The idea of preference for sons over daughters is still deeply ingrained in society. Most families expect much more from boys than from girls, not only during pregnancy, but also after the birth of the child. Some families will continue to have children if they have two girls, but if they have two boys, most families will choose not to have children again. This phenomenon is particularly pronounced in some regions. There is a mother named Zhang Qiaoqiao, whose experience has attracted great attention from me. Zhang Qiaoqiao's family is three generations of single generation, and the first child she is pregnant with is a daughter, which makes her mother-in-law quite disappointed. When the second child was a daughter again, the mother-in-law was depressed all day, and the husband became gloomy and silent. Under the strong advocacy of her mother-in-law, Zhang Qiaoqiao reluctantly became pregnant with her third child.
In order to give birth to a boy, her mother-in-law prayed to the gods and worshiped the Buddha, and also bought a reincarnation pill that was said to guarantee the birth of a boy. According to Zhang Qiaoqiao, this kind of reincarnation pill is expensive, and the doctor promises that if you take this medicine, you can give birth to a boy 100%, but if you don't give birth to a boy, you can come to him to refund the money. At the strong suggestion of her mother-in-law, Zhang Qiaoqiao took this drug without any opinions. Eventually, she gave birth to a boy, and the whole family rejoiced, and the celebration party was held for more than a dozen tables. The child's name is Yu Weihui, and his nickname is Mao Mao, because of the love of his family and the family's patriarchal thinking, he has been given special care since he was a child. This excessive pampering caused him to eat irregularly and eat snacks frequently, which led to the development of his breasts starting around the age of 9.
This story made me think deeply: patriarchal thinking is not just a prejudice, but an injustice. In China, the concept of equality between men and women should be more widely disseminated and recognized. Women can also inherit the family business, continue the family lineage, and contribute to the prosperity of the family. We should work to change the stereotypes of sons over daughters, so that every child can thrive in an equal and just environment. The data shows that there is an imbalance in the gender ratio in China, and there is a serious imbalance between men and women. According to China's National Bureau of Statistics, the country's total population at the end of 2019 was 1445.1 billion people, of which the male population is 742.1 billion people, with a female population of 70.3 billion people, with a male-to-female ratio of 1053：100。
In the face of such data, it is necessary to reflect on whether the society's preference for men and women is reasonable, and whether it has caused an imbalance in the ratio of men and women. At the same time, parents need to be aware that their child's gender should not be the only criterion for what families expect from them. Every child has their own unique values and potentials, and they should be nurtured and nurtured in an equal environment, not limited by their gender. Therefore, we need to advocate more for the concept of gender equality, starting from educating children, so that they can establish the gender concept of equality between men and women and respect for everyone from an early age. At the same time, it is also necessary to work together with all sectors of society to introduce relevant policies and strengthen social publicity, fundamentally change people's stereotypes about the roles of men and women, and promote the renewal and transformation of gender concepts.
In this process, the role of ** cannot be ignored. As a self-editor, I will continue to devote myself to promoting the concept of gender equality, spreading the concept of gender equality through articles, forms and other forms, and calling on all sectors of society to work together so that every child can grow up healthily in a fair and just environment and give full play to their potential and value. Let us work together to dismantle patriarchal stereotypes and create a more equal and inclusive environment for society. The story takes place in an ordinary family, and the gender issue of a child causes panic and confusion among the family. The child is a boy on the outside, but a girl on the inside, and the family is caught off guard. Under the doctor's explanation, the family understood the gender of the child. The sex of the child is already determined at the moment of fertilization and cannot be changed after pregnancy.
The doctor also reminded everyone that some so-called gender change drugs are fraudulent and can cause physical and psychological harm to children. Therefore, parents must be cautious about these issues and not be deceived by some false information. Don't take risks for the sake of so-called boys and girls, this is the biggest harm to children.