When high school students enter the rebellious period, this stage is often combative and complex. Perhaps in the face of academic pressure, interpersonal contact problems and other challenges, the child's mood will become more volatile, and the parents will be like a window between them, which will cause various problems with each other, and the connection will become tense.
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What should I do if my high school daughter's daughter is disobedient during the rebellious period?
1. Listen to the reasons for your child's disobedience.
Many times, when we are so angry with our children that we grit our teeth, we want to catch him and beat him or criticize him loudly, etc., in fact, these practices are wrong, and they will only plant the seeds of resentment in the child's heart, and go further and further. When the child is disobedient, parents should calm down and ask the child why he is disobedientThe reason is in**?There may be times when we misunderstand our children.
2. Understand the mental characteristics of high school students.
High school is a turning point for students, due to the increase in subjects, the content of learning Xi will become complicated, plus children are in adolescence, beginning to have their own ideas, but poor self-control, it is very simple to be some things other than Xi, and there will be a "rebellious psychology", which will make children's academic Xi grades continue to decline, and even to the edge of no saving.
3. Learn to understand children.
Just as your child understands your progress, before you express any opinion about your child, you must put yourself in your child's shoes as to why he is doing this, how he will feel after doing so, what he expects others to think of him, and what he wants to get out of the work he does. Try to take more time to pay attention to children's learning Xi and life, and more importantly, pay more attention to children's psychology, try to share children's joys, sorrows, and sorrows, and try to be children's friends.
4. Really put down your body.
Some parents always like to insist on dignity in front of their children and are Xi to treating them with the above emotions. Here is the suggestion that mom and dad should really lower their status and respect their children from the heart. Stop talking to your child in a commanding tone and treat your child with the same respect as an adult.
The reason for the rebellion of the high school student's daughter:
1. Restrictions on parents going overboard.
Your excessive restrictions on your child will definitely cause a huge burden on the child's mind, and after a long time, there will always be a moment when the string will break, and then the child's behavior will be out of control. Proper management and scientific guidance are the most conducive environmental conditions for children's growth.
2. Mom and Dad are too doting on their children.
Doing everything for the child, the child's hands-on ability is very poor, and the parents may think it's okay when they are young, and they think that the child is still young, and it's nothing to help them do, but the child is getting bigger and bigger, and he still relies on his parents This is incomprehensible.
3. Self-identity and independence.
During the teenage years, children usually begin to develop their own identity and independence. They want to be recognized, but they also want more autonomy. When parents do not provide proper support and understanding in this process, children may choose to express themselves through rebellion.