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Lu Yu is 39 years old this year, and he is not young anymore.
Although she now has a monthly salary of 20,000, she is not seriously ill now, but she does have minor illnesses.
For example, her waist has often hurt a lot recently, and she has been sitting in the office for a long time, and even her shoulders are numb.
She was really afraid that if she fell ill, then who would take care of the family.
My husband didn't discuss it with him, so he used all his savings of 200,000 yuan to buy a car for his brother-in-law.
This ** is treating her as a wife.
Thinking that my daughter will be in high school next year, my husband doesn't have any savings now.
At that time, I have to provide for my children's schooling, be responsible for the family's expenses, and think about saving money.
I also have to take care of the health of my in-laws, as well as their annual pension insurance and daily expenses.
Thinking of this, Lu Yu felt that his head was too big.
Why do you work so hard, obviously my husband is also a man with good character, how can I live like this?
Lu Yu regretted a little why he was so tall and refused to accept the big boss's support.
If he was really with him back then, he would give 100,000 yuan every month, and he would have 1 million yuan for a year.
Even if she and her husband are really divorced, then she can live well with her daughter, plus the money she earns, then she would have bought a house for her daughter a long time ago, and now she will not be so stressed.
There is nothing wrong with pursuing a good material life, but she really can't take that step.
Yes, indeed. My parents once said: "To be a human being, you must be upright, and don't do some things like stealing chickens and dogs."
It doesn't matter if you are a dignified and upright person, even if you work hard and are poor. ”
Just because of her parents' words, she didn't take that step.
But now, her husband does not consider her his wife.
She was really sad.
quarreled with her husband, she directly said divorce, and she didn't bring anything with her, so she ran out alone.
Walking on the street where the cars came and went, the night was getting deeper and deeper, and she put on a thin dress, and a gust of wind blew, and she felt a little cold.
Hurry back.
However, she didn't want to go home.
What are you doing back home?
In addition to his daughter, his husband doesn't feel sorry for him, and he just pretends to coax her when he goes back.
For so many years, every time I quarrel, I don't hold grudges if I coax her casually, Tan Jie also knows that this trick is very useful, so when she is at home, she will always insist on holding her and not letting her go away.
But Lu Yu was tired, really tired.
This time, she quietly took 200,000 yuan to buy a car for her brother-in-law, and she didn't plan to let him pay it back, she was very angry when she thought of this.
She worked hard for this family wholeheartedly, but people sent money outside, even if she earned more, she couldn't support her in-laws and brother-in-law.
She walked into a bubble tea shop, and it was not so cold at this time.
As soon as she sat down, her husband called her.
She hesitated, but took it anyway.
My husband's voice was a little anxious: "Lu Yu, are you going to **?."Come back soon!I knew I was wrong this time, but you listen to me.
I did this entirely because I wanted to help my brother get married as soon as possible, so that our family would solve a ** annoyance, and I could leave them alone in the future and work hard for our small family wholeheartedly.
Come, listen, Min Min also hopes that you will come back soon, hurry up, Min Min called her mother back. ”
The daughter also spoke: "Mom, you went?".Come back soon, it's late, you wear so little, it's easy to catch a cold.
Dad said that the 200,000 yuan was not for my uncle, but for borrowing, and he would have to return it to our family when he had money in the future.
Mom, are you a**?I'm going with my dad to pick you up. ”
Lu Yu listened, a little moved, but still didn't want to forgive her husband easily.
She said: "Minmin, you don't know how much this 200,000 means to our family?."I'm not angry, he really gave the 200,000 to your uncle.
It's that he's doing this, and he should discuss it with me first.
He only makes me feel like he doesn't treat me as family at all, and something bigger will happen in the future, but isn't that what he will hide from me?
Minmin, you hurry up and take a shower and go to bed, Mom will go back later, so you don't need to pick me up. ”
Lu Yu said a lot in one breath.
My husband grabbed the words again and said, "Lu Yu, come back, I really know it's wrong." We are a family of three, no matter what time we have to be good, you can rest assured, in my heart, you and your daughter are the most important. ”
Lu Yu thinks that her husband's words are very funny, what is the most important thing for her and her daughter?
If it was really the most important thing for her and her daughter in my husband's heart, then I wouldn't do such a thing.
Lu Yu said angrily: "Have you forgotten what your parents did to us in the first place?"
When we bought a house, they didn't pay a penny, and now your brother wants to get married and buy a car, but his family wants to pay so much.
I ask you, didn't you give birth to your parents?Do you owe them anything?
Your mother is embarrassed to talk about divorcing me, you can find a better woman, and she still doesn't look down on me.
