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When two people are together, they are reluctant to reveal their hearts, neither is willing to express their truest feelings, neither is willing to talk to each other from the heart, and when the other party opens their hearts and tells their hearts, they do not have the patience to listen.
For each other's affairs, they lack understanding, and they are not willing to understand each other, even if there is communication, they talk very shallowly, even if there is an intersection, it is only a superficial coping with each other;Two people who treat each other's love with such an attitude, even if they have known each other for a long time, their relationship is still stagnant, and it is difficult to develop deeply.
On the contrary, when two people are together, they can pay attention to each other, pay a lot of attention to each other's things, often pay attention to each other's living conditions, do things that maintain the relationship between two people, and over time, they will fall in love. Between the opposite sex, often doing these things, it is easy to have feelings for each other, have you ever felt the same way?
1.Fall in love and have a deep conversation.
When two people are together, they rarely cross the line to joke, rarely say something emotional, they are reluctant to open the topic to express their opinions, they are not willing to talk about their own affairs, they will pay attention to the proportions, and they will not casually ask each other some more personal questions.
If they don't casually ask each other about their feelings, they don't casually ask each other about their privacy, just because two people keep their distance and are unwilling to talk more deeply, it is often difficult for their relationship to develop qualitatively.
On the contrary, between the opposite sex, the boundaries will be diluted, the two will often ask each other some personal questions, will be very concerned about each other's emotional problems, will often mix together to talk about each other's affairs, will open topics for in-depth conversations, the two have ideological integration, but also spiritual communication, chat will stimulate their desire for further communication, and finally there will often be in-depth development.
2.Inseparable, do things together.
Some people of the opposite sex, who originally hit it off, have the "possibility" of coming together, they appreciate each other, recognize each other, and are willing to play together, and then because of different choices, they separate, and the connection between the two gradually decreases, at first, they will keep in touch and greet each other, and over time, their connection decreases, and over time, they begin to lose contact.
Two people just have a good relationship, but there is no willingness and conditions for frequent contact, and the two people finally feel that their good feelings for each other will slowly fade, just like many confidants and blue confidants, after separation, if they don't contact for a long time, this love will slowly fade away.
On the contrary, when the opposite sex is together, they will feel very sweet, if they are separated, they will be very reluctant, they will care about each other, they will take the initiative to contact each other, they will do something hand in hand, two people have the willingness to communicate, and take the initiative to create conditions for meeting, the two have more and more intersections in life, and finally often love each other for a long time.
3.We share our ups and downs in life and support each other.
When two people are together, they do not share hardships, they treat each other coldly, they don't care enough about each other's affairs, they rarely ask each other's living conditions, they don't care about each other's affairs, they don't care about what happens in each other's lives, they don't care at all, and they rarely interfere in each other's affairs.
On the contrary, when two people are together, they share ups and downs, no matter how the other person develops, they are optimistic about each other, and they are willing to protect each other and advance and retreat together.
Two people support each other in life, warm each other, when the other party is in trouble, they will be willing to pull each other, which can often enhance each other's good feelings, and finally can often close the distance between two people, as a result, two people often develop the Xi of needing each other, who can not do without whom, it is a natural thing to come together.