She told me that the first thing is the issue of pension, because her two children do not have serious jobs, and she does not have a regular income**, so I hope that my daughters will divide half of the pension money I give me every month, so that her life will also have a certain security. The second thing is that her own house is for her two sons, and I don't feel any pressure to add her name to my house. She said that in case of divorce, she would also have a certain amount of living security.
The third thing is to hope that my children will not interfere in my life with her and let me and her make our own decisions. He said that this is also so that the two of us can make our own decisions, and asked me to give her son some living expenses every month. The fourth thing is that if I leave first, all my property will belong to her, because she is my wife, and she should inherit my property, so that she can manage my property for me and not let her children quarrel.
After listening to these conditions, my head instantly buzzed, I didn't know how to answer her, she asked me if I would say yes. After thinking about it for a while, I said angrily, do you want to live with me, or do you want to covet my property?My house and my pension are all given to me by my own children, and it doesn't seem to have much to do with you, and you still let me give your son a monthly living allowance, are you afraid that you are dreaming?Don't say it's your son, it's you, I don't necessarily give you money to spend, I'm just seeing through you now, this marriage is still not over.
The rest of the day was not good for me at all, her two sons always came to my house as if they were their own, and when there was no fruit, they told me to buy it. Wang Xiu said that they are also my sons, so let me buy them. I had a big fight with her, but I didn't dare to tell my daughter and son, because it was my own choice, and I shouldn't bother them anymore. But I can't hold on anymore.
After her two sons left, I had another big fight with her, and I insisted on divorcing her, saying that I could give her half of the property. I said you dream, and now I'm glad that I only verbally promised her, and didn't write any promises, and I won't give her a penny after this incident, and after a long time, she can't hold on.
She said let me give her 100,000 yuan, and she would divorce me immediately, otherwise she would make trouble with me, I was afraid that she would affect my children in the future, so I decisively agreed to her, divorce first, and then give money. This kind of marriage, don't do it, once a person reaches his old age, his wish is probably to hope that he will live happily, after all, he has worked hard for most of his life, and it is time to let himself enjoy the rest of his old age.
Of course, there are certain conditions for living a happy old age, such as having a certain economic foundation, filial piety, and a very healthy body. In fact, compared to these, it is important to have a partner who can always be by your side. Most elderly people feel that as long as they are healthy and able to live, it doesn't matter if they have a wife or not, after all, they can take care of themselves.
But the vast majority of the elderly find that after living alone for too long, they will feel a sense of loneliness, especially an elderly person who lives for a long time, even if you are healthy, how happy, without the company of your wife, after all, you are just a person, in this case, more old people are Xi to find a partner for themselves. It is also a very wise choice, not only to find a companion for yourself, but also to improve your own living standards, and at the same time to make your later life less lonely.
But the desire to find a good wife is not an easy thing for most old people, because there are too many problems involved during this period, personality problems and living Xi, and even some property problems. Some old people want to find a wife for themselves, maybe they are greedy for each other's property, and they don't want to spend the rest of their lives with him. It is almost difficult to meet this kind of old way with impure motives, and if you do, and want to live happily in the future. What are your thoughts on this?Feel free to leave a message in the comment area.