He said that I didn't pass on the family to your family, isn't Min Min a child of your family?
Your mother is patriarchal, since he wants to take care of your brother, then let them take care of themselves, why do we have to pay so much money for our family?
Now that he is not married, you gave him 200,000 yuan to buy a car, so if it is his turn to get married, do you want to move all the property of our family to him?
I've really had enough of your parents' partiality over the years, if they are just partial, don't let me know, don't trouble our family, then I can still turn a blind eye and continue to live with you.
But now they're using our family's property, and I can't swallow that anyway. ”
The more Lu Yu spoke, the more excited he became.
She was really angry.
Angry and hung up**.
Yes, when Lu Yu and Tan Jie got married, they didn't have anything, let alone a house, not even a motorcycle.
When she got married, she only got a bride price of 2,000 yuan and a set of red quilts.
And there are a lot of bad Xi.
At that time, she was only in her early 20s, and she was like a big girl.
She always thought that as long as she was good to her in-laws, then they would also be good to her.
When she got married, her mother-in-law deliberately made things difficult for her.
Originally, when the tea was served, it was good to kneel down and finish the tea.
But the mother-in-law said, "What about our rules, the newly married daughter-in-law, you have to kneel here for an hour, and only when everyone is about to eat can you get up and go into the house." ”
Lu Yu didn't understand anything back then, she thought everyone was like this, so she knelt in the middle of the hall very obediently.
People come and go, and many relatives and friends will whisper when they see her kneeling there.
Lu Yu lowered his head like that, letting them talk.
Thinking about it now, Lu Yu hates her mother-in-law even more.
Later, when it was time to eat, her husband helped her up and pulled her into the room.
However, her knees were red from her knees, and she felt some pain.
When everyone was eating together, the mother-in-law said that the bride was not allowed to eat at the table all day today, and she could only have some food to eat in the evening.
She didn't understand why she was doing this, but luckily there were biscuits and melon seeds, as well as some red dates and peanuts in the new house.
When she was very hungry, she ate these things to satisfy her hunger.
The guests were lively outside, eating and drinking together.
Lu Yu was a little sleepy, she got up early in the morning to put on makeup, she wanted to sleep, but when she thought of her mother-in-law's face, she didn't dare to sleep.
I'm afraid that I will say that I broke the rules again.
At that time, Lu Yu had a thought in his heart, it was really tiring to get married.
This can't be done, that can't be done, she can only be in a daze in the new house.
It wasn't until about 2 o'clock in the afternoon that they had all finished eating, and when she was sleepy, her husband came in.
He actually secretly brought her a bowl of rice and sandwiched some of her favorite dishes.
Lu Yu was moved to cry all of a sudden.
Probably got married today, is leaving her parents, and goes to someone else's house, she can't be so willful from now on, she is really homesick.
It's probably because although my husband listens to his mother, he still feels sorry for her.
Or maybe it's because when she was serving tea to her mother-in-law this morning, her mother-in-law deliberately made it difficult for her and spoke coldly to her, that attitude was completely like treating her as an enemy and looking down on her, she was really wronged.
So when he saw this bowl of hot rice, Lu Yu's tears fell instantly.
Her husband Tan Jie is a straight man, and he hasn't talked about any girlfriends before, he was at a loss all of a sudden, and he didn't know what he should do, whether to hold her, or help her wipe her tears, or comfort her.
So, he picked up the food and picked it up to feed her.
Lu Yu laughed and felt that this big boy was really cute.
She muttered, "Okay, don't feed you, there are so many people outside." ”
Tan Jie was very distressed:
Then you eat quickly, I will close the door so that they don't know, and I will quickly take the bowl out if you eat.
Otherwise, my mother will say that the bride can't eat today. ”
Although Lu Yu is not a superstitious person, she was indeed afraid that she would commit some wedding taboos, so she immediately stopped: "Then you still bring me food to eat?"What if this causes discord in our marriage in the future?”
Lu Yu complained to her husband in a low voice.
Tan Jie said with a serious face: "I'm worried that you will be hungry, I really worked hard for you today, it's not easy to marry me, I will definitely let you live a good life in the future." ”
Lu Yu broke the defense again in an instant.
I will definitely let you live a good life in the future. This sentence touched her fiercely.
When a daughter marries a man, isn't it just that he has a heart that truly loves herself?
So many women can go to the knife mountain and go down to the oil pot for love, even if the man has no money, even if he is not good-looking, and his height is not high.
But she was also willingly willing to follow him.
This is the original intention of many women.
