In contemporary society, some college students choose to rely on their parents at home, using the excuse of preparing for the civil service exam or pursuing graduate school, rather than actively integrating into social work. For this phenomenon, a mother had a big quarrel with her son, and even said that she would sever the relationship between mother and child. The incident sparked widespread discussion and support, with parents worried about their children's blind gnawing and believing that more guidance and support should be given to their children.
Some university students choose to prepare for the civil service or graduate school for a long time at home, and do not actively integrate into social work. A year or two may be understandable, but over time, this behavior can have a negative impact on the child's growth and independence. They may lose the ability to face challenges and pressures, lack self-restraint and independent thinking. In addition, staying at home for a long time can easily disconnect from society and hinder future career development.
The demand for career planning and psychological counseling for college students has gradually become prominent. More and more college students are choosing to prepare for the civil service exam, which is not only a pursuit of a stable career, but also a response to social competition. However, some students only superficially prepare for the civil service exam, but in practice they avoid other responsibilities and challenges. Parents need to be sensitive to their child's behaviour to ensure that they are truly focused on the preparation process, and to communicate with their child to understand their inner feelings and provide the necessary support and guidance. In addition, parents should also pay attention to the cultivation of children's self-discipline and study habits, and help them develop positive learning attitudes and living habits. Most importantly, it guides children to understand the importance of career choices, encourages them to face social challenges positively, and cultivates the ability to think and make decisions independently.
Recently, an anxious mother publicly called out her biological son on the Internet. She said that if her son still has no future and no plan for the public examination, she decided to cut off the mother-son relationship with him. The mother recounted what happened to her son after graduating from college. My son, who has been graduating for three years, has been claiming to be preparing for the civil service exam at home, but he has never really succeeded. His mother finally found time to talk to him all morning, hoping that he would go out for a while. The mother's approach was understood and supported by many who believed that she should not let her children do nothing at home and waste time and resources. Parents said they should also be as decisive as this mother in dealing with their children and guiding them to face various challenges in society positively.
Parents are faced with a difficult choice: whether to continue to bear their child's leisurely life in silence or to put pressure on their child decisively. The mother's approach resonated widely, with many parents saying they wanted to learn from her decisive attitude. They believe that it is important to find a balance between family and social responsibility. As parents, they should give their children enough understanding and support, but they should not condone their children's inaction and inaction. In fact, behind the gnawing behavior of some college students is often hidden their uncertainty and fear of the future. Parents need to pay more attention to their children's inner feelings, understand the stress and confusion they are facing, and provide the necessary guidance and support.
The phenomenon of gnawing at old age for a long time has become a controversy in contemporary society. This phenomenon has a negative impact on the growth and independence of university students and is a waste of social resources. Parents should pay attention to the career planning and psychological counseling of college students, and guide them to face the reality and take the initiative to face challenges. At the same time, parents can learn from the mother's decisive approach to help their children develop a correct understanding and a positive attitude towards the future through communication and understanding. As the backbone of the family, the support and care of parents will have a positive impact on the growth and development of children. Only by working together in the family and society can we help college students better integrate into society and succeed in their future.