The third son-in-law took care of me in the hospital for half a month, and after I was discharged from the hospital, I asked him not to come in the future!
It seems that no filial son in front of the bed for a long time is a hurdle that everyone can't get over, no matter how filial this person is, it seems that he will encounter this problem. Long-term illness, tormenting is not one person, even a family, two families, some people say that raising children to prevent old age, but many times, a son-in-law and half a son, the son-in-law's contribution may be more. Chunying has 3 daughters and 1 son, but last time she was hospitalized with a sudden illness, only the third son-in-law came by her side, and he took care of Chunying in the hospital for half a monthUntil he was discharged from the hospital, but after he was discharged, Chunying asked him not to come back in the future!
A few years ago, Chunying's wife passed away, and she lived at home alone.
When she was young, Chunying's son was working in the field, and the family of four lived in the field, and the wife felt sorry for her son's family at that time, so she mobilized Chunying and asked her to follow her son out, and she didn't have to do anything, just help take care of the child.
Chunying's son Liang Xin has 2 sons, and his daughter-in-law is a small employee of a factory who works every day, so Chunying's life in those years was also very hard, she had to pick up and drop off her two grandchildren to and from school every day, and she had to wash clothes and cook every day, but what about her daughter-in-law?often works overtime, so when she doesn't get off work until midnight, Chunying still has to cook for her daughter-in-law.
Sometimes Liang Xin came back from work, ate two bites of food, and went out to work overtime, this meal, I have to cook one more meal, in those years, Chunying was like many ordinary mothers-in-law, taking care of her grandson, taking care of her daughter-in-law, taking care of her son, without her own life, she followed her son in the field alone, and lived for decades.
Once, Chunying's three daughters all wanted to take her back and let her live at home, but Chunying always said, whose mother-in-law is not like this?Taking care of the son and taking care of the grandson, this is what has been passed down from generation to generation, there is no grievance or grievance.
Even, the eldest daughter Lan Fang quarreled with Liang Xin because of this incident, and asked Liang Xin if his mother fell ill one day, would he and his daughter-in-law take care of their mother?
When these words came out, Liang Xin's daughter-in-law did not speak, and Liang Xin looked at her daughter-in-law's face and said slowly"Look at what you said, my mother is sick, I will definitely take care of it. ”
The sound is so small that you can't even hear it close to your ears.
Intermittently, Chunying took care of her two grandsons, and with the assistance of her wife, she also bought a house for Liang Xin outside, and then, he took the household registration away, this time, it was completely settled outside, and there was no plan to go home, and after the grandson went to high school, intermittently, Chunying did not run to her son's side again, and the daughter-in-law said that the family was small and the room was not enough, so she couldn't live there.
Everyone understands the implication.
When Chunying was young, she went out to help take care of the children, and when she came back, her hair was already gray and she was sick. When Liang Xin sent her back to her hometown, he also said that Chunying was too old to toss outside, and she should retire in her hometown.
Yes, when people are old, they come back from other places, but they don't have a penny in their pockets, and they are sick.
Lan Fang also has a grandson now, she takes care of the child every day, and occasionally comes to see her parents, she is ten thousand dissatisfied with Liang Xin, every time she wants to speak, she is stopped by Chunying, "Forget it, grandma takes care of her grandson, it is natural, there is nothing to worry about, don't you have a few acres of land at home?"Your father and I can live on the farm. ”
But unexpectedly, it was only a little more than two years before Lan Fang's father died.
At home, my mother was the only one left.
Living alone, life is inevitably a little bitter and monotonous. One year, Chunying came back from the field and fell down when she walked to the head of the village, and after being discharged from the hospital, her legs were a little inconvenient, Lan Fang, as the eldest sister, wanted to talk to a few younger brothers and sisters about taking care of the elderly, but Liang Xin's daughter-in-law took the lead in saying that she had no time, and said that the two children were going to college, and she was under a lot of pressure, so she really didn't have time to take care of the children.
Liang Xin's daughter-in-law also said, whoever is close will take care of it, anyway, he has no time to take care of it, besides, it is impossible to take the old man to the field, right?After all, it's not appropriate to live in a foreign country.
When Lan Fang heard what her younger siblings said, she was going to get angry and beat someone. Why didn't you say this when you were taking care of your children?Now that people are old, you say such things.
However, even more incredible things are yet to come.
lived like this intermittently, and life was difficult for a few years, until one day, Chunying suddenly had a cerebral infarction and was hospitalized.
It was found by the neighbor, and in the morning, the neighbor wanted to go over to borrow something, and he found out that something was wrong, so he hurriedly called Lan Fang.
Lan Fang called her sister and Liang Xin again. Until noon, his sister Lan Xin came over, but Liang Xin did not come back, he said that he was busy, and his daughter-in-law was also busy, so he would not come back.
Lan Fang wanted to be angry, but she was also helpless, after all, in many cases, her son got the most, but he was the least willing to pay.
It's useless to take all the family wealth, and to be wronged and angry, isn't this always the case?
