Graduate school used to be a dream that many people struggled to pursue, but now it has become a "besieged city" in the hearts of many people. Every year, the number of graduate students is increasing, and they are desperately studying Xi just to enter the door of graduate school. However, in the process, many people find that graduate school life is not as good as they imagined. Some people feel lost because they are confused about their profession and lack of scientific research level;Some people are unable to drop out of school due to external pressure, and they fall into a predicament from which they cannot be extricated. These people in the besieged city, unable to enter or leave, can only be trapped under this seemingly glorious aura.
However, these graduate students became people in the besieged city, and they expressed their dissatisfaction and disappointment on various social **s. Some people say that if they could do it all over again, they would rather not go to graduate school;Some have called graduate school their worst stage so far;Others said they were trying to drop out because graduate school brought them stress and pain rather than a happy life. Such complaints and complaints flood the Internet, and from time to time there are some extreme incidents related to graduate students. There is a saying in the community of graduate students: "You are only happy when you are admitted and graduated." It can be seen that the life of a graduate student is not as easy as the outside world thinks, it is completely different from the previous studies, and it has become a besieged city.
And the people who go to graduate school, each of them has their own siege. Some of them are trying to avoid work, some because they failed the college entrance examination, some because of their parents' expectations, and some even want to continue their education. Whatever the reason, they worked hard for one more option in their lives. However, they don't realize that it is not easy to go to graduate school, and it is not as easy as they imagined. Whether it is a graduate school entrance examination or graduate school, it is a difficult journey. From the moment they choose to go to graduate school, they are destined to fight alone. Although the way of going to graduate school is similar to that of other important exams, they are not accompanied by relatives and friends throughout the process, and they are the only ones from beginning to end.
However, success in the graduate school entrance examination is only half of the long march, and the road in the second half is even more difficult. The way of learning Xi graduate students is completely different from the past, and it is no longer a cramming Xi, everything depends on themselves and their supervisors. Every day, I am faced with boring Xi tasks, endless books, endless writing, endless classes, endless experiments, and endless competitions. Every stress is enough to destroy a student at the graduate level. Some persevered and made breakthroughs and successes, but many more got caught up in a struggle that could neither escape nor escape, and ended up making their graduate school life a siege. Whenever they recall that time, they only regret it.
There are "sieges" everywhere in life, and everyone has their own dilemmas and limitations. Whether it's escaping a graduate student siege or getting out of other difficult situations, it's all about personal choice and determination. Mr. Yang Jiang once said: "The siege of the city is a dilemma. "Those who are caught up in the siege of graduate school are simply inadvertently putting themselves in a dilemma. Whether it's a step forward or a step back, it's the way to break the siege, it's just a matter of individuals voluntarily trapped in this seemingly good siege.
In the book "The Siege", Fang Hongjian and Zhao Xinlin are both well-educated intellectuals. They started from the same starting point and faced the same dilemma. However, the former was pretentious and indecisive, and fell into the siege of fate;The latter is focused, capable and assertive, and finally breaks out of the predicament. In the same face of a city, they have a completely different fate, because some people choose to "lie flat" and are trapped in this city, and some people choose to keep trying and strive to break through the predicament. There will be "sieges" everywhere in life, but whether or not you can break through the walls depends on personal choice and hard work.
No matter what the dilemma, the initiative of choice is always in the hands of the individual. The existence of a siege is not to imprison us in a square inch, but to put ourselves in a difficult situation. As long as we have the courage to take a step, move forward bravely, and break through the predicament, then no city can trap us.
Graduate school life is no longer as simple and easy as the previous Xi, and many people feel lost and confused, and even regret choosing to go to graduate school. However, whether it is graduate life or other areas of life, there are various dilemmas and limitations, and we need the courage to face and choose to break through them. Perhaps, graduate school is only a stage in life, and the existence of "siege" is not so important, the key is how we face and choose. Only by bravely facing the predicament and actively solving the problem can we truly get out of the predicament and pursue the value of our life.