But in fact, many husbands and wives forget their original intentions when they live together, and men no longer feel sorry for their wives, and even betray their wives.
Since ancient times, men have liked three wives and four concubines, so it is their nature to be attentive.
But women always foolishly think that she will be the lucky one, and the man she marries must love her as life.
But they don't know that there is a time limit for a man to love a woman.
Lu Yu is because of her husband's words, I will definitely let you live a good life.
She followed him from nothing, from poverty to now having enough food and clothing.
In the meantime, they spent more than ten years.
But now, their lives are better, and their in-laws and brother-in-law are trying their best to ask for money from their family.
Lu Yu couldn't figure it out.
The house they live in now was bought 6 years ago.
At that time, she and her husband's savings were spent, and the down payment was 240,000.
She herself has 100,000, her husband has 120,000, and there is still a gap of 20,000.
Lu Yu called her husband: "You go and ask your parents to borrow a little money."
We are all optimistic about the house, I don't want to wait any longer for next year. ”
My husband also felt that Lu Yu should give her a house when he married him and lived a hard life with him for so many years.
That's why he is willing to ask his parents.
That day, he rode home on his motorcycle and saw his parents warming up in the house.
Mom and Dad saw him come back: "Tan Jie, you're back, hurry up and sit down." ”
Tan Jie looked at his parents and didn't wait for him to speak.
Mom said again: "Tan Jie, how is your economy lately?"Tan Ming doesn't study anymore, but he's still young, you can give him a little money to support him to learn a skill. ”
Tan Jie's words as soon as he wanted to borrow money came to his lips, and he swallowed it back.
He said, "Mom, we don't have any money lately, I came back today just to ask you to borrow a little money, we want to buy a house." ”
After hearing this, Mother Tan became a little angry: "What house did you buy?."Wouldn't it be nice to rent a house now?And now that the child is going to school again, what do you want to do?
As the eldest brother, you are now mainly your younger brother, you have to help him buy a car and a house, so that he can get married smoothly, and then think about your affairs.
You can live in the same small house as your current unit. ”
Tan Jie didn't expect that his mother would be so opposed to them buying a house.
However, Tan Jie just bought a house is Lu Yu's dream, they have been living in a small house before, but the environment is not good, it is an old house.
He came back this time because he wanted to get the money to buy a house no matter what.
Tan Jie said: "Mom, we are optimistic about a house, now it is 20,000, you borrow us 20,000 yuan first, and when we buy the house, when we have money in the future, we will support Tan Ming to buy a car and a house."
Lu Yu has been following me for so many years, and we haven't bought a house, so after buying a house, let her feel at ease. ”
Mother Tan was even more unhappy, she didn't look down on Lu Yu in the first place, she felt that she was a woman a little too strong, and her mother's family didn't have any money.
So she said:
You don't always think about that woman, now that you are the eldest brother, your younger brother is the person you are closer to, of course, you have to take care of your own family first, and then think about the rest.
Don't ask us for money, we don't have money, we have to keep it for your brother's marriage.
We still want to ask you what about the money?
We worked so hard for you to go to college, and you yourself went to graduate school later, and now you are studying for a doctorate, and you have money, and you don't return it to your family, and you still want to buy a house, and you have no conscience at all.
You are the eldest brother, and the main task now is to help your younger brother get married, he is 24 years old, and if you don't hurry up, he will soon be 30 years old.
Don't think about buying a house, give us the money first, and we'll save it for your brother to buy a house and get married. ”
Tan Jie saw that his mother was getting more and more excessive, and he was a little angry:
Mom, fortunately it wasn't Lu Yu who came back with me, otherwise she would have been even more angry.
I was indeed raised by you, and you also provided for me to finish college, and when I was studying for graduate school and a doctorate, I paid for it myself.
Over the years, I think it is not easy for you, so when you work to earn money, I will give you a little bit, that is, I hope to make your life a little better.
However, now that I have a family, I have been subsidizing you and my younger brother like this, Lu Yu will definitely have an opinion.
She now has a big opinion.
Today I came back to borrow money, and she has great expectations for you.
But now it seems that you will not want to.
That's it, anyway, I don't have any money for you now, I want to buy a house, you don't help me, what does Lu Yu have to say to you in the future, it's none of my business. ”
Tan Jie went home to borrow money this time, and he was also helpless.
But I don't have the power to change anything.
Mom and Dad have always been biased towards their younger brother in their hearts, and he can understand it.
After all, his younger brother has no academic qualifications, and his academic Xi grades are still very bad, and his parents are worried about him, and they think about him for the sake of him, and it is understandable to pave the way for his future.
