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After a woman gets married, she is always very confused, casually talks about her husband's affairs, mentions the shortcomings of her husband and her husband's family in front of her girlfriends, and when she encounters unhappy things in her husband's family, she likes to complain to outsiders and seek help from outsiders.
Sometimes, when a woman has a dispute with a man, and a woman has the idea of breaking up, she will find someone to talk to her, ask for other people's opinions, and ask whether she should divorce.
It is easy for a woman to tell others about things in marriage, and let others express their views on their married life, sometimes, women do not think clearly at all, just vent negative emotions, just express their dissatisfaction, obviously women have such external performance, it is inappropriate. The so-called "family has difficulties", how do outsiders manage women's housework?Moreover, most of the quarrels between husband and wife occur at the head and end of the bed, and it is not wise to let outsiders participate in the marriage of the two. A wise woman will leave 3 eyes after marriage, this is foresight!
1.Don't tell outsiders about your husband's family.
When a woman leaves her mother's house to marry into her husband's family, and occasionally returns to her parents' house and returns to a familiar place, does it really produce a familiar feeling?The so-called "married daughter pours water" may not be true, but in many families, once the daughter is married, the mother's family is not good at controlling the daughter's affairs.
A woman has to deal with her mother-in-law's family, and it is inevitable that there will be disagreements with her mother-in-law's family.
The woman likes to tell her parents all the things she has experienced in her husband's house, and so her in-laws and her husband have some embarrassing things, some unhappy things that she has encountered in her husband's house, and the woman says to her parents that whether her family is laughing at her mother-in-law's family, or for her family to manage things that happen in her husband's house, it is unnecessary and will create some unnecessary trouble.
A woman is already an adult, and if there are no big problems and trivial things in the marriage, they should be solved by themselves, and they must be solved by themselves. A wise woman, knowing this, knows that she should be responsible for her choices, believes that she is capable of solving problems in her marriage, she will be the first to take responsibility for her marriage and will not casually tell her family and friends in her marriage.
2.Don't talk about the "goodies" of the opposite sex.
In fact, in marriage, women have to deal with various "boundary relationships", and since they have chosen a wife, they should keep their distance when dealing with other members of the opposite sex.
It is inevitable that women will deal with other members of the opposite sex, and it is inevitable that they will meet some good, excellent members of the opposite sex, which women may appreciate and will secretly compare themselves with their partners.
At this time, women should know that "this is the end", and then thinking about it will only make their lives worse.
Some women, in married life, like to talk to their husbands about other members of the opposite sex, referring to the excellence of other members of the opposite sex, and talking about the "goodness" of other members of the opposite sex to her, these are very unwise, and smart women will not say these words, so as not to cause unnecessary family disputes.
3.Be financially independent and stick to your own business.
At this time, it is very difficult for a woman, not only to take care of her husband and children, but also to support her family, it is not easy, women can do this, basically they can stand tall in the world.
If a woman does not understand this, after marriage she gives up her career and is financially dependent on men, and women often reach out to men just to make concessions to men in other parts of life, how can a woman stand proudly in the world?
A wise woman will remain financially independent after marriage and stick to her career. Because this will allow her to maintain an elegant life, and it will allow him to live a more leisurely life.