Why do children who go to college go home on vacation is different from the previous holidays

Mondo Social Updated on 2024-01-30

Autumn and Winter Check-in Challenge

The winter vacation is approaching, and the first-year children are nervous to take the high-speed train, train or plane home, and return home happily.

They have experienced half a year of "independent" life outside, and understand that only parents are good in the world, because in college, they have lost the "fox friends and dog friends" that they can play together in high school, and the taste of college life has changed again, therefore, when your children go home, they must listen to you, actively do housework, and like to chat with you and go out to play, but the most important thing is that there is a "I am about to grow up" factor in it.

I know that I don't have much time to spend with my parents.

They understand that as soon as they go to college, they have completed 70% of the time they spend with their parents, and their parents have grown old from this moment, and in the next 4 years, they can only see each other twice a year, but they are busy dating friends and falling in love, and in 4 years and 6 years, you can see each other once a year, but the hustle and bustle of the holidays will cover up the aging of your parents.

In the next 10 years, you will have your own family, your children, and you may still be able to buy a car, but when your parents sit in the passenger seat and you look in the rearview mirror, you will see a lot of gray hair on your parents' heads.

At this time, we realized that it was like a world away.

Understand that you should be like an adult.

When they get to college, they will find that they may have to rely on the support of their parents at home, and their parents get up early every day to be greedy for a few taels of silver, as children, we want to reduce the burden of our beloved, we will gradually understand, I think this should be growth.

Boy: Protect the family, have responsibilities and responsibilities, and gradually understand the father.

Girls: Gradually understand mom and become "mom".

Understand that you have to be sensible and filial.

We often hear "my parents raise me young, I raise my parents old", maybe this sentence is from this moment slowly into the child's heart and then slowly sprout and grow.

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