Although his heart is very unbalanced, he understands.
But how should he explain it to his wife?
When he returned home, he confessed directly to Lu Yu: "My mother has no money, so let's ask others to borrow money." ”
Lu Yu was very hard to believe, she couldn't imagine that even if her in-laws looked down on her again, at least the house she wanted to buy was bought with their son.
In the future, the house will be left to their own granddaughter.
They refused to borrow even 20,000 yuan.
It really baffled her.
She questioned Tan Jie: "Your parents are too stingy, right?"Their son wants to buy a house, and they don't want to give it any money.
And we don't ask them to give, we ask them to borrow money, and your parents let me really see the in-laws who don't act.
Okay, I see, but I have to buy this house.
No matter how hard it is, I'm going to buy it. ”
Tan Jie knew Lu Yu's temperament, he couldn't get money from his parents, of course he had to find a way to borrow money.
So he started calling his friends.
Lu Yu was quite angry when he looked at him.
But she knew that Tan Jie didn't want to do this either.
So she plucked up the courage to ask her parents.
As soon as she opened her mouth, she said: "Mom, we want to buy a house, but there is still a gap of 20,000, whether you and Dad have it, if not, forget it." ”
Mother Lu is not like Mother Tan, although she also has 3 children, but for each of them, she is very distressed, she quickly said: "Okay, I'll talk to your father and get it for you later." ”
In this way, they successfully raised the money to buy a house.
After hanging up the **, Dad quickly transferred the money.
She finally bought the house she liked.
The house was bought, but the renovation was also a big head.
It happened that the hometown was demolished at that time, and Lu Yu meant to ask his in-laws to give him a little money for the demolition.
Because I heard from the people in the village that when the demolition was carried out, the two in-laws took a total of 300,000 yuan, Lu Yu thought, if it was divided equally, it would also be 100,000 yuan.
If there is not enough money, then the husband and wife will save a little more, and Lu Yu plans to ask the eldest brother and sister to borrow a little, so that they can decorate the house.
However, the in-laws were unwilling to give a penny.
When Tan Jie went back to ask for money again, he was scolded by Tan's mother again.
She said: "This money is kept by me and you for our own retirement."
You're still young, and you can earn your own money.
Besides, you're already married, why are you embarrassed to ask your parents for money?
You can ask too.
Anyway, this money won't be given to you this time anyway.
At the beginning, I said that I don't want to buy a house, just live in the small house that the unit is divided into.
But you want to buy it, and now you have no money to buy a house, and you come to ask us again.
Even our last bit of pension money wants to be taken away, your father and I are really a failure, how can you raise an unfilial son, just thinking about taking our money, it's too conscienceless. ”
Tan Jie listened, he was very disappointed, but at the same time he was also very sad.
He never thought about using their pension money, but just thought that his family was in temporary difficulty, and since his parents had a little money, they would come out to decorate them first.
When they save it later, they will slowly return it to them.
But the parents refused again and again.
Tan Jie was also completely disappointed.
He no longer has any illusions about his parents.
Asking them for money is harder than climbing to the sky.
In fact, he also understands that his parents said on the surface that the money was for their own retirement, but in fact, it was not for his younger brother to get married and buy a house in the future.
There is also a younger brother who often says that he wants to learn a technology, and he used to learn to repair cars, but then he quit if he didn't succeed.
He went to learn barbering from others, and after a month as an apprentice, he ran away again.
I heard that sticking to the floor is more profitable, so I followed it to study for two months, but as a result, I still didn't make any money.
With his younger brother's unlearned appearance, he really has a headache when he looks at it.
But he also has no way to talk about his younger brother, and every time he talks about him, his mother will have a lot of opinions, saying that he is not qualified to talk about his younger brother.
So then he didn't care.
This time, he didn't get the money back, and Lu Yu was also very angry.
I saw my husband hanging his head.
Lu Yu was angry and didn't fight anywhere: "What, your parents don't give a penny?"”
Tan Jie nodded.
Lu Yu said: "Okay, then in the future, the affairs of your family will no longer have anything to do with me, whether it is your parents' or your brother's, I will not care about it in the future."
Don't blame me for being ruthless.
I don't give money when I get married, I don't give money to buy a house, I don't help take care of it when I am Minmin, and I don't lend us a little money to renovate the house now.
Tan Jie, you remember it for me.
It's not that I'm unkind, it's that your parents are unjust. ”
In this way, Lu Yu was so angry that he didn't sleep all night.
Later, it was a patchwork of things to renovate the house.
In this process, in fact, Lu Yu really endured a lot of things.