On the first night of hospitalization, several members of the family came to keep vigil, but after two days it was gone.
Lan Fang has to take care of her grandson, and there is a paralyzed father-in-law at home, and she has to go home to take care of her.
The second Lan Xin can't help it, the business has really been getting better and better in recent years, but she can't be busy, she lives in other places all year round, and even her mother's family rarely goes home, she really can't help it.
What about my brother?So far, except for a **, I haven't said anything else, and my younger siblings haven't taken it seriously, and they haven't even said a word of greeting.
When Lan Fang was worried, the door opened at this time, and a person walked in, Lan Fang was stunned.
This person is none other than the third brother-in-law, Leizi.
Lan Fang was surprised, and Lan Xin was also surprised.
Leizi ran over with a quilt, a footwasher, a toothbrush and a series of other things, and it seemed that he was prepared.
Lan Fang asked Leizi to leave quickly, there was no need to be here, and said that she would look at her mother and not have so many people to guard her, and Lan Xin said the same.
They have been thinking of ways to let Leizi leave, but Leizi said that his business is small, and it will not be in the way of closing for three or five days, besides, he is indeed the most suitable person now, can there be a better way to solve the plan of caring for the elderly?
Lan Fang thought about it, and it seemed that this was really the case.
But, isn't that bad?
Leizi said that he came to take care of his mother, and there was nothing suitable or inappropriate.
Lan Fanglan's heart is gone, leaving Leizi alone to take care of Chunying.
Chunying had already woken up the next day, but she couldn't speak, and when she saw Leizi, she kept whining and saying something, and even pulled Leizi with her hand and motioned for him to go.
Leizi smiled and pointed to the quilt and footpad and toothbrush or something, "I'm not leaving, the eldest sister and the second sister are all in trouble, I'll take care of you these days, my small store is closed, and I'm resting these days, taking care of you." ”
Chunying never wanted him to take care of him, and he didn't cooperate in every way, but he couldn't resist Leizi after all.
Injections, taking medicine, receiving water, turning over the body, changing bed sheets, etc., are all done by Leizi alone.
Every day, Leizi moved a small stool, sat in front of the hospital bed and guarded Chunying, at night, Chunying woke up a few times, Leizi hurried to help her as soon as possible, during that time, Leizi was visibly emaciated, his eyes were bloodshot, he was very tired, and his hair was oily.
At night, Leizi brought a basin of water to wash Chunying's feet, and massaged her feet before going to bed to make her more comfortable.
When it's okay, I wash a little fruit, peel it, cut it into small pieces and feed it to Chunying, and every time I call water, I put it in a small bowl first, and then serve it to Chunying to drink after it cools.
This series of operations made everyone else in the ward very envious, and many patients were praising Leizi, the son-in-law, for being careful and doing a good job, and he was closer than his son.
Some patients also said that being so positive is like a new aunt, is it deliberately performing?What about fakes?
In fact, in the past few days, the patient also knows that Chunying has three daughters and a son, but only this one son-in-law comes to take care of her.
The patients didn't dare to ask anything, they just said that Leizi was good, and this son-in-law was quite worthwhile.
But the more the patients said this, the more awkward Chunying felt in her heart!
Oh, yes. Three sons-in-law, two are very busy, one is to take care of himself, and one has a son, who is far away and can't come back, and ** is only two hits.
But Chunying has always felt indebted, and even kept thinking about letting Leizi leave.
In the past few days, Lan Xin and they have come to visit Chunying, and every time, Chunying pulls her daughter to her side, and then whispers that she will find a way to get Leizi away, but to be honest, whether Leizi is helping to deal with excrement these days, or helping to wash her feet or changing the sheets with excrement, she has done a good job, and she even feeds her every day with a small mouthful, which is more careful than her own daughter and better than her own son.
It's really inappropriate to drive people away.
The three sons-in-law, one came to wait, and if he left, there would really be no one to keep vigil here.
In fact, Lan Fang was also distressed when she saw Leizi, who had been staying up late for the past few days, a person who was so energetic, he was so tired that he couldn't do it in the past few days, and he didn't have the strength to speak.
Lan Fang looked at Leizi and also cried.
In the past few days, the patients have been praising Leizi's goodness, but the more they praise, the more uncomfortable Chunying and Lan Fang became.
Because, the third child, has been gone for many years.
The third child is Chunying's only daughter who has gone to school, and the family is very happy, and she loves her very much.
It's just that I didn't expect that one year, the third child came back from outside a man and said that he wanted to marry him, and this man is now Leizi.
In fact, Chunying's thoughts are not feudal, and Leizi is also a college student, so it is quite a match.
However, Chunying's wife disagreed, the reason was very simple, that is, the family was poor and from other places.
Leizi thought of a way and said that he would work in the city in the future, buy a house in the city, and it would be good for orchids, but even if he said this, the old man still disagreed.
Poverty, the family situation is more complicated, is the direct cause of the rejection!
