At the beginning of the Chu Palace, Mi Yue and Mi Shu had their own favorite people, and there was no conflict of interest. Mi Yue also promised Mi Shu that as long as it was her sister's beloved, she would never compete with you.
However, due to a series of accidents, Miyue strayed into the Qin Palace, and in order to protect herself and her family, she was forced to become the concubine of the King of Qin, thus gaining power and status.
Mi Yue's choice to become a member of King Qin was undoubtedly out of helplessness, but unexpectedly, King Qin's favor for Mi Yue even surpassed Mi Shu.
Mi Shu's jealousy reaches the extreme, and she holds a grudge against Mi Yue for taking away her husband's favor, because she was once a close and good sister, but in the end she suffered a harrowing end.
Mi Shu is a gentle, virtuous and noble woman, and Mi Yue is just her marriage partner, so why did Mi Shu finally lose to Mi Yue in terms of feelings.
In today's article, we will **Why does King Qin prefer Miyue and ignore Mishu?This is a very interesting topic, and I would like to elaborate on the following three aspects. There are three main reasons for this.
Mi Shu lost to Mi Yue, largely because she was too active in front of King Qin.
We often say that when you have a crush on someone, you should show a positive and proactive attitude. If you don't take the initiative, you're likely to be preempted by someone else. But in love life, if women are too positive, they may be scorned by men.
Take, for example, the incident of the bedchamber.
The first time Mi Shu shared a bed with the King of Qin was when the King of Qin went to the State of Chu to propose marriage. At that time, the eight characters of Mi Shu and King Qin had not yet intersected, so Mi Shu went to the post house under the cover of night and cooked with King Qin.
In the words of Empress Wei, Mi Shu's behavior is to lower her status and be willing to fall.
Although it was understandable that the unmarried romance between men and women was understandable in that era when Chu Feng was prevalent, Mi Shu, as the orthodox princess of Chu State, actually chose to meet secretly with a strange man in the middle of the night, which undoubtedly had a certain impact on the reputation of the nobles of Chu State.
Considering that Qi Shu was so urging King Qin, King Qin might feel that her value had decreased.
Often, it is better for women to be more reserved in front of men. An overly casual woman like Mi Shu may make King Qin feel that it is easy to obtain rather than truly cherish.
In order to persuade the king of Chu to agree to her marriage contract with the king of Qin, she even publicly expressed her heart with the king of Qin in front of the ministers of the court. This series of actions not only made her brother lose face, but also put her in a predicament from which she could not turn back.
Imagine, if the final marriage contract between the King of Chu and the King of Qin is not reached, and Mi Shu unexpectedly becomes pregnant again, won't the rest of her life be destroyed?
It is undeniable that Mi Shu was obviously at a disadvantage in the early relationship with King Qin. Her overly positive attitude tends to make men lose the courage to challenge and may be more pampered for a while. But when that novelty wears off, she may feel that life has become boring.
Compared with Mi Shu, Mi Yue has a deeper understanding of strategies and games in relationships.
In front of King Qin, Mi Yue showed more passivity and reserve. She worked hard to increase the investment of the King of Qin in her, and it was not until the King of Qin made a great sacrifice for her that Miyue's relationship with the King of Qin was further deepened.
It is human nature that the more difficult it is to obtain, the more it is worth cherishing. Mrs. Mi Shu was too proactive, causing King Qin to get her too easily. Therefore, King Qin may not cherish her efforts enough, but Mi Yue knows that she has to refuse and accept, delaying gratification, which makes her emotionally dominant.
Not only was Mi Shu too proactive, but she also made a serious mistake, that is, she cared so much about King Qin's views that the people she cared about even lost themselves.
From the night of their wedding, King Qin told Mi Shu that he didn't like the women in the harem to cause strife and intrigue, so Mi Shu began to swallow her anger as much as possible, for fear of accidentally making King Qin feel unhappy.
Mi Shu's continued concessions not only did not help her maintain her feelings, but made King Qin feel that she lacked enough courage and ability to manage the harem.
Although King Qin had made it clear that he didn't like the harem women's way of life, when things did happen, Mi Shu should face them bravely and not just adopt a passive defensive strategy.
In fact, King Qin doesn't care if you cause trouble. If you choose to take the initiative to "cause trouble", you may end up suppressing the concubines of the harem, thus purifying the atmosphere of the harem. For this situation, King Qin should not have too many objections.
Frankly, women can perfectly meet men's expectations, but they can't do exactly what they want. If you suppress yourself excessively and sacrifice your personality to please men, although in the short term you can avoid contradictions and conflicts, in the long run, a woman who lacks personality, men may gradually lose interest.
Compared with Mi Shu, Mi Yue's personality is more unique and distinct. She will not simply suppress her personality to cater to the wishes of King Qin. Even in the case of disagreement with King Qin's point of view, Mi Yue had the courage to hold the opposite view with King Qin.
King Qin had seen his concubines bow their heads in front of him many times, but if anyone dared to raise objections to him, King Qin would naturally look at him differently.
Mi Shu is too partial to King Qin in life, which is one of the reasons why King Qin is indifferent to Mi Shu.
In everyday life, there is a type of woman who, once in love, plunges herself into the whirlpool of love.
In pursuit of the so-called love, he gave up his career, social networks and personal interests to revolve around a man all day.
When a man is happy and comforts her with a few words, a woman can be happy all day, but if a man snubs her, the woman will be like losing her soul and will not be interested in whatever she does.
It is no exaggeration to say that Mi Shu was like this from the beginning, she focused all her energy and energy on King Qin, and King Qin's favor for other women kept Mi Shu awake at night, and her mood was very heavy.
Although King Qin was the ruler of the country and had three thousand harem beauties, it was impossible for him to favor just one person.
Instead of devoting all of your time to meaningless jealousy and jealousy, do something more rewarding.
Mi Yue is obviously more rational and objective in dealing with feelings.
In the case of Mi Yue, when she first began to sleep, King Qin's favor lasted for more than two months, which led to heated discussions in the harem.
Madame Win admonishes Mi Yue to know when to stop and avoid too many conflicts with the enemy.
After listening to Mrs. Win's advice, Mi Yue returned to the palace and chose to pretend to be sick to avoid favor.
When the King of Qin took Mi Yue to the other concubines, Mi Yue did not show jealousy or sadness, but happily started the activities of the firefly lantern with her maidservant.
Miyue knows that the affection of the monarch cannot belong to just one woman, so during the days when she is not favored, Miyue strives to live every day, devoting herself to self-management instead of wasting time in jealousy.
After all, focusing all of your life on a king who is destined not to be wholeheartedly can easily make people physically and mentally exhausted and worry about gains and lossesSecond, it is easy to give up on oneself. Secondly, it will also have an impact on the autonomous development of the individual.
In the end, King Qin's preference for Miyue and his neglect of Mi Shu came down to the fact that Miyue brought more challenges to King Qin. In order to win Miyue, King Qin paid a huge price, and those things that were usually difficult to obtain would become more precious when obtained.