the next two days, you pay attention to rest first, don't work too hard. "That's all I can do. Hung up**, I sighed heavily. It's not easy to get rid of work and run back to your hometown!I was used to living alone in the city, and going back to my hometown was Chinese for me, and my mother's nagging advice irritated me. But, after all, she is my real mother. No matter how reluctant I am, I can't just ignore the old man.
Besides, if I refuse directly, I won't be able to save face in front of my relatives and friends in the future. After thinking about it, I still booked a ticket for the last day to go home to visit my mother. Since I'm going, I'm going to go back as soon as possible, and I don't want to stay in my hometown for too many days. When my mother learned that I was going back, she was as happy as a child. In **, she told me some messy things, asked me to buy some food, and said that I would wait for me to go back and chat with her.
I responded perfunctorily, thinking that I would have to find a chance to talk to my mother when I went back, and I also had my own life, and I couldn't be called by her all day. The drive was long and boring, and I listened to the song while thinking about what I had to say when I met my mother. Somehow, I suddenly missed my mother's face a little. In the years since I left home, I rarely went back to see her, and I felt faintly guilty. Forget it, go back and look at the old man's body, and stay with her for a few days. When I got home, it was already dark, and my mother greeted me happily: "Xiao Ming is back!".Come in and sit down, Mom will give you a hot meal!"Okay, okay, I miss you!I put on a smiling face and dragged my luggage into the house. My mother warmly beckoned me to dinner, chattering about family life. I was absent-mindedly perfunctory, thinking about getting to rest after my meal. Who knew that the more my mother talked, the more excited she became, clinging to me to catch up and chat, and not giving me a chance to breathe at all.
I got up in a daze, thinking that it was only six o'clock in the morning, and the market must have just opened, so I really didn't know what my mother was anxious about. But in the face of her nagging, I could only get up and wash up silently. When I came home after buying groceries, my mother told me to repair the door lock of the house, and last night when she was sleeping, she heard a movement outside, and asked me to quickly fix the door lock to prevent thieves from breaking in.
I looked at the door that seemed intact, and I was too lazy to toss it, but my mother insisted that I fix it immediately. I had to find another tool to readjust the door lock, and it took more than an hour to finally meet my mother's "security needs". It was already noon after all these chores, and I was rumbling with hunger, and I was about to ask my mother for food, but she had already told me to go to the nearby vegetable market to buy vegetables to make lunch. "Mom, I haven't eaten breakfast yet, it takes two hours to buy vegetables and cook, can't you just hot the leftovers for me to fill my stomach first?."I said dissatisfied.
How can you eat without food!My mother replied confidently, "It's trivial to go grocery shopping and cook, and it's really useless to grind like this!.""For the next few days, I continued to be called back and forth by my mother. She always found all kinds of reasons to tell me to do this and that, and I accepted all kinds of unreasonable instructions from her like a free laborer. I gradually felt more and more angry, and felt that my mother simply did not treat me as a son, but only as a free nanny and laborer.
Finally, one day, my mother made a lot of demands, and my anger finally exploded. "Do you have to command your son like that?I suddenly raised my voice and said, "I still have my own life, not your free labor!."Can you give me a little respect, too?Mom's eyes widened, she didn't expect me to suddenly lose my temper so much. She immediately turned red eyes, choked up and said: "I'm just this one son, I'm not in good health and just want to rely on you for a few days, you lose your temper with me like this, I'm really pitiful as a mother!""I watched my mother cry anxiously, and my heart was also very uncomfortable.
Both of us have our own hardships, but I am so tired from getting along in the past few days. "Okay Mom, don't cry. I took a deep breath, "I'm too tired to serve you today, so I'll go back to the city tomorrow, and you take care of yourself." With that, I turned and went upstairs to my room, slammed the door shut, and one of them sulked. It's good for both parties to leave here, and I'm really worried that if this continues, the mother-son relationship will only get stiffer and stiffer.
Closing the door, I sulked until dark. Although I decided to leave here, I felt very bad when I thought of my mother crying and begging me to stay. The next morning, when I packed my bags and prepared to leave, my mother pulled me crying and wouldn't let me go. "Son, are you so ruthless that you don't care about me, an old man?She wiped her tears and said, "I'm not in good health, only you are my support, please stay with me for a few more days!.""I was determined to leave, but seeing my mother pleading like this, my heart relented. "Okay, Mom, I'll stay with you for a few more days.
