We are born to pursue a happy and perfect life, but because everyone's starting point is different, when you want to force your pursuit of happiness to reach the full level, this process will only make you feel very painful.
In the bustling and noisy world, the happiness that belongs to each of us is not the same from the beginning.
Some people like mountains and flowing water, sweeping snow and making tea, and some people like to stand at the peak of power and wealth, looking down on the ...... of all beingsFor a person who grew up in the countryside, the biggest dream when he grows up is to earn enough money to return to his hometown, while for children who grew up in the city, they have not experienced the happiness of the countryside.
So you see, many of the people who like to go to parks, like to go hiking, like to immerse themselves in nature are coming out of small towns.
And those who are obsessed with shopping in shopping malls, like to eat and drink in the mall on Saturdays and weekends, **there is a lively to**, **there are Internet celebrity stores must go to check in and try, most of them are people who have lived in the city since childhood, because they are used to this kind of life.
Everyone's way of obtaining happiness is different, but our pursuit of happiness is the same, which is why every holiday, many people will always have a sense of sadness and loneliness in the excitement.
Because you will feel that happiness belongs to others, as if it has nothing to do with yourself.
All kinds of happiness in the circle of friends, it looks so warm, it seems that many people have lived the life they want, and it seems that many people have lived the life we desire, the smile on their faces is so bright, they are so happy, but what about their own lives?But it's like a mess.
Compared with others, there is always disappointment and frustration enveloping you, and at this time, it will always make people doubt their ability and worth.
is not too young, and he still achieves nothing like this, is he destined to be a failure?
Many people who struggle in the city have seen all the glitz and felt the huge gap between their peers because of their families and themselves, so they began to get used to labeling their original family as "bad", and at the same time painted a picture of failure for their own growth experience.
has made great efforts, squandered countless sweat and tears, but there is still a huge gap with others, and the inner pain is struggling, in addition to questioning his own ability, he will doubt whether he can really have happiness
We see the happiness of others on holidays, and we will feel invisible pressure and sting, but look at ourselves, it seems that there is nothing to post, but at this time, you ask yourself, do you really want to show your own happy life?
The purpose of many people's moments is actually to get the attention and likes of others, to prove their worth with the recognition of others, and to pin their happiness on the evaluation and recognition of others.
Please be sure to understand a truth, the happiness you see in other people's circle of friends does not mean that other people's lives are really happy, that is just the side they want to show you to know.
Many people on the Internet say what Internet celebrities**, that is, places that look particularly beautiful on the Internet, but when they go to real places, they find that it is just so, many of us also have this feeling when we go to travel, and we are very much looking forward to it, and it is very beautiful to see what others have taken**and**, but it is also very general to find out when I go to it.
The same is true of the happiness of the circle of friends, just the tip of the iceberg, we see people's tents and wine barbecue, we can't see people setting up tents, dismantling tents, living in it is panicked, carrying a bunch of equipment is tired to death, and finally have to clean up the garbage, and it is hot in the tent in summer, and the mosquitoes are fed outdoors, and it is cold in winter, and the cool breeze is blowing, in fact, it is really not as comfortable as lying on the sofa at home.
True happiness is actually very complex and multi-dimensional, it includes many aspects such as happiness, satisfaction, achievement and growth.
When we get caught up in comparisons with others, we tend to fall into the illusion that "they are happier than I am." However, this comparison is meaningless. Everyone has their own unique life trajectory and values, and the happiness we pursue is also different. Some people seek material satisfaction and social approval, while others focus more on inner peace and spiritual growth.
We cannot allow the happiness of others to become a pressure and constraint on ourselves. We should learn to appreciate our lives and cherish what we have.
Maybe our family of origin isn't perfect, maybe our upbringing was full of ups and downs, but that doesn't mean we can't have happiness.
Many times, it's easy to get a cause and effect wrong.
We always think, when I have money, what am I going to do, what kind of life am I going to live.
We always understand a happy life as must be obtained after having money and success or realizing dreams, in fact, on the contrary, think about what you really need in your heart, don't tell me to buy luxury goods, material happiness can not really make you happy, know what will make you live in peace and tranquility in this world, you will know what you really want in your heart.
Don't be afraid of the future, try to live the present.
Don't feel inferior and cowardly, believe that you have the courage to face life and pursue your dreams, and believe that you can succeed.
Don't talk about your own value and happiness pinned on the evaluation and recognition of others, we must learn to stick to our hearts and believe in ourselves.
Maintain peace of mind and learn to find happiness and fulfillment in your present life.
Don't blindly pursue what others have. We must learn to cherish every moment we have, be grateful for every possession, and let our lives be full of sunshine and hope.
When you are brave enough to pursue your dreams and discover the small happiness in your life, you will find that even in ordinary life, there are endless surprises and beauty.
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