When I was young, I played with an older sister who was two years older than me, and I said to that sister, let's dress up the doll together, and that sister said something that I remember vividly.
The sister said, what are we doing when we dress up dolls, we might as well dress up ourselves, yes, pleasing ourselves is a major event in life.
A truly wonderful life, in fact, is just like Jia Pingwa said, there is only one criterion - live an interesting life. Only by living an interesting life can we please ourselves and be the highest state of life.
Living an interesting life is definitely an alternative luxury for the generations before and after Jia Pingwa who grew up and lived in the smoke and flames of war, lack of food and struggle, but in this era of material abundance, it is indeed something that young people can touch and grasp.
Even if you come to this world, you can't come in vain, you must live out of the realm of life, be a person of temperament, please yourself, and don't ask anything. Pleasing oneself is not only an attitude towards life, but also a way of self-cultivation. Let us gradually discover the happiness and beauty in our hearts in the precipitation of the years.
The years are quiet, may you find the original self in the flow of time, and then learn to cherish and learn to please yourself. Everyone has their own shining points, discover them more and amplify them. Please yourself, from now on.
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