But we have to talk, I have my own life, and you can't keep asking me to do this and that. I said with a sigh. Mom hurriedly nodded in agreement. I saw that she was really not doing well, so I decided to take her to the hospital for a check-up first. When the results of the examination came out, the doctor said that my mother had diabetes and needed to continue to take medication and monitor regularly. When I heard this result, I only felt my heart sink It turns out that my mother's health is already so bad, and I only complain about her trouble these days, and I still want to leave her. "Doctor, is my mom seriously ill?Do I need to be hospitalized**I asked apprehensively. "There is no need to be hospitalized for the time being, you can pay more attention.
However, the condition should not be delayed, and it should be checked regularly. The doctor said. I sent my mother home, and looking at her thin back, my heart was full of self-reproach. It turns out that she is already in such a bad health that she makes so many demands on me. I shouldn't be so selfish and just think about my feelings. "Mom, I'm sorry, it's my son who is not good. I whispered to my mother, "In the future, I will ask the company for a long leave of absence and live at home to take good care of you." Our mother and son will start over from now on, okay?When my mother heard what I said, she nodded with red eyes.
When I saw her like this, my eyes turned red. From that day on, I put down my work and devoted myself to taking care of my mother at home. Check her blood sugar regularly, take her medicine on time, and prepare a healthy diet carefully. At first, my mother was a little unaccustomed to it, but gradually she felt that I cared about me, and our relationship became more and more harmonious. One day, when I was checking my blood sugar, my mother suddenly said: "Son, my mother always thought you were disobedient before, but now that I think about it, my mother didn't understand you." I'm really glad you can lean over and take care of me like this. When I heard my mother's words, my nose was sore, and I held her hand and said, "Mom, we are a family, and we should understand and support each other." I will come back to see you often in the future. Mom nodded, tears welling up in her eyes. I can feel that the relationship between mother and child is sublimated in the daily life of care, deeper and warmer than any words. I learned the meaning of selfless giving, which was the most precious experience of my life.
The relationship with my mother was repaired, and I let go of my previous grievances and took care of her daily life carefully. Although I can't go out to work, I feel very happy to be with my mother.
Gradually, under my careful care, my mother's condition improved. She was no longer always tired, and her complexion was much better. One day at dinner, she suddenly sighed: "Xiao Ming, thanks to your care during this time, I feel much better." I am so touched that you have put down your work and stayed by my side. ”
I shook my mother's hand and whispered, "Mom, this is what I should do." You gave birth to me, raised me, and now it's my turn to be filial to you. During this time, I also learned a lot of ways to take care of patients, and I will be by your side to take care of you if you have any physical problems in the future. ”
Son, Mom is really pleased. I also hope that you don't always accompany me, and you should pay attention to your own life. Mother said earnestly.
I will, you can recuperate first, and leave the rest to me. I replied with a smile.
After another half a month, under my careful conditioning, my mother's condition has basically stabilized. She can live and eat by herself, and she doesn't need me to follow her all day. One morning, she said to me, "Son, Mom is much better now, you don't have to watch me all day, and your own work is also important." You'll be back in a few days. ”
I was a little reluctant, but seeing that my mother was indeed able to take care of herself, I agreed to go back to the city to work. On the day I left, I repeatedly told my mother to pay attention to her diet and medication, and to report any problems to me immediately. My mother smiled and nodded, and told me to be careful on the road.
I grabbed my luggage and stepped on the return train. Through the window, I looked at my mother, who was waving on the platform, her figure fading into the distance. Returning home this time gave me a deeper feeling of "home". A long-lost sense of belonging filled my heart.
When I go back to work, I often think about my hometown. Talking about this experience, my colleagues are very envious of me for having such a warm home. I started greeting my mother regularly and sending in supplements and supplements in my spare time. My mother will also warm me in **. As I chatted, my eyes turned red with excitement.
Coming home this time made me truly understand the love that my family has for me. In the future, I will be more filial to my parents and go home to visit me often. No matter how busy I am, the love and companionship of my family is what I crave the most. This friendship will always nourish my strength to move forward.