The problem of children's addiction to games has become one of the most worrying things for parents. Gaming is a problem, but not the main one. The problem is still in the family, and if your child is addicted to games, there are a few things you can try to educate them:
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How to educate 11-year-old children to play games?
1. Figure out why your child is addicted to games.
Every child will be addicted to gaming for the exact same reasons. Some love the impact and the freshness;Others play games just to find a common language with their friendsSome are meant to relieve stress;Others, it was actually because of anger with Mom and Dad. Therefore, parents should not treat their children harshly after discovering that they are addicted to games, as this will only provoke their children's rebellious psychology and make things worse.
2. Give children high-quality accompaniment.
If parents and children lack emotional communication for a long time, then the child's emotions can only extend to the online world, and it is very likely that they will be immersed in the game and vent their emotions and emotions through the game. Therefore, in daily life, parents should accompany their children more. Accompanying a child is not only a person who can accompany the child, but also should understand, trust, support the child, be able to communicate with the child on an equal footing, and listen to the voice of the child's heart, so as to be able to enter the child's heart and be a friend of the child.
3. Seek replacement and update the environment.
The biggest damage to the game is that it allows people to live in unreal, alone in a closed environment. As parents, we have to do the opposite, we should take our children to the wild, and do a good job of carrying and replacing interests through sports such as climbing, cycling, fitness, ball games, etc., so that children can vent in the sun and sweat.
What are some of the reasons why children play games?
1. Excessive Xi pressure.
Some children will feel frustrated due to excessive pressure on their school Xi, or they may be over-controlled, and then play to relieve stress, and when they pass, they will be promoted or rewarded, so that they have a sense of achievement.
2. The threshold for getting started with the game is low.
Compared with the previous games, the current game is more, and the functional content inside has been streamlined, so that children can get started quickly, and the game screen can be affected by a little bit of brainlessness, and the game values bring children an intense sensory experience.
3. The game has a communicative character.
The communication system in the game is very perfect, in some games it is necessary for multiple players to work together to complete the game policy, children will meet a lot of game teammates in this form of promotion, so as to make friends, so that children have a greater sense of belonging to the game.
4. It can make children feel satisfied.
Games provide a virtual world that allows children to forget about reality for a while and gain a sense of security and control. Games are often planned in the form of promotion, such as unlocking new equipment, achieving high scores, and promoting characters, etc., which can give people a sense of satisfaction and achievement. And this sense of satisfaction and accomplishment may be difficult for children to achieve in their daily life and Xi, so they are even more immersed in it.