When he received his parents, Chen Yan had just come out of the workshop, looking tired.
Looking at his mother's slightly old face displayed on his phone, his heart felt a little sour: "Mom, is there something wrong?"”
Son, seeing that the Chinese New Year is coming again, will you and Xiaoqiu come back with the child for the New Year?”
Mom, you know, I can't say for sure, wait until I go home and discuss it with Xiaoqiu. ”
Son, your dad and I both know it's wrong, we've been apologizing to you for 5 years, why can't you forgive us?
I miss you, I miss my grandson ......”
Mother wiped her tears in **, Chen Yan was irritable for a while, he knew this was the case, why bother in the first place!
Chen Yan and Yan Xiaoqiu met at work. The love of young people is sometimes so simple, it is determined for life at a glance.
This relationship was opposed by Xiaoqiu's mother, because Xiaoqiu is a girl in the city and an only daughter, and at home, she is the treasure of the whole family.
On the other hand, Chen Yan's hometown is rural, and he has nothing but a bachelor's degree.
Xiaoqiu's mother persuaded Xiaoqiu that marriage is not a matter of two people, but a matter of two families.
When you accept Chen Yan, you must also accept his original family, and even you have to integrate into that family:
Especially in the countryside, there are many customs and Xi that you have never been exposed to in the city, can you adapt to it?”
Xiaoqiu, who was in love, said to her mother: "I believe in Chen Yan, he will reconcile these things." ”
It turns out that Xiaoqiu is not wrong. Although his mother's family gave him a house when he got married, Chen Yan still paid 400,000 yuan to buy a house.
He said that as a man, he had to give his dear woman a sense of security. This sense of security comes from one word, and that is "home".
Because of his move, he greatly changed the impression in his mother-in-law's heart, so in the future, every time Xiaoqiu had a little temper, his mother-in-law always looked at him.
And Chen Yan's father and mother are also quite satisfied with the daughter-in-law in the city, although she is an only daughter, she is never pampered. When I returned to my mother-in-law's house with Chen Yan, I would take the initiative to cook and help my mother-in-law cook.
What is marriage?Marriage is about tolerance and understanding between each other, and by extension, between two families.
In Chen Yan and Xiaoqiu's marriage, both parents gave them a lot of help.
For this reason, the young couple is quite content, and they are also very grateful for the dedication of their parents.
In the first year of their marriage, they were sent back to the countryside by their reasonable father-in-law and mother-in-law for the New Year.
Xiaoqiu's father said that the new daughter-in-law must go back to her in-law's house for the New Year in the first year, one is to get to know the elders in the family, and the other is to let the people in the village know that there are new people in the family, and they can also earn enough face for their in-laws.
Knowing that after the young couple went home for the New Year, Chen Yan's parents installed heating in the house early, but they were afraid that they would neglect their new daughter-in-law.
The little two are still a little happy at home, especially Xiaoqiu grew up in the city, and those customs and Xi in the countryside are like a new continent in her eyes, both curious and fun.
Her in-laws also spoiled her, and Chen Yan also took care of her emotions, so she lived happily throughout the Spring Festival, and when she went back, she was still reluctant.
In the second year, a big fat boy Chen Zishuo was added to the family, because of the child, the countryside that Gu Nian did not have a good time as the city to keep warm, and the little couple went back to their parents' house and did not return to the countryside.
And the child is not used by the mother-in-law, Xiaoqiu's mother is retired, and she is idle at home, and the young couple will send the child to her mother's house when they go to work.
In the third year, Zishuo has grown into a doll who sees love, and her father-in-law and mother-in-law will talk every time they hit **, and the little couple wants to go back to their hometown during the Spring Festival.
And that's exactly what they do.
Who knew that it was because of this return to her hometown that the relationship between Xiaoqiu and her in-laws fell to a freezing point.
When the old couple saw their eldest grandson, they didn't know how to hurt well, they had to find food for a while, they had to find something to play for a while, and they were reluctant to let go of their hands in their arms.
Xiaoqiu told her parents-in-law that Zishuo's spleen and stomach are weak, and she has many allergies: "Especially peanuts, you can't get a little ...... of peanuts."”
The father-in-law and mother-in-law promised in their mouths, but they did not go to their hearts.
My father-in-law loves to have a drink, and every afternoon, my mother-in-law will always give him the whole side dish, and I will take two bites.
After returning home, Chen Yan would accompany his father to drink a little every afternoon.
Xiaoqiu didn't object, wine, as long as it wasn't too much, it couldn't be considered a bad thing.
But the bad thing is that my father-in-law's favorite appetizer is fried peanuts.
A child who is more than a year old, picking up the master who can nibble on two bites, Zishuo showed great interest in the red fruit on the plate.
Watching the grandson grabbing the peanuts on the plate with his chubby little hands, the father-in-law and mother-in-law had already forgotten Xiaoqiu's advice, and the mother-in-law was still afraid of the child, so she put the peanuts on the plate and crushed them with a spoon and fed them to the child.
The child also gave noodles and ate several grains in one go. By the time Xiaoqiu found out, the child's neck and chest were already covered with red rashes.
Mom, didn't I tell you that children can't eat peanuts?”
I think he really wants to eat, children, he can eat whatever he likes, why is he so strictly controlled?
Besides, sometimes you can't listen too much to the doctors, and most of them are ...... to scare people”
Did you know he was allergic?Allergies are terrible, and you can see that he has a rash on his neck and chest now!
Really, why don't you take my words seriously?You can't hurt a child like this!”
Xiaoqiu picked up the child and ran out, and while running, she took out ** and called Chen Yan who was hanging out outside:
Come back quickly, your parents have given the child peanut ......”
That year, they spent it in the hospital, and after the child was healed, Xiaoqiu went back to the city directly.
My father-in-law and mother-in-law also knew that they were in trouble, and they were kicked out by Xiaoqiu several times when they went to the hospital.
Looking at his weak son on the hospital bed, Chen Yan was also distressed in his heart.
He complained to his parents why they didn't listen to XiaoqiuThe parents said, "We didn't expect it to be so powerful......”
Chen Yan was anxious and angry: "Forget it, don't come here all day, Xiaoqiu is angry, wait for a period of time, the child is better, her mood has calmed down, let's talk about it......."”
But since Xiaoqiu took the children back to the city, even if her in-laws came to apologize, she didn't see them.
She said to Chen Yan: "I know that my parents-in-law really love their children, but I can't forgive them for knowingly committing crimes, and I don't dare to put my children in front ......of them with confidence."”
Since then, for 5 years, the child and Xiaoqiu have never returned to their hometown again.
Every time I beat **, my father sighed, and my mother often shed tears, but Chen Yan didn't dare to make a promise to them.
Because he knew that Xiaoqiu was really scared that time.
However, in the past year, he has often tested Xiaoqiu in and out of words, whether he can let the child get along with his grandparents normally, and Xiaoqiu's attitude has been relaxed.
The child is also older, and he can and cannot eat what he can eat and he can remember very clearly.
In addition, her father-in-law and mother-in-law also once persuaded Xiaoqiu that her parents-in-law's heart was not bad, and their love for their children would even exceed her.
As for that time, it can only be regarded as an accidental ......
Chen Yan thought, go home and discuss it with Xiaoqiu, and then let her father-in-law and mother-in-law do her work again.
Parents already know that they are wrong, they are old, and they get along with their grandchildren day by day.
I hope that Xiaoqiu will look at her face and be able to let go of the past, so that she will not have regrets for the rest of her life, the rest of her parents' lives, and the rest of her children's lives.