And my husband is the same as the mud every time, and he maintains his in-laws in various ways.
Of course, this time it was even more excessive, and people bought a car for the uncle without making a sound, 200,000 yuan.
With all his savings, he bought a car for his younger brother.
I dare to say that whoever puts this matter on, everyone will be angry.
Lu Yu really couldn't pass this level in his heart.
All, she mustered up the courage to send to her husband again: "Let's get a divorce, I'm tired, I married you when I wanted to live a good life with you, but now, I'm living with your family, I'm really fed up."
The house and the children belong to me, you can go out of the house by yourself, and you will live with your parents and brother in the future.
Thank you for taking care of me all these years, I did feel your sincerity, but now, I am really disappointed in you, please let me go. ”
After she sent it, she didn't receive a reply from her husband for a long time.
Seeing that there were few people in the milk tea shop at night, Lu Yu suddenly felt very lonely.
He ordered a cup of milk tea, drank it and walked out.
This time she didn't want to forgive her husband so easily.
So walking aimlessly on the streets, because she didn't want to go back either.
The streets are bustling with people, and in this small city, the night is quite lively.
But her heart was very sad.
I don't know how long it took to walk?Suddenly, a car stopped next to her.
Lu Yu thought it was just someone else's car, so she continued to walk forward, but as a result, she went a little further, and the car followed a little further.
It wasn't until Lu Yu stopped directly and looked at the car that she realized that her husband was coming.
My husband said, "Don't leave when you get in the car, hurry up." ”
The wind was blowing, and she was wearing too little, so it was a little cold.
She thought to herself that even if she wanted to be angry, she couldn't joke with her body, so she immediately turned on the co-pilot and got into the co-pilot of the car, closed the door, and immediately felt warm.
After getting into the car, Lu Yu was still very angry.
She huffed and didn't speak.
My husband spoke first, and he asked very gently, "Are you wearing so little cold?"”
As he spoke, he stretched out his hand again to take Lu Yu's hand.
Lu Yu immediately shook his hand away.
My husband still didn't give up, he continued: "Lu Yu, don't be angry. I know it's wrong, I really know it's wrong, don't get a divorce, okay?
I don't want to get divorced, I said that you will be my wife for the rest of your life, I will not get divorced, I will accompany you to old age.
We haven't reached the age of 50 yet, and we're not halfway through our lives, so how can we get divorced?My Tan Jie's wife in this life is only you. ”
After saying this, Tan Jie stopped talking.
Lu Yu was actually a little shaken in her heart, but she didn't speak, she was still looking forward to her husband assuring her of something.
When I got to the traffic light again, my husband stretched out his hand again, but Lu Yu threw it away again.
Seeing that there were still dozens of seconds left in the traffic light, Tan Jie directly took off his coat and quickly covered Lu Yu's legs.
Lu Yu was surprised by her husband's move.
He actually knew that he would be cold.
My heart was even more touched.
The red light had passed, and Tan Jie continued to drive the car forward.
For a few minutes, neither of them spoke again.
It wasn't until two minutes before he got home that my husband spoke again.
I'll go to my brother tomorrow and ask him to send us an IOU, don't worry, I'll get this money back later, don't be angry anymore, and don't even think about divorce.
I don't agree, and Min Min won't either. ”
Lu Yu didn't speak, but in fact, the idea of divorce in his heart was not so strong now.
That's right, both of them are almost 50 years old, and their daughters are so old.
has a house and a car, and it seems impossible to divorce because of this matter.
After all, Tan Jie is usually very good to herself, but after she is divorced, who can treat her daughter like Tan Jie?
Thinking of this, Lu Yu didn't seem to be so angry.
When he arrived at the underground parking lot in the community, after Tan Jie parked the car, he got out of the car, went around the front of the car again, and opened the co-pilot's door, Lu Yu was still angry and didn't want to come out.
Tan Jie bent down to pull her.
Lu Yu walked out and just wanted to leave.
Tan Jie squatted down and motioned for her to climb up.
Lu Yu's eyes were red, and his eyes were full of tears.
My husband still didn't get up, and said very gently, "Come up." ”
Lu Yu jumped up directly.
The husband began to walk step by step, and Lu Yu lay on his shoulder. It had been a long time since the two of them had been like this.
The last time Tan Jie carried her was a few years ago.
In the blink of an eye, they have passed so many years.
The journey home was long and close.
Lu Yu hopes that this road will not reach the end so soon.
So, after they reconciled, would the uncle be willing to write an IOU?
My husband compromised this time, so what will my in-laws think of Lu Yu?
Will the brothers turn against each other because of these 200,000?
To be continued).