The child has these 3 habits, which means that he is in "long-term mental internal friction", and I hope that none of your family will be occupied
Look, brothers and sisters, has your little kid done something wrong lately?
Don't worry, maybe I have a fight with my little cub.
Today you uncover a huge fog, which is the pit of the cubs' long-term mental internal friction, and my baby almost fell into it.
I still remember that at the beginning, this kid in my family got a smartphone, and it felt quite fashionable.
Unexpectedly, this mobile phone became his poisonous weed, and began to slowly subvert everything about him.
In the dead of night, his room was dimly lit, like a little electronic fanatic, and it was harder for me to talk to him than it was to pry a safe.
I tried to communicate sensibly, and he ended up being like a robot to me, staring at his phone.
Gradually, the academic performance of this product also began to collapse, and I suddenly felt a handful of suspense in my heart.
Following the invasion of the electronic artifact, I observed that the little one's social skills began to decline significantly.
From an enthusiastic and cheerful child, he has become a taciturn little mute, who only talks to the screen every day.
He was reluctant to participate in activities at home and at school, and socializing was like a desert, separating him from the outside world.
I recalled the fun times he used to have at school, laughing and playing with his friends.
Now, it's all a thing of the past.
The child's world seemed to be reduced to only virtual friends and cold screens, and I was starting to feel a little remorseful.
The cub originally had a different kind of enthusiasm for learning, but slowly, his dislike for school spread faster and faster.
Homework has become a mountain he dare not climb, and his heart is no longer on it.
It was so painful for me to think in the middle of the night: what the hell was I missing?Did he step on the road of his growth?
Parents, you say, what should I do?
Time is a good thing, isn't it?
Slowly, I began to awaken.
I began to pay attention to the details of his body and try to understand the real needs of his heart.
It's no longer a small problem for an individual, it's a problem for the whole family.
I found that our family was starting to lose real communication and became estranged.
I understand that this is not just a problem for the children, but for our whole family.
Action is more important than everything, and that became my motto at the time.
I decided to reduce the amount of time he spends on electronics and guide him to rediscover the joy of life.
At the same time, I actively seek professional help to try to understand the real needs of my child's heart.
It's not easy to pass the heart, but slowly, we see a glimmer of change.
The child began to reintegrate into social interactions, and the light of learning re-lit his eyes.
The purpose of sharing this experience with you today is to hope to awaken the attention of more families.
We all live in an information bubble, but we need real love and companionship even more.
Don't let your children get lost in the virtual world, we should work together to help them get back to their real lives.
If you find out that your child has the same problem, don't be afraid, don't run away.
Take action to help them get back to their real lives.
Children are the most precious treasure in our lives.
Let us perceive with our hearts and lead with love, so that they can thrive in this colorful world.
May every family be a warm harbor for children, so that they can thrive in happiness.