As a Fudan professor, I am well aware of the importance of education for children's growth. In my years of educational practice, I have found that if you can strictly control the following 6 points of your child, it will be difficult for your child to think about it.
The fourth point is to control the child's dependence. Today's children often lack the ability to be independent and autonomous, and many children are too dependent on their parents and teachers. If children can develop the Xi of autonomy, then they will be more independent and more confident to face various challenges in life.
The fifth point is to control the child's procrastination. Today's children often lack the ability to manage and plan for time, and many children are always procrastinating on tasks or cramming. If children can develop the Xi of planning, they will use their time more efficiently and complete their tasks more planned.
The sixth point is to control the child's pickiness. Today's children tend to complain and be critical of things they are not satisfied with, and lack an attitude of tolerance and understanding. If children can develop the Xi of tolerance, then they will be more understanding of others and more tolerant of all kinds of imperfections in life.
The above six points are the experiences I have summed up in my educational practice, and they are also the six aspects that I think are the most important for children's growth. If parents can strictly control their children in these six aspects, it will be difficult for children to think about it. Of course, this requires the patience and persistence of parents, and the joint efforts of families and schools.