In fact, in the final analysis, the father-in-law is still worried that after Orchid gets married, he will suffer with Leizi.
This incident caused a lot of uproar, and even locked Orchid in the house, just not to let her meet Leizi, Orchid is also a strong girl, and she will go on a hunger strike if she is not allowed to meet.
came and went, and in the end it was Chunying who was sad, she really felt sorry for her daughter, so she did the ideological work of her wife, so that she could say nothing, which made him relieved, and the marriage was over.
But after getting married, everything is as Chunying's wife thinks, and their lives are not satisfactory.
As the old saying goes, poor couples mourn everything, this is not bad at all, Orchid gave birth to a child after getting married, and has been raising a baby at home, and the family has a single person to make money, and there is a mortgage, and life is very stressful.
Looking at the other two daughters' families, they seem to be quite capable, and the two sons-in-law make a lot of money.
Although Leizi is busy in the kitchen and keeps cooking, when he is eating, he has no chance to toast a glass of wine to his father-in-law, because his father-in-law is asking for warmth with the other two sons-in-law.
However, Chunying has been encouraging Leizi, telling him that he must work hard to make money, and when everyone is in trouble, just get through it, she believes that her daughter's vision will not be bad.
For many years to come, the days slowly boiled up, and as the days passed, Leizi saved a little money and opened a hardware store, where Orchid usually helped watch the business.
Sometimes, Orchid's father would pass by her shop, but only to look at it, sit down and leave after a while. In his heart, this son-in-law of Lei is still not as capable as the other two.
However, Chunying has always encouraged Leizi and Orchid, and they must live hard, behave well, and strive to let others take a second look.
However, when the days were getting better, the orchid unexpectedly left.
When the family got the notice, the old man came over in a hurry, and after seeing Leizi, he was beaten with a head and face, in his heartNo matter how his daughter went, but it must have been caused by Leizi, if it wasn't for living with Leizi, how could such a thing happen?
The old man also gave an orderIt is not allowed to have any relationship with any of his children and any relatives, and since then, this relative has been broken!
As soon as he spoke, everyone in the family did not dare to resist, and gradually, he began to alienate Leizi.
For many years, it was like this, until Leizi's father-in-law died, and Chunying was left alone in the family, and Leizi began to slowly take gifts to see his former mother-in-law.
However, after so many years, Leizi has been living with two children and has never found a new love.
Over the years, not only Chunying, but also Lan Xin and several of them have also persuaded him that when the child grows up, he can also think about his own affairs.
But Leizi never thought about it.
Up to now, the orchid has been gone for many years, but every year Leizi will go to his mother-in-law's house to pay New Year's greetings, so many years, has not changed, when they meet, they have been calling "Niang", although Chunying has repeatedly emphasized that there is no need to shout "Niang", but Leizi said,If she hadn't insisted on letting Orchid marry her, I'm afraid there would not be these two children now, it was she who fulfilled herself and Orchid, even if Orchid left and shouted her mother, that is, a lifetime mother, and it will not change.
For so many years, Chunying has no one around her, and she lives at home alone, sometimes Leizi will go over to visit, and sometimes she will sit at the door of her house, and she will sit for an afternoon. The two of them didn't even say anything, they just sat together, right in front of their house.
For so many years, Leizi has been with him more than anyone else.
So now, when the patients are praising this son-in-law for being good, Chunying doesn't know what to say!
was discharged, Liang Xin did not appear, even the medical expenses were settled by Leizi in the end, Liang Xin just said politely, and didn't say anything else.
Lan Ying and the others wanted to share the cost equally, but Leizi said no, and said that this was what he should do.
Lan Ying knew that this was his own way, thank his mother for agreeing to his marriage to the third child, but the third child had been gone for so many years, and he still lived alone with two children.
Leizi drove them all home.
After Chunying arrived home, many neighbors came to the house, and some people recognized Leizi, so they were surprised a lot, and some even asked how Leizi's two children were doing.
After a greeting, the crowd dispersed.
Chunying called Leizi to her side and told him"Don't come here in the future, take care of the two children at home, I have your two sisters to take care of, don't worry about me!."”
After speaking, he took out a wallet from under the bed and wanted to give him all the money inside, but Leizi hurriedly refused"Mother, what are you doing here!”
Chunying said that she would give him the money, "Hospitalized for half a month, you have worked hard, and let you take the medical expenses, you have to take this money, not much, it is my mind." ”
Isn't it the right thing to spend money on your elders?Otherwise, why make money?”
You have two more children!It's not easy for you, if you don't take this money, we won't get along with each other in the future. ”
Lei Zi couldn't resist it, and finally compromised.
Leizi left, and Chunying told him that if he could not come in the future, he would not come, and it would be meaningless to come.
But Leizi only agreed in his mouth, but in his heart, he did not agree.
Why did I come, I came to see the place where my daughter-in-law lived, to see my daughter-in-law's own mother, and to see the person who agreed to marry my daughter in the first place.
That person is old, and it's time for him to do his part!
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