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That's what the Warring States Policy says. "The most important thing to know between people is to know each other, and the most important thing to know between people is to know each other's hearts. ”
In this world, we all want to be able to meet true love.
But at the same time, I hope we can all understand a truth:
The relationship between people is mutual. If someone has done these four things to you, it means that they are not worthy of your loyalty.
I have a friend who is very optimistic. No matter what happens in my life, I try to change myself.
But one day, when I was talking to him, I found out that it was because no one could understand his character.
When I talk to him, I always feel lonely in my heart. He didn't understand whatever I did.
I once invited a friend out to hang out. My friend wants to go to the movies, but I've invited another friend to go to dinner with me.
So I told my friend about it. I thought she would understand my feelings. But what she didn't expect was, "Isn't it normal for us to watch movies?"Why did you invite me?”
So, you need to put yourself in your shoes. People who think this way must love you if they don't just think about their own interests.
In other words, if a person doesn't care about your feelings, it means that he doesn't deserve your loyalty.
There are always people in life who like to compare their friends to others.
For example, other people's children grow up well, but their own children Xi do not learn well, or other people's jobs are good, but their own work is not good.
However, such comparisons are meaningless. Everyone is an individual and therefore has their own trajectory in life.
For friends, we need to encourage, support, and help each other. If a person always compares you to others, it means that he does not see you as a friend at all.
Eastern Zhou Chronicles" cloud: "The friendship of gentlemen is as light as water, the friendship of villains is as sweet as wine, and the friendship of gentlemen is as gentle as friendship", and the friendship of villains is as sweet as wine. ”
Each of us should not live for the opinion of others, nor should we live for comparison with others. Only in this way can we achieve more happiness in this world.
I once heard the saying, "The best relationships are when you can tell your partner what you think, and the other person is willing to listen." ”
There is no one in this world who understands you best. AUO above.
Friends are arguably the most important people in our lives because they are there for us at every stage of life.
However, it often turns out that not everyone cherishes everything we have.
When someone refuses to talk to you about their feelings, it means they don't consider you to be the closest friend.
If you meet such a person, no matter who he is, you should approach him immediately.
This happens because such people are not worthy of honesty.
After all, honesty comes at the expense of honesty. Why pay more to someone who doesn't have even the